Please read everything in story(twists & turns).
2 family friends for decades.betty(female)& etty(male)met eachother became friends.etty was abroad working betty was in college.etty left home due to issues.betty was at home.both were friends but fell in love when went through everything death of a friend,ops together.Since ettys rich educated popular handsome man,betty was geeky nerd duckling in process to become swan girl.They kept in touch by emails & phone.Both were in love etty was scared to commit betty was in love.First 2 yrs etty was wonderful but after finding out betty lied few times like sending anothers photo,height,weight white lies after 2 years for next 3 years etty used to call ***** slut whore etc by email when angry tell on bettys family.bettys lied fearing would fall in love with etty & it would not work out.So guess ettys name calling for 3 yrs by email is justified.Past 3 years back this happened now fast forward to Betty & Etty at present.Continued please read.
2007-10-30 20:38:58 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Betty is 25 gorgeous single working rich travels successful Etty 35 single reconnect after meeting again exchanging pictures.They meet after years in person again.Etty is totally in love with Betty thinks shes beautiful all misunderstandings cleared hasnt called names for past 1 yr being together directly in person not by email wants to commit marry Betty.Betty sometimes remembers years back by email etty used to call her names for almost 3 years it keeps coming back to her though etty is changed man now with age matured totally crazily in love with Betty wants to marry her.Betty does love etty.What does Betty do to stop getting reminded that years ago when in college long distance email communication for 3 years after betty lied few times etty used to call her names since now with age maturity etty has changed totally crazily loves her wants to marry her betty loves him too.Basically 7 yrs later both are grown up matured with age totally in love with eachother married kid etc.
2007-10-30 20:45:58 · update #1
Past is past.Everyone learns from their mistakes and they fell in love.Online is different from in person.Now they are grown up in love married have kids happily ever after.
2007-10-31 23:41:33 · answer #1 · answered by docfreudianslip 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are definely holding some grudge but thinking of forgiving - which is good.
Talk to Etty how you feel. He might have some bad feeling of the past also. Anyway talk it out an get the issue off your chest, might get some reassurance. If that doesn't work ... spent some $ talk to a shrink. Think of it as an investment for your relationshio + happiness. Only do so if you are sure you want to FORGIVE and FORGET but having mechanical problem removing that hurtfull memory ... otherwise, don't waste your money and time on this relationship.
2007-10-31 15:05:35 · answer #2 · answered by kwyenie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can be difficult for Betty to stop remembering the past but as long as Etty is kind and does no name calling the remembering will get dimmer and dimmer and one day she will not think of it at all. It is actually up to Etty to do no name calling ever again.
2007-10-31 07:28:19 · answer #3 · answered by bssd12000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there goes some time in my life i'll never get back.She should confont etty about the name calling.
2007-10-31 03:53:16 · answer #4 · answered by cog1233 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Essay question" is supposed to describe the answers, actually.
2007-10-31 04:14:34 · answer #5 · answered by Chipmaker Authentic 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pretty much..
2007-10-31 04:41:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋