Does an orgasm feel like you have to pee?

Question

Ok, I'm 19 and I have never had an orgasm, with someone or by myslef. I have a bf, and whenever he goes down on me I get to a feeling like I really have to pee. I am afraid that I will pee on him. He tells me to just let it go, but even when I try I can't. Does this mean I am close to having an orgasm, or is it something else? Also, how can I just relax and let the feeling go?

Answer 1

It's better by yourself the first time for ONE, because it allows your to get comfortable with your own body. Typically, yes that's pretty close for a female, it actually intensifies in another direction once you've became comfortable with it. Techniques are far and in between because sex isn't a simple thing people play it out to be. It requires you being extremely relax. A good technique, and I hate to say this but its actually tried and true, and a bit cheap, but does the trick. A little beer, some liquor works WONDERFUL for this. Its you making it hard on you. But really in the great scheme of things its better for you to experiment with yourself somber and by yourself, THEN bring that into the bedroom.