At what point does it become OK to hire a professional for oral service?
Note that this happened all the time prior to marriage.
And where do I find such a professional?
2007-10-30 07:07:11 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Have you considered getting a pet instead? I recommend a fish. But make sure you select a breed that has no teeth.
Or you could just be "mole-buddies"!! (LOL, that's great!!!)
2007-10-30 07:37:04 · answer #1 · answered by Fu Quan 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It is sad that you have asked this question. You seriuosly need to talk to your wife and find out why she is nort interested in performing this anymore. Consider this do you ever perform oral sex on her if not it would be pretty selfish to request this of her.
I think you need some lessons in marriage becuase at the moment you are walking a down a path to divorce and expensive alimony payments. If you are thinking this way you have have cared for your wife and should not have married in the first place.
By asking this you are showing everyone that you are selfish,
and disrespectful of your wife and her feelings. have you ever considered that her emotional and physical needs are not being met and she is becoming distant with you because she sees that you only care about your own needs and
pleasure?. Stop thinking that just because your married that your wife is suppose to be a sex slave. If you want a divorce continue with this mentality and way of thinking if you do not want a divorce read next line!
You need to grow up and get some counselling ASAP.
2007-10-30 07:43:24 · answer #2 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Probably a lot cheaper and safer to discuss this with your wife. Who knows she may accomodate your needs if you do so in a mature manner. Perhaps you yourself have also changed since marriage and need to reignite the romance in the relationship in order to relive some of these events that took part during the honeymoon stage of your relationship. Sit down with your wife and have an open and honest conversation with her and let her know what you feel and think. But also keep an open mind when she tells you how she has been feeling and thinking. Hiring a working woman is not a very job resolution and can be dangerous to your health also as there are a lot of diseases that can be transmitted and this can become very addictive also. Maybe you and your spouse are in need of a second honeymoon and/or some sexual and/or marriage counselling to light the flame once again. Best of luck.
2007-10-30 07:16:57 · answer #3 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 2⤊ 3⤋
Sure. Go ahead and get some professionals for the oral experience.
Or maybe you should wash your balls more often so that your wife can stand to go near there
2007-10-30 08:02:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try doing the dishes once in a while. She's pissed off, plain and simple; and likely over-worked because you are not helping her enough.
Does she work outside the home? Do you guys have kids? If 'yes' and 'yes', I would almost guarantee that you need to help her out a little more.
If that's not it, have you blatantly pissed her off repeatedly for the past few years in some way? Like continuous flirting with other women that publicly humiliates her?
Women who used to "perform", and now "don't" are pissed off. Find out what you did.
2007-10-30 08:00:21 · answer #5 · answered by KC 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is never acceptable, ever!!!! You took a vow to forsake all others.
Do some scientific research on that practice and you will find that the mouth has millions of germs and that infections can be transmitted that way.
The practice is promoted by porn people and women who don't want to get pregnant. It is not even satisfying for women. The porn women are pretending to like it - they are paid to do so.
Forget it and do it her way.
Joy to you!
2007-10-30 07:40:49 · answer #6 · answered by frillyfroofroo 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I didn't know that hiring a pro was an option (and it's not if you want to stay married). My wife has done it to me twice in the last 30+ years. Consider yourself lucky that you got it when you did.
You might find one hanging around outside the divorce court ... lol
2007-10-30 07:21:23 · answer #7 · answered by click865 4 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Go to the personal ads in your local newspaper. Believe it or not, most of the ads are for prostitutes. Don't ask me how I know. ;) Of course, this only works in Vegas. Otherwise, it's illegal. You ARE in Vegas, right?
As far as your wife, what's wrong with her? Is she just a bad wife or something?
2007-10-30 07:29:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
How about "Honey, I really miss you giving me oral. You are so good at it. I think about it all the time. Is there anything you want me to do for you, to get that in return?" Try some flavored oils too. Sometimes you just have to add something new.
2007-10-30 07:19:01 · answer #9 · answered by andinkissa 2 · 3⤊ 2⤋
How about checking what the hell is your problem and why you didn't get it from your wife,,,so that you don't have to find "such a Professional oral service"
moron!!!!!!!!!!
2007-10-30 07:17:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋