All i seem to be doing is work, work. I tired of my job, I'm having trouble finding a job. I have offers from girls but they are not the girls that i want to be with. The girls that i want to be with, don't seem to want to be with me & i can't be with someone that i really don't like. I get the mick taken out of me from some of my friends calling me gay, as i have not had a girlfriend for a while. I'm a decent looking guy. Nothing motivates me in life no more. What is a guy to do?
2007-10-30 09:21:48 · 6 answers · asked by Star 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go out and find a new hobby, somehting u look forward to doing, not dreading.
and i feel ya. it seems like the guys i want dont want me and the guys i dont want, want me. ive been asked out by 2 guys last week but had to say no. but there are 2 guys who i really like that seem not to pay no mind to me or if they are afraid of something.
but go out and neet some new people. if u want to call in sick one day and juss drive till you end up somewhere peaceful and stress free. u juss need a break my darlin, and u need it NOW. go to the beach, go on a road trip. go do somehting u havent done in ages!! Just go out and have FUN!!
That perfact gurl will come along one day. jus be patient.
2007-10-30 09:34:59 · answer #1 · answered by Cole.Baby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok. what motivates you? what excites you? what drives you?
its not all gone. its still inside you. but its up to you to bring it to surface.
work makes you tired? if you dont like your job, then that's probably why. if your work dont challenge you anymore then its your cue to look for something else.
people grow. people change. change your outlook in your life. be more open to possibilities.
honestly, how you feel about yourself reflects the works you do.
who knows, deep inside you are simply depressed. then its about time you do some soul-searching and ask yourself why. only you hold the answers.
as for the girls, they say you deserve what you attract. the best girls dont fall from the tree, you have to make an effort to try to win one's affection.
life is beautiful. what can i say? look at the some old folks that are still happy together? that's some inspiration.
everything is possible. its all up to you. change your way of thinking and go back to God. He will unload your burdens.
God Bless.
2007-10-30 16:38:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit feeling sorry for yourself, kick yourself in the butt, look in the mirror and tell yourself you are tired, and do something about it. What girl would go out with you, having such a negative attitude. You are in control, so take control. If you don't like your job, find one that you do like, if you can't find one, than learn to like it just like some people learned to like liver.
2007-10-30 16:30:13 · answer #3 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take on a new ambition (new hobby, etc) OR
start fresh-clean slate. Move somewhere you've always dreamed of living but haven't been brave enough to make the change.
This is your life, today, right now.
Make the most of it!
2007-10-30 16:28:10 · answer #4 · answered by abby j 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SEARCH FOR TRUTH. THE TRUTH IS THE WORD OF GOD.
I HAVE BEEN WHERE YOU ARE. SEEMS LIKE YOUR ARE EMPTY AND NOTHING FILLS THE VOID YOU HAVE IN YOUR LIFE. NOTHING SEEMS TO MATTER AND YOU HAVE NO IDEA WHERE YOU ARE GOING IN LIFE.....
THIS VOID IS THE LACK OF THE SPIRITUAL CONNECTION WITH GOD THAT YOUR SOUL DESIRES.
2007-10-30 16:27:41 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow guy you have problems. my life is a mess to don't worry about it you are not alone.
2007-10-30 16:28:51 · answer #6 · answered by tinker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋