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2007-10-30 21:00:53 · 21 answers · asked by ? 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Oh my god .... this is a question from the girl .....
The guy doens't even know this.... why are you all behind him ..... Leave him alone ... and address the girl..
Tell your views to the girl ...... not attacking her ...
There is nothing wrong in loving someone. It just happens. Just don't assume that it was love at first sight.
This girl knows that person very well for 2 years.
I am sure many would have faced these situations. Now that you are elder, don't start preaching... start giving politicallly correct answers .... or talk philosophy.
Be mature, understand the situation and help the cause ....
I am not saying you should encourage the girl to love him or marry him....
How do you console the girl is more important .... If your words can convince her and make her happy.... I would be glad.
I can go ahead and advice her, but she has to know what society thinks about this.
Don't hurt her... when she is already hurt...
2007-10-30 22:46:25 · update #1
yes it is possible for a 10 to 15 year old to love a guy who is 25!
In fact this love is pure love because it cannot be lust! And why should they bother if the society accepts it or not-what does the society give genuine lovers anyway!
Till the time she matures the man can be friends with her, and make her understand!
Love is a boon not a bane! Age is no bar in pure unselfish love!
2007-11-01 04:30:57 · answer #1 · answered by anil m 6 · 11⤊ 5⤋
NO, this is a bit perverse
For adults age doesn’t make that much of a difference but for teenagers it makes a HUGE difference. The girl has not finished growing up, will have to face a sea of raging hormones and will undergo other major changes that will all effect who she is as and adult and she won’t become an adult until at least age 18.
At one time in the Deep South and early than that in many locations it was permissible for a girl as young as 12 to get married, but it was a bad idea; a hold over from the Middle Ages when a person could expect to live only 30 years. Now that a person can expect to live at least 50 years we have time to wait until the person develops into a full adult before they need to commit to forming a family and possibly having children.
Jerry Lee Lewis married a child bride. It was a tradition in the are where he was from, but when he went to England and other locations this came out and caused a lot of fans to turn against him.
According to Wikipedia: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jerry_Lee_Lewis#Scandal
“He married Jane Mitcham, his second wife, 23 days before his divorce from his first wife was final.
Lewis' turbulent personal life was hidden from the public until a 1958 British tour, when reporters learned about the twenty-three year old star's third wife, Myra Gale Brown, who also happened to be his thirteen-year-old second cousin twice removed. The publicity caused an uproar and the tour was canceled after only three concerts.”
Talk about a disaster:
He was still married
He was 23 and she was only 13
She was his second cousin twice removed.
This all but destroyed his career and kept him from reaching heights like Elvis and John Cash.
This girl could love the man like she loves her father or her brother, but not as a lover, I don’t care how long she has known him and I don’t care what her exact age is if she is below 18 then she is too young, way too young to get married. Would you marry a baby and have no idea what kind of person they would be as an adult? It is the same thing and almost as gross.
A teenager marrying an adult is just wrong, the teenager is not responsible for themselves, they are not yet a fully formed adult and I don’t even want to raise the specter of sex and child abuse; we have seen too many greedy young adult teenagers having affairs with teenagers and we know that is just plain wrong!
2007-10-31 20:59:17 · answer #2 · answered by Dan S 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The people involved in the relationship may consider it love, but I term it child molestation.Maybe by 15 the girl is old enough,but at ten she is completely ignorant of the deviousness of the world.I doubt if she has even bled yet.Fifteen year old girls going on forty are dumb as a box of rocks.Personally the communication gap between us would be so wide it may as well be aliens communicating.I don't even know what true love is in the first place.Is that when the woman grabs my head and in a low ,husky voice screams my name while I am using the education of my tongue.Or is it something more transcendental?Both I believe.These girls online from Africa who are only trying to trick the "Old Jazz Man"who say that age is only a number are insulting me.When I am in my 70's they will be in their 40's or 50's.Unless they have had Gereiatic training they will be useless to me.They have got to be very stupid to think I am that stupid.But maybe they are since the stronger tribes from off the Ivory Coast sold their own people into slavery for centuries.In reference to a question posed by Happy,see an abstact term like love has many misuses. I see I misspelled Geriatric but so what...
2007-10-31 04:37:41 · answer #3 · answered by lmott2805@yahoo.com 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
The idea of "love" today is extremely warped.
It is the focal point for most of our movies/theatre.... What can a 15 year old understand?
Only whatever she is exposed to by the general media and that it's a lovely feeling....if you're not in love, then you're not happening.
First realize that when u're a 15 yr old, u should remember that there is a time and place for everything. Right now you are in ur teens and u don't have the maturity to even understand ur closest family members, how then are you going to catch up with a 25 yr old?
Love has to be built up through mutual friendship and understanding of not just the two concerned individuals but with the consent of your families.
No point throwing away ur family ties in the aspiration of something new which you are yet not sure of which direction it will take.
2007-10-31 06:56:02 · answer #4 · answered by Carla 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
YES THEY CAN!!! I and my husband are 24 years apart, and we love eachother so much, weve been in love since i was 15 and were now married years later.. My family loves him,though skeptical at first, proven wrong by his acts of love for me AND my family. hes an amazing man, and I dont care what people think baout how we met, and what our differences are, we both Love GOD and that makes us strong. Weve been so in love since the moment we first spoke, and he has saved my life so many times, literally. Hes saved me from so much, and he asks for nothing in return but my love and I am so happy to give it to him. Hes my angel sent from heaven, Christ saved my life thru him...Hes such a wonderful man and im so thankful. Jesus sent us to a place and church where we are accepted and loved, something neither of us have evr truly had. This question is wonderful, and im behind it 1,000%!!! It can truly happen! but very rarely, only if its in the right context and God is behind it. Biblically, there is nothing wrong with such an age gap, because Gods law beats the man made, and God made sure he broke the man made law, and now were together and happier than weve ever been!!!!!!!!!!! praise the lord!!!
2007-11-01 03:10:19 · answer #5 · answered by ~*~Adina Rose's Mommy~*~ 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Let the girl to know, the man will be happy if a girl of 10-15 is loving her. It will be easier for him to persuade her for sex. Once the motto is over the man wil ask the girl to find someone else.The age of the man is for marriage and the age of the girl for marriage will be after 10 yrs .By the time the man will become a father of two,if married.It is not love at all. It is attraction to that man, may be due to any reason.The girl even doesnot know the meaning of love.Better the man, to whom the girl loves,come forward fatherly and treat the girl as child.She will understand easily.
2007-10-31 15:10:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are talking about romantic love, then NO. Kids that young aren't mature enough for romantic love. And if a 25 year old is "in love" with a 10-15 year old, that's called pedophilia and that person should be either locked up in prison or in a mental facility.
Oh, and this question is no-where near star-worthy. In fact, if I could give this a thumbs down, I would.
2007-10-31 04:05:41 · answer #7 · answered by Koosher 5 · 5⤊ 3⤋
Yes, it can be true love, despite what people think, some children are emotionally mature and can distinguish between feelings and fairy tales. If it is true love, they should both be allowed to see each other, but only in the company of the younger partner's guardians.When that one is of age then they will know if they are meant to be together, if they have both lasted that long then they probably are truly in love.Nothing should be acted upon in a sexual way until the younger one is of legal age!
2007-10-31 04:10:44 · answer #8 · answered by ͏҉ ßõhrçmrïñsÿ★ 6 · 1⤊ 4⤋
A girl of around 10 is considered a child...
The man of 25 who indulges in any romantic relations with such a small girl would be booked by police... and put behind bars... and he becomes a social outcast...
Now-a-days the crowd some times takes law in its hands and punish such rogues out in the open... on the roads…
2007-10-31 04:14:07 · answer #9 · answered by Harish Jharia 7 · 5⤊ 3⤋
No it's not possible......cannot be true love becoz one person has reached adult hood while the other is just an adolescent .......if the girl has a crush on a guy who is like 10 11 yrs older to her.....then it is just infatuation and obviously it is upto the guy to make her understand......my frnd has gone thru the same and it took her quite sometime to come to her senses!
2007-11-01 07:20:41 · answer #10 · answered by Leowiz 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋