my bf loves watching porn more than being sexual with me.. so i finally say that i will watch it with him just to make him happy, and he doesnt want to... he wants to watch it by himself! .. what is his problem.. i say i'll watch it with him even tho i HATE porn and he would rather just pleasure himself alone, and not do anything with me. wtf?
2007-10-30 07:11:38 · 15 answers · asked by *Babycakes* 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What??? I'm not a porn freak, but it is a turn on and I definitely would not pass up the offer of having my girlfriend watch it with me! He's crazy. There's nothing wrong with a guy looking at porn, but there is the point of becoming addicted to it.
2007-10-30 07:15:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would step back from this for a little while. He could be addicted and if that is the case you don't want to spend too much time on this relationship. BUT, why not just leave the topic alone for a couple weeks. Men really do just masterbate for the pleasure with no pressure. It doesn't mean they like it better than their significant others, it is just part of what men do. There is no harm in it and it isn't a disrespect to you. If your bf knows you hate porn then why would he want to subject you to it? Just give him a break for a couple weeks and see how everything plays out. If he seems obsessive then you might want to get some help but, for now, just relax.
2007-10-30 14:19:52 · answer #2 · answered by Shannon C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont mean to sound negative but different people have different likes and dislikes
and i thing i know is cant be [sexual] all the time when they meet up with ure boy friend
and if ure love him so much u should adjust
as every one does adjust to so one you like.....
abt him being addicted i guess he needs entertainment rather than do the job
something like watching football rather than play the game
2007-10-30 14:25:02 · answer #3 · answered by shane F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's one thing if he watches porn. Quite another if he prefers it to sleeping with you. Dump him, he's selfish and doesn't seem to care much about you, or, if he does, he doesn't realize that this is an issue and needs the shock of seperation to get it through.
2007-10-30 14:17:52 · answer #4 · answered by Elminster 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to find a new boyfriend. He obviously cares more about his own sexual desires than pleasing you. Don't stoop to a level you don't need to and don't subject yourself to being 2nd to a video. He's a self-centered looser and there is someone out there that would love to be with you instead of his hand.
2007-10-30 14:16:57 · answer #5 · answered by sherri s 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps it's time to find a new boyfriend. Porn shouldn't typically be an issue...but when someone prefers it over their partner, that's not kewl.
2007-10-30 14:14:27 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
One hes messed, two your not kinky enough for him. Find out what hes watching and attempt to mimic it.
You could always install a filter and watch him run back to you full arms :D
2007-10-30 14:15:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
find some1 who would rather fulfil the porn fantasies rather than just watch them... a woman has her needs 2, not just kneees
:P
lol
2007-10-30 14:14:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You answered your own question. You hate porn!! he would rather not subject you to it just because he has a desire he needs to fulfill. And you should thank him for not subjecting you to something you hate so much. Good luck
2007-10-30 14:14:27 · answer #9 · answered by Kamuela B 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
He secretly thinks that you are not worthy, so he has to pleasure himself in other ways...it is time to dump the loser.
2007-10-30 14:15:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋