i met this girl while i was away working in the US.we got incredably close,as were great friends.i have never had such a close conection with a girl and it was great.Towrds the end of the time working together she kissed me,on two separes a occasions.The second time we spent much of the night kissing,but it waas her that innitiated it.After i finished working there and stopped seeing her i relised how much she had become to mean to me,in the short time i had known her.We both live in London,and the other week we meet up,along with others that we worked with.It was like we had never been apart we laughed and joked just like we did all summer.And that night we kissed again,which she once again initiated.But since i have not been able to stop thinking about her.I know it may sound like she likes me to,but i think it was just a bit of fun for her in the summer,and when she kissed me she was always drunk.So i doubt anything could ever happen.But i like her so much.What should i do?
2007-10-30 12:22:47 · 23 answers · asked by Xavier W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Give in and ask her out on a date! Sounds like she'd say yes, to me.
2007-10-30 12:26:04 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you have basically answered your own question there. i think that you should keep in contact with her and see her etc. as if you wouldnt if you liked her. one day catch up for coffee or something maybe something more fun like ice skating or something so its not a completely serious thing, however you feel comfortavle asking her. but just sort of talk to her about what happened and ask if she wants anything further. dont beat around the bush in asking though. you need to just be frank with her and tell her how you feel! how will anything come of it if you dont say anything really? if she is just having fun, arent you as well and if anything was to come out of it in the future thats cool and if not thats cool to. youve just got to see how it goes, good luck buddy! :D
2007-10-30 19:29:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can do two things
1. Call and tell her about your feelings and see if she feels the same
- but you are risking her rejecting you and getting depressed!
2. Or you can just sit and wonder and that alone will drive you nuts
- or realize that she probably was just being really flirty and if she does not call you maybe the kiss did not mean as much!
***either way find out***
**********ask her***************
and risk it all.....afterall you have a right to know
2007-10-30 19:28:08 · answer #3 · answered by BooBear345 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's shy, and she only is brave enough to kiss you when she's drunk? Girls like to drink for some other purposes. (such as to kiss, or say something, without looking easy, etc..)
don't freak her out
try saying things like, you have such a good time with her , and you wish you can spend more?
2007-10-30 19:27:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
All you can do is tell her and see how she feels. People's true feelings sometimes come out when they are drunk so that might be where the kissing comes from. But seriously get her alone and sober and ask her. Good luck!
2007-10-30 19:27:11 · answer #5 · answered by CrimsonInk 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out!!! Make sure that it is a non-alcoholic date. If she kisses you again then go for it !
2007-10-30 19:26:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
beleive it or not impaired judgement when your drunk could just mean that your true feelings are coming out so plain and simple ask her tell her how u feel thats all u can do
2007-10-30 19:26:31 · answer #7 · answered by joe b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it so easy to ask the whole internet a question instead of just asking her??
2007-10-30 19:26:31 · answer #8 · answered by dwayne P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy some condoms, give her a booty call, and share your blonde, Lebanese hash with her! Then let nature take its course...
2007-10-30 19:29:43 · answer #9 · answered by Terry E 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it may have just been a summer thing for her. ask her if she still wants to be with or not. and if she seems undecided than look for some else.
2007-10-30 19:28:42 · answer #10 · answered by married & still inlove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋