Ok so I really like this guy... He always gives me these special looks and flirts w/me alot but he has a gf! I kinda want them to break up I kno thats mean but I really like him & he acts like he likes me sumtimes to! Wat do i do??
2007-10-30 10:36:35 · 35 answers · asked by KEELY 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
be his friend.. maybe someday he will realize that he wants you... if you do something to break them up.. eventually it will come back to haunt you..sit back and let fate take over... if its meant to be it will be.
2007-10-30 10:40:55 · answer #1 · answered by nease174 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up a little bit first. You stated that he has a girlfreind right? Ok put the shoe on the other foot what if that was you? Your guy is flirting with another woman what would you do or how would that make you feel? First off you dont want a person like that in your life. If he is willing to pursue you while telling the gal he's with she's the one do you think he'll be true to you when someone prettier comes along? Save yourself for someone who is deserving of your trust.
You did say that you want them to break up so maybe the two of you deserve each other and the other girl is the victim.
2007-10-30 10:43:12 · answer #2 · answered by metalsoft@sbcglobal.net 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK the fact that he is flirting with you means that he too has a "liking" for u. BUT he has a gf. I know that u like this guy, but I would wait to see what he is going to do with his relationship first. If he like you and wants to be with you then he will break it off with his gf first, before getting involved with you. If he asks you out or does more than flirt with you while he is still involved with her, then he is not the guy for you. You have to think about it, that's like he is cheating on his gf with you, so if he does that with her don't you think he'll do it to you? YES HE WILL!!
So just wait and see where his head is. If he wants to be with you then it shouldn't take him long to dump his gf. But if he is just full of it, then he will try to string you along as long as he knows that you have interest in him; and if he does that then u know he is not the one for you and u should move on.
Good Luck!
2007-10-30 10:48:30 · answer #3 · answered by Mika 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, don't act like you're really clingy and definitely don't flirt with him because that can cause the girlfriend to come and have a long talk with you. Um, just try treating him like a friend and if he likes you, then he'll definitely break it off with his girlfriend for you. If he doesn't then he might actually be a friendly person instead of "liking" you. That's why you should just relax and wait a bit more.
2007-10-30 10:42:02 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie thatx really mean
no offense
but yea
becuz i broke up with my bf which i was going out with for 2 months and 1 week because some girl is always all over him and he doesnt say anything to her
and alot of guys flirt with every other girl
and girls do this to
like me
lol
but yea
i think you should talk 2 him
2007-10-30 10:41:04 · answer #5 · answered by Gufran H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself if this were your boyfriend what do you think you should do? Besides, what if he does cheat on the girlfriend with you or even if he does break up with her because of you do you really want a guy like that?
2007-10-30 15:59:18 · answer #6 · answered by Lisa2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have had this problem before to and you know i could tell you " back off he has a girl friend and it seems like he is happy with her " but im not going to cuz if he is flirting with you he is obviously not happy so i am going to tell you what i did... i called him and texted him every now and then to see what he was up to ask him how him and his GF are and mention "well i would really like to go to dinner one night you know just as friends" then maybe he catch on
2007-10-30 10:41:44 · answer #7 · answered by Marcy M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let his relationship run its course, don't be the reason he breaks up with his gf, that's just messy. also be careful not to be the rebound if he really does break up with his gf because you'll wind up getting really hurt. play hard to get and he'll come running for sure. plus im sure there are tons more cute and available guys out there for you. ;)
2007-10-30 10:40:35 · answer #8 · answered by Hypnotiq 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something to think about. If he's flirting with you while being in a relationship now, how can you expect to trust him if you start dating him? Sounds like a playa to me. Find a nice guy.
2007-10-30 10:40:53 · answer #9 · answered by matt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok listen I have learned from past expericens DONT TRY TO GET WIT A GUY WIT A GF!!!
Just set bak and wait for him!
2007-10-30 10:44:00 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Brittany=Single♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ian Duncan Who? Really? It explains the Conservatives.
2007-10-30 10:41:56 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋