my boyfriend and i have been together for almost 6 monthes, we are sexually active, but for some reason he wont let me see him naked, i duno why, like during sex i see him naked. but when its all said and done and he puts his boxers on, i feel like he wants to hide. why does he do this? and how can i make him relax about it a little bit. and its not like he is small in that region, so it cant be that. help
2007-10-30 09:22:18 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My guy was like that and still is somewhat but we have been together for over 2 years! He just feels insecure, not like me I walk around the house naked! LOL! But give it time and the more comfortable he gets around you the more he will be comfortable enough to just be necked!! ;) It's not you or anything I am sure it's just that he's self conscious. Just let him now that you love him the way he is and not matter what he looks like or how much clothes his has or doesn't have on!
2007-10-30 09:33:56 · answer #1 · answered by Kassie D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could just be modest. Some people are. Also, some guys worry they aren't big enough, even if they are. I had to try to explain to one guy I know that no, he wasn't a porn star, but then most people aren't. That's why they get that job. Just try being patient. I'm guessing you don't have a problem being naked around him. If you do, does he ask you to cover up? If he does, then he's just really modest. Also, try making it worth his while, if you get my drift, to be naked. Good luck, and if this is the biggest problem you have in this relationship, consider yourself blessed.
2007-10-30 16:29:54 · answer #2 · answered by bodicea77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is just insecure with his body. I was when i first started having sex with my boyfriend. You cant force it on him so let him feel comfortable with it in his own time. But yu can help but complimenting him and making him feel more comfortable and good about his body.
2007-10-30 16:26:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should ask him why he does that. According to you, there doesn't seem to be anything wrong. So just ask him softly and nicely and hopefully you should get an answer, maybe he feels weird being naked?? Who knows? Obviously he does..
2007-10-30 16:26:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe he just doesn't like it hanging out in the open. Besides do you really find it to be attractive, and something you want to continually see?!
2007-10-30 16:34:51 · answer #5 · answered by O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont really know any special advice, as i am not gay. However try to talk to him and ask him why, but be subtle and if he doesnt like disscussing the issue i would just leave it be.
2007-10-30 16:26:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then don't let him see you naked.
2007-10-30 16:29:57 · answer #7 · answered by Distance Runner 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is insurcure (however that is spelled) SO to make him open up more with you, comment on his d_ck, tell him how you like it, how big it is. How sexy his body is, and how you want to see more of it. You know talk him up, he will open up.
2007-10-30 16:27:25 · answer #8 · answered by I Love my Baby Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's just self-concious about his body. The best you can do is give him time and encouragement.
2007-10-30 16:25:48 · answer #9 · answered by CorpCityGrl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Low self-esteem. Gradually get him used to more and more nudity.
2007-10-30 16:26:06 · answer #10 · answered by Peacenik 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋