he has decided that sex b4 marriage is wrong. Well not just decided but he has always thought this because he was brought up a Catholic but at the moment he feels sex is stopping him from having a closer relationship with God. This is something i can understand, because the bible teaches sex with someone who is not your spouse is a sin, but i always felt as long as we are in a loving relationship this is ok, but i think i now see we shouldnt have sex. This is not really a problem. The problem is that he believes that wanking is also a sin. This is something i have always felt strongly about but i think he believes this because the Catholic church teaches that every sexual act shld be open 2 life (as the sperm shld be given the chance to make a baby, i.e it is sort of murder to masturbate) not sure if this is exactly what the church teaches but im sure someone will help me out. How can i be a Christian now i hav had sex b4 marriage + how can i get him to understand wanking isnt wrong?
2007-10-30 09:19:11 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Having your cake and eating it to. Why were you not a christian? Was it because you wanted to be a horrible sinner? And now your finally figuring out what love is and NOW you want god in your life? Don't be so insecure about your own ideology. He's doing fine for himself he's religious, you on the other hand have ether been raised an atheist or a spiritualist. Ether way its actually a step back for you to grasp for religion, in ways your to insecure to accept. Your in a catch-22 sister. So ether you open his mind, or you close yours.... that's the point, don't change a religion it's a discipline it isn't fair for you to help him TWIST his sense of religion. Ether you fellow, or you set something for him to follow or this is going to end like dharma and greg.....
2007-11-01 13:32:41 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋