What do you do when your friend leaves his gf and wants to go back to his ex girlfriend who has caused trouble for him in the past, nearly ruined your friendship and is just a b*tch in general?? how do you convince him that he's making the wrong choice without getting him mad??
2007-10-30 23:41:38 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
tell him he needs to weigh out his odds here and see if thats the best thing for him to do. if he really wants to lose his friends over her and to see if he wants to be with her for all the right reasons ?
2007-10-30 23:49:04 · answer #1 · answered by marilynfsmgm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you can do is tell him how you feel. Other than saying his ex is a *****- lol. Just tell him how much you love him as a friend and that you want to see him happy. Remind him of all the crap that his ex did to him and ask him if he REALLY wants to go back to that. The only think you can do is try to be there for him and if he does go back to the ex- try to be there for him. Is she doesn't want you around- take a step back and wait until they break up again. Than- be there again for him. It's a crappy job to have to be there for a man that is clueless sometimes- but that's what makes for a good friend. Hope this helps.
2007-10-30 23:52:57 · answer #2 · answered by Tammy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him with calm and let him see that his ex is trouble. Anyway he is you friend you must support him in all he does, you give to him your advice if he does not take it it is his problem, but in time he will understand he was wright
tell him to learn from his mistakes
Anyway if you talk bad about his ex he will go straight to her so try to find a smooth way to underline that she is not suitable for him
2007-10-30 23:50:07 · answer #3 · answered by Helena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it is his decision. He knows what she did in the past. It won't make a difference. if he really wants to get back with her. Sorry.
2007-10-30 23:46:48 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want to keep your friend....Then keep out. He is well aware of what she is. Don't interfere. Just be the best friend you can without judging. We all have our journeys in life. This is one of his, not yours. No matter how hard or frustrating it might be for you. Shush.....:-)
2007-10-31 01:07:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You friend needs to be able to choose who he wants to be with...If you say something, it will make him want to be with her more...Its like his mother telling him what to do and he does the opposite...
2007-10-31 00:20:53 · answer #6 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋