...you're just looking for a 'good time' and not any sort of long term commitment or anything? And that you aren't looking for things to develop into that, just some fun while it lasts. I know that this is a good way to look like a pervert, but I think being upfront with what I want would be better then making someone think there might be something there that I don't want.
When I say 'good time', I pretty much just mean fooling around and sex.
2007-10-30 21:48:58 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think it's too early to say that. Just wait until she asks what you want out if it. Every girl I've ever hooked up with has asked a question like that, so I doubt you'll have to wait too long. If you just come out and say it, there's a good chance you'll just scare her off. I would be careful how you word that too. Don't tell her that "I'm just looking for a good time". Be a little more subtle with your wordage. You're living the dream buddy! Good luck!
2007-10-30 21:55:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont let these clowns on here peer pressure you into hiding your balls. There's nothing wrong with wanting a woman just for sex- she need be elated that you even want to share that with her. In this situation, simply don't say anything, just do it. Why take the chance she may leave and not want anything to do with it; with any relationship especially those with women, you need to make sure you get fed first before you go off sharing with everyone else -if you get me.
Don't go out there and blatently lie, let your actions speak for your intent. She'll get the idea, women in real life aren't quite as naive as they appear on this site.
2007-10-30 21:55:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you tell her exactly this, she will either get upset and stop seeing you, or she might be looking for the same thing (and yes girls like that too, as long as the sex is good).
2007-10-30 21:56:09 · answer #3 · answered by Bubbles 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you hit the sack, that's for sure. It is always nice to mention that upfront. You are wasting your time and money with many girls, if you don't get the message across right away.
2007-10-30 21:53:37 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it all depends on how she takes the truth is to weather u get what u want. i think u should explain yourself to her and if she takes it well, then great. but if she really likes u and is almost borderline begging u to go out with her then GET OUT! trust me as a female i see it all the time and those who are involved get really hurt. so just tell her what u want out of this thingy between u too and see what happends good luck
2007-10-30 22:10:39 · answer #5 · answered by celeste j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing says that like a 20 dollar bill.
2007-10-30 21:51:33 · answer #6 · answered by koolbreeze 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest. You'd be surprised how many women aren't looking for comittment either. Out with it!
2007-10-30 21:56:00 · answer #7 · answered by Becca 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
easy: lie. tell her you date lots of girls and you dont want her to to get hurt, so if she doesnt mind being a # in your book, you kids can kick-it. this approach attracts the type of girls YOU want--fun, easy, and w/ the same relationship desires
2007-10-30 22:02:13 · answer #8 · answered by vegascloud 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she probably thinks u want a commitment relationship, and wot put out if u tell her its just for sex...no girl will!
2007-10-30 21:51:39 · answer #9 · answered by ithinkineedahug 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the truth! DON'T lead her on! She will respect you more if you tell her that you don't want to lead her on. More than likely you will get slapped and will probably deserve it!
2007-10-30 21:52:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋