what if u dont want to be in love....what if u are afraid of being hurt...its normal to love someone but is it normal to hate urself for that...is it normal u want to kill this feeling....
2007-10-30 07:52:10 · 5 answers · asked by Sunflower 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you`re afraid of love? its nothing to be afraid of. you should think about what made you feel this way. stop thinking about commitment, love doesn`t mean you have to commit. that isn`t normal.
2007-10-30 08:19:44 · answer #1 · answered by danielle. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh it sounds to me like you have been hurt before or maybe you saw someone else get hurt. It's not true, love does not hurt. Love is a beautiful thing that happens between two consenting adults and it does not happen over night. It takes time and it blossoms and grows but it takes work and care just like a flower. If you take good care of it, you will see if flourish, if you don't then it will get all filled with weeds and wither and die. You need to talk to someone. It is not good that you do not love yourself more. I cannot help you on a place like Y/A but you are human and you were designed to be loved and to love in return.
2007-10-30 11:23:42 · answer #2 · answered by teresa m 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are in love the feelings are positive and you don't think around things that are against those feelings. You are thus either in or out of it. Only you can know if you have it or not. If you are thinking negative then it might mean that you doubt yourself and your own feelings. Just be yourself and enjoy the experience however difficult it may seem.
2007-10-30 10:01:54 · answer #3 · answered by upyerjumper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have control to some extent over love. Ya can't really make yourself love someone, but you can prevent it from happening if you don't open yourself up to it.
It's normal to fear being hurt...but I can't imagine going through life w/o experiencing love again, just to protect my heart. Hearts heal...I'm up for the risk. ☺☻
2007-10-30 07:56:25 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
please take my advice on this. I loved someone who loved me back,but I was afraid of getting hurt by the one person who did love me. I ran away from his love. all of these years I have hated myself for running away. I should have sat down with him and told him how I felt and about my fear of getting hurt and seen what his solution to that problem was. Now I regret for not doing so. I still have strong feelings for him,but because I ran away from his love,he will not take me back. So what I am sugeesting is to sit down with him and let him or her know how you feel before you run away from the love that you feel for him-her.
2007-10-30 08:03:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋