2007-10-30 06:52:30 · 15 answers · asked by dunamis 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i always seem to have my emotions get in the way.. i hear ppl saying stuff like,"well if u love/trust ur girlfriend then u shouldnt be jealous.." i've tried so hard to get over my emotions but its hard.. i guess im 'insecure' but man i really do try to get over it...she knows how i am and she respects it cuz we love each other.. but i ask now, Is being a psycho that bad in a relationship??
2007-10-30 06:57:22 · update #1
Being really jealous IS bad. When you are being jealous it causes the gf to be jealous. And thats waaayy too much jealousy going on. Its ok to let her know that you care by asking questions but you shouldnt overdo it. If she tells you its ok that you can trust her than just believe her. If you love her you will trust her...with all of your heart. I am POSITIVE that she loves you very much. Showing that you trust her makes her want to show you that she trust you too and causes her to want to prove to you her faithfulness. Just keep loving her and im sure yall are going to be super happy together.
p.s. I bet your frickin hott!!!
2007-10-30 19:03:54 · answer #1 · answered by Steffy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe jealousy is bad for any relationship an can affect it badly cos by this feeling it relates to trusting that person an if you trust your gf you shouldnt feel this at all.. I know being insecure wont help you either but its up to you too try an over come all this by trusting your gf which I feel maybe you dont trust her? cos these feelings shouldnt be there if you do trust her.. these are your problems you are putting on your gf an shes saying its ok now but the longer you live like this will affect an fall on her more so that you.. you need to ask yourself if you trust her an know for sure cos if dont theres no point in going on together.... good luck
2007-10-30 12:39:18 · answer #2 · answered by Sweet_mystery 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, there should be no reason to be jealous. Are you seeing other people? Or talking about or to other people? Cut that crap out and your lover won't have anything to be jealous about. If you're the one who is jealous, don't be. It's ruined more than 8 of the 30 relationships I've been in. It's not worth it and women will tell you to grow up. On the other hand, if they didn't give you the reason to be jealous in the first place it wouldn't happen, but women don't understand that about men, so it's not worth discussing period. Good luck
2007-10-30 06:58:11 · answer #3 · answered by Kamuela B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok yes and no , bear with me a minute , over jealousy is a bad thing , the person you are with will end up feeling like you dont trust them , dont have any confidence in them ... no one likes to be questioned over and over about someone they just say hello to or being drilled over talking to an old friend ... a little jealousy however can be healthy , and i said a LITTLE ... nothing over bearing or causing someone to act emotionaly unstable .
2007-10-30 07:21:29 · answer #4 · answered by autumn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes jealousy is bad in a relationship it could cause bad things to happen in the relationship you do not want to happen
2007-10-30 06:58:12 · answer #5 · answered by Arielle B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy is the one thing that does not need to be in a relationship cause it will ruin it in a blink of an eye.
2007-10-30 07:05:26 · answer #6 · answered by Lynn R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell yes.. if u don't trust the person u r with... how can u say u love that person, when u ralways instigating and acusing that person from doing something s/he hasn't done... if u always suspicious and think ur partner is not being faithful, then move on and find some1 u can really trust... it's absoluttely not healthy
2007-10-30 06:58:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course but as they saying goes jealousy is caused by low self esteem. a person will get jealos whenever they see the love talking or smiling with someone they think is better lookin or has more things. as long as youre confident that your love is definitely into you and you alone you will see those jealous feelings disappeat.
2007-10-30 06:58:27 · answer #8 · answered by Lovely 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually it depends on the person. ussually it is bad! but for some people it's good. so you gotta know the person and how she reacts to things. just pick up the little signs and you'll know if it's bad or good! OK
2007-10-30 06:59:16 · answer #9 · answered by Karma22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's like asking., "Is an ice pick in the eye bad for vision?"
2007-10-30 06:57:38 · answer #10 · answered by lunatic 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋