He's funny, good looking and overall a nice guy. I don't know if he is interested in me, but I am interested in him. He's getting ready to leave for a trip so I am thinking of writing him a letter and putting it in this bag..I want him to read it on the plane...
2007-10-30 06:51:19 · 29 answers · asked by DesperateinVA 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should just start a conversation with him and ask him if maybe you can hang out sometime. Get his phone number.
Sounds scary, but it's better than:
He sees your letter but doesn't respond
or
He never gets your letter and you think he hates you because he doesn't respond.
Either way, work becomes weird. It's always best just to be upfront about things. Even if he rejects you, you can still be friends and get along at work, if he is as nice as you claim.
2007-10-30 06:55:20 · answer #1 · answered by scary mary 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You know, i've personally thought about the whole dating and work thing and wondered if it's a good idea or not. What if she says no? What if we date and it all ends badly? that would make life at work really uncomftable.
But screw it! Go for it hon, leave him a note. I've been of work for the past month as i'm recovering from surgery. During that time i've been thinking about this particular girl at work i've liked for a while. I've seen her stare at me a few times and not even in a sly way, but i've been too chicken s*** to approach her. I would love it if she left me a note. But the worst part is, i don't know if she's still gonna be there when i go back to work in a couple of weeks. If thats the case, all i'll be left with are thoughts of 'what if........'.
G for it, at least you'll know then.
Gd luck. x
2007-10-30 07:01:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No no no! It's such a stalker move. Put yourself in his place, what if you open your personal bag and find a letter of someone professing their love for you?? Romantic if you know the dude and you're hot for him, but if you don't know this person....it's just c-r-e-e-p-y. If you don't know if he likes you, then chances are he probably doesn't. Funny good-looking, nice guys are just that, nice guys. They're not extra funny, or go out of their way to be nice to you because they like you....they're just like that. It's up to you, but I just feel that if a guy finds you interesting in a GF/BF kind of way, he'll let you know.
Second of all.... You work with him. How awkward is it going to be if he's not interested? It's just going to be uncomfortable for you, and him if he doesn't respond to your love letter.
2007-10-30 07:01:53 · answer #3 · answered by L.A. Angel 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
In my opinion i think the boy should ask out the girl but that is because i am from Chicago and that is what we usually do here but then some relationships are ruined because the guy is to shy or they girl is to shy in my school we have boys and girls and the girls usually talk to the boys and then the girls usually talk among themselves same with the boys. I'm not shure if this helps it might be a little unclear but that is my opinion.
2016-04-11 03:01:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I would be very careful on what you say in that letter. You don't want to come on too strong and scare him. I would simply ask him if he would like to catch a movie, revealing your feelings at this stage might be a bit premature. Let himtake the lead once you give him the letter
2007-10-30 06:55:19 · answer #5 · answered by Tre 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Think this over carefully before you do anything.
If things don't work-out the way you want,
and you have to see him often, your life at work
is gonna suck!
If he works in another dept, so that you can easily
avoid him should things not work-out, then in that case, I suggest talking with him and flirting with him.
Don't give him a letter because again if things don't work-out, that letter would be evidence of "sexual harassment" or unprofessional behavior etc.
2007-10-30 06:57:11 · answer #6 · answered by andybosik 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do not approach him at all. It is bad form to get involved with your co-workers. Your social life and career life should be kept seperate. It comes off as unprofessional and if things do not work out, makes for one hell of an uncomfortable way to spend eight hours of your daily life. It is highly likely that you will also be the star in the office gossip pool. Save your reputation and don't do it.
2007-10-30 06:57:46 · answer #7 · answered by sleepingliv 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You could do that but you could also just talk talking will make you 2 comfertable with eachother and then say you are a nice guy and I kanda like you, so you want to go to a movie or meet at the coffie shop? He might feel the same about you 2!!!!!!
2007-10-30 06:56:37 · answer #8 · answered by bummbleb90 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you want something, you have to put up some effort in getting it. There is no other way. The worse that can happen is getting rejected, but rejection is a part of life NO ONE can avoid, unless you want to be a hermit, or a monk.
2007-10-30 06:54:48 · answer #9 · answered by WC 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Do not mix business with pleasure, even if its a pleasure doing business!
Don't, this will only turn things awkward between the both you if it's not mutual, when he comes back, talk to him, but no SNEAKY letters in his bag pretty girl
2007-10-30 06:55:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋