Ok, so my friends have told that I look like Jessica Alba. But I am very shy and they say that shyness is a very ugly quality in a person. What would you think if you met a person like me at a party?
2007-10-30 08:02:33 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Id pull out the ring and propose...lol im jk... being shy isnt that ugly... as long as ur able to let go at the right times.. who cares wut ppl may think of u, have fun, if i met a girl that looked like jessica alba i would def try gettin to kno her... but if shes shy and isnt throwin any signals back then most guys will give up eventually
2007-10-30 08:07:13 · answer #1 · answered by Nick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Shyness is not an ugly quality. Personally I like shy girls, I know a lot of people who like them.
2. If you look like Jessica Alba then I don't think you will have a problem in the hotness factor.
3. At a party if your shy that is usually a problem because you don't stand out to most people. That simply means that finding a guy at party's will be hard, but anywhere else, it won't be a problem, again, especially if you look like Jessica Alba.
Good luck, you'll be fine, stop worrying about it
2007-10-30 08:07:00 · answer #2 · answered by soccerpsychic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hiya Na! To meet you I would have to greet you, say 'Hello' or Hi. If you are as attractive as Jessica Alba it would be rude not to! Shyness can be easily overcome if you just relax and be true to yourself. Having a sense of humour helps break down a few barriers too. Why not watch how other attractive people act when being introduced, pick up a few pointers from people watching. Try not to get drunk as this may reveal more about you than you want people to know, for the time being anyway.
2007-10-30 08:19:15 · answer #3 · answered by moriartee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shyness is not a ugly quality, but it comes off as needy, insecure, or damaged.
Being calm, confident, comfortable in your own skin lets you smile, and show interest in others and say you have something to offer.
It is a funny zen thing, but going to a party where you dont worry about what others think, but are going around talking, having fun will get you noticed. Your good spirits will draw others to you.
2007-10-30 08:11:35 · answer #4 · answered by Grumpy Mac 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The hardest thing about a shy girl is they give no feedback really. They might smile or what not, but you have no idea if they are interested. I would say, if you like who is talking to you, talk back, and engage in the conversation as much as you can. Shyness is hard to get over, but once your past the initial phase it should be a lot easier.
2007-10-30 08:07:47 · answer #5 · answered by mathman7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be really atracted to you, but probably not be able to come up and talk to you. Shyness is not a bad quallity, just make sure you have a good time when you go out and dont think about being shy. Its best to try and imagine that noone else is around except you and your friends, and the best way to do that is to drink.
2007-10-30 08:08:53 · answer #6 · answered by bdhartma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is so hot, she looks like Jessica Alba
2007-10-30 08:07:26 · answer #7 · answered by fduarte21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friends say that "shyness is a very ugly quality" in a person? I know you're asking the boys, but I just HAD to chime in...
IT IS BETTER TO STAY QUIET AND HAVE EVERYONE THINK YOU'RE A MORON, THAN TO OPEN YOUR MOUTH AND PROVE THEM ALL RIGHT.
In other words, you don't need to try EXTRA hard to be outgoing or loud or less shy than you are... just be yourself. Oh yeah... and you look like YOU. Stay unique and stay beautiful.
2007-10-30 08:06:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
although being shy is not an ugly quality, some people may misread you as stand-offish. but even still, i would probably do you if you looked like jessica alba.
2007-10-30 08:08:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with being shy. It's a good quality to have. I'd rather be a wall flower with a shy girl because I see outgoing girls as a whorish.
2007-10-30 08:13:06 · answer #10 · answered by Johnny Danger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋