Can someone tell me if girls do this??

Question

So theres this girl who after the day i met her, she became obsessed with me. Now when i say obsessed i mean obsessed! So much that her friends kept advising me to ask her out to our high school homecoming, bcos she kept telling her friends how much she thout i was hot and she liked me!
At the time, i didnt like her enough that i would ask her out, however i had nothing against her because she was a very nice person - which is how i started becoming attracted to her. As days and weeks went by she would keep questioning me as to whether i liked her or not, i wasnt sure so i kept saying 'yes i do'. It seemed like the more i like her the less attention she gave me, especially after i asked her out to homecoming.
At homecoming I spent $50 on her including her ticket. Everything was going smooth until we got there, she ditched me and that nite she txted me how she was sorry and she likes me but she thinks we're different, i told her i like her.
Can someone please explain this girl to me?

My Question being did this girl just want me to like her so shes satisfied that i like her, then she just stops liking me? idk someone explain

Answer 1

There is a famous expression: "you always want what you can't have."

Answer 2

I don't want to put thoughts in your head but it seems like to me that neither of you took the time to find out if you really liked each other. Instead you were soley attracted and initiated a homecoming dance date on looks. Then too after she saw that you were casually answering her "yes I do" like you then not dating her she might of felt really stupid for oogling you all this time. Then she could have just pretended to like you just to get her girlfriends roused up. And what I mean by that is maybe it wasn't real play in the first place. I've had that to happen. Some guys were like I bet I can get this girl to fall for me. And they play their games. It's a heartbreaking reality. I'm sorry you were out $50 and a ticket. But next time really honestly give her your opinion. Tell her what you feel. And if you two are attracted to each other check out each other mentally and emotionally first. Find out what you have in common. Then go from there.

Answer 3

This girl was not obsessed with you, she was obsessed with herself. Once she was satisfied that you liked her, she lost interest in the pursuit. In other words, she used you to convince herself that she was desirable. Once she had that assurance, she no longer cared. How despicable! You deserve much better than that, hon. Find yourself a sweet girl who is honest, and not selfish or self-centered like that one. I'm sorry this happened to you, but we all learn from experience. This is not in any way, a reflection upon you. I'm sure you're a fine young man who became a victim of a girl who was stuck on herself. Better luck next time.

Answer 4

She used you like a senator or congressmen uses a three dollar whore. Man she played you to the hilt. Move on and stay clear of this bimbo. If she see's you express interest in her still she is going to clean your clocks over and over again. Chock this one up as a lesson learned. Try the link below it's a site on how to get even with her.

Answer 5

i'll always be sorry because i did the same thing as she dd on prom night,
i'm older now and that was a lousy move i made. you did not like her enough to want to be with her. i think she made she a poor choice to a guy like u that needs an understanding. i did the exact same thing when i was young... i thought he was hot and i talk about him to my friends but the whole thing was i needed a date. with a good looking guy. honestly, i did ditch the guy i was with on prom night. i felt bad of course.
if she apologized to you on a cell phone, i'll tell you she should be calling u or meet u in person to say she was truly sorry. other than that,

Answer 6

As a mature woman, I can remember doing very strange things like that as a teenager. In fact, even into my early 20's.
I know that I didn't really mature until I was 23.

So be prepared for girls to do crazy things like that, and don't take it personally! You sound like a great guy. :)35 answers already!! You get a star for one interesting question!!

Answer 7

Sometimes it is so hard with girls, but I can tell you this that it seems as though she likes to be chased. That is to say that she likes the thrill of being adored. But not giving when it comes to affection. If you really like her then ask her what can you do to make her happy. If you don't like her then take this as a learning experience on women.

Answer 8

WOW she sounds like a flake...dude dump her leave her run for the hills! What she did to you by ditching you after you paid for her ticket and ll that was F'D UP!

She doesn't deserve you...find someone who appreciates you...she obviously doesnt...and watch the minute you leave her alone she will want to be with you...just say NO!

Answer 9

It sounds as if she was just excited about the chase, but not interested in an actual relationship. Your best bet is to get over her. If that is how she wants to act, you are too good for her. I'm sorry that this happened to you. That was very rude of this girl.

Answer 10

This happened to my younger brother. Turns out the girl just needed a ride to the dance

Answer 11

She is too spoiled, too needy. That should have turned you off months before the homecoming from hell.

Move on, she is just not that into you! I hope you find someone as considerate, mature and intelligent as you are.