Family & Relationships - 31 October 2007

I'm a sophomore at a new high school and I became friends with this guy who rides my bus. Until recently, I was about 97% sure he liked me, but I think he gave up because I didn't seem interested. The thing is, I'm VERY interested, but I'm too shy to show that. I'm really not ready to have a boyfriend, but I kind of want to tell him I like him just so I don't have to hold it in anymore. Would that be cruel and inhumane, or does it not matter since he gave up? Plus, I'm not sure it's even worth the effort, cause he has so many female friends and so many other girls think he's cute.

2007-10-31 09:40:01 · 8 answers · asked by †StrongAsDeath† 3 in Singles & Dating

I am one of those girls that never get into a relationship. I was always on the road modeling or working so I never had time to get into a relationship. I am know finally settled down with a man that is signed with the same modeling company as me. BUT here is the question. He is so so mean when we fight. Above the normal level. I am from Ia and I moved to tx to be with him. When we fight he tells me to go back to ia and that i sould go back to somewhere people care. Is this something all guys just say out of anger. He is so sweet one day then when he gets mad her just dont give a **** it seems. We are both so busy with modeling and school that when we have time off I want his attention and I dont think that is bad. I get pissed if he thinks it is more important to play online, we only get a day a week to spend time together.. that is where are fights come from. should I not get upset? and do all men get this upset and say these mean things? or do I just say fine, and leave! HELP

2007-10-31 09:36:43 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if a guy ask you for your ring size.does that mean his buying you a ring or his thinking about it

2007-10-31 09:36:25 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she dated him while we were STILL married w/2kids...she was 17 & he was 25...he even told me while we were married he would date her one day...we (me&EX) watched this girl grow up...not only did he date her...he also dated her younger sister...AND if after all these years later, you were re-married to someone else & SHE shows up living at the end of your street out of the clear blue, what would you think???? AND your second husband insists on "walking the dogs" to the end of the street, & she & your second husband attend "certain meetings" at the same dwelling place....????????????

2007-10-31 09:34:29 · 12 answers · asked by gmaw53 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Interracial marriage vs gay marriage?
if you could only choose one that is allowed in America which would u choose

2007-10-31 09:34:05 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my girlfriend have been together for 2 months now. In the beginning when we met we both agreed that we found our soul mates, true love and the one we would marry. For the past 10 days she has become distant all of a su. Intially she told me just to give her a little space.(Not cheating) She just claimed to just want some alone time with herself to preserve her identity as a independant women. Last night we spoke and she is now telling me she does not know what is wrong with her and it is bothering her that I am hurting cause of her recent behavior. She stated that she feels resentful in a way becaue i may have smnothered her. She continusoulsy states that she is not breaking up with me or plans to and loves me.. She has started a new birthcontrol (ortho trcycline). I feel it may be that, because 10 days of her taking it this all began. Basically i am looking for some help as to understanding why she has pulled away when everything was great. Any advice would be great. Thank

2007-10-31 09:32:26 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Really quiet, claims never to have kissed a girl but had a 6 month long relationship in high school, somewhat "overly" curtious (yes there is such a thing and its annoying), no one seems to know about him or where he comes from, and not willing to talk about his family. does that not kindda describe a serial killer? lol

2007-10-31 09:31:24 · 24 answers · asked by Amy D 2 in Singles & Dating

We both still love eachother, but he had to end it because I treated him terribly. I was extremely jealous and selfish...I know that is not how love is "supposed to be. He told me he loved me a while ago ( I told him I didn't believe him at one point and he says that broke him), and in time he thought i never would, but I did. He was everything to me. I went through his things Sunday morning after I promised him for the millionth time that I would start to respect him. I found an online journal entry from a long time ago about a girl he use to like.So he woke up to my wrath.I tried to go to sleep after I read the entry but could not.I was so miserable after that I packed my bags and left college ( i am going to go back now). I visited him (i had to beg) this week and he says he cannot give me another chance, I have hurt him too much. He won't talk to me in order to "get over me", after that we will be friends. Do we have a chance if I can show him I really can respect him?

2007-10-31 09:29:14 · 8 answers · asked by Stephanie L 3 in Singles & Dating

like when do you know that you are off limits in showing love and affection to others and you are just pain in the .....? How can you have a balance?

2007-10-31 09:28:38 · 3 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating

What constitutes a friend to you???..........Is the word "friend" used too frequently when we're talking about an "acquaintance"????...........What makes a person a friend and not an acquaintace........While we're at it in cyberspace are we "friends", "acquaintances" or correspondants???.......Share your thoughts..........CAT

2007-10-31 09:28:19 · 12 answers · asked by Sandi 4 in Friends

So if you feel that you really love this person is it wrong to get married at a young age?

2007-10-31 09:27:53 · 21 answers · asked by Steffy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband's brother got married last week. Since we were both in the party, we needed someone to drive our daughter to the babysitter. My mother-in-law insisted. Normally a 10 minute drive, we called her cellphone after an hour went by. No answer. Another 1/2 hr later, she gets to the wedding (late) misses introductions, delays the mother/son dance, completely emotionless and acts like nothing happened. I asked where she was and she said she got lost, I asked why she didn't answer, she didn't hear the phone. THAT's IT! This just isn't good enough for me. It happened when she picked her up later that night too. She left the wedding over an hour ahead of us, and somehow we got home before she did. I ask and she rolls her eyes and goes to bed. Do I have any right to demand knowing where she took my daughter? Do you think I shouldn't trust her again? My husband and I disagree on that. I need to know im not crazy. Thanks

2007-10-31 09:27:24 · 17 answers · asked by kad 1 in Family

Loose - not tight enough, as in "these pants are so loose they're going to fall off"

Lose - get rid of something, as in "I need to lose weight"

2007-10-31 09:26:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Do girls' breasts become (very) sore during PMS(even to touch and especially if they're hit)?

I'm asking cos I think my girlfriend has that at the moment :-(

2007-10-31 09:24:23 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

- example: remove label from tin box and every one offers it to the couple (beans, fruits in syrup etc...): surprise surprise
- example: do you really know him/her
- example: prize draw
- example: printed widgets
etc...
Any creative idea would be immensely helpful!

2007-10-31 09:23:43 · 2 answers · asked by casper_international2005 2 in Weddings

This seems to be the next logic question following my other questions today.
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AonJb38DgIcrZ0lz7g.1biXsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20071031102009AAjwuX6
and
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AqcSq570XCg8NS8z4qW801Xsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20071031113712AAIvSoZ

I'm asking these question because MORE "sex" or "money" are the number 2 arguments people have. It seems to me that you can get rid of half the fight without spend a dime would be worth it, but some how the with-holders-of-sex want something more.

So how are people to be fair when two people in a relationship wants different things?

2007-10-31 09:17:14 · 12 answers · asked by snack_daddy10 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-31 09:17:04 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a husband and two children. My husband is a great father and is always by my side while my kids are beautiful but just a little demaninding. A colleague at work has given me the oppotrunity to risk it all and leave them for a life alone. I know I shouldn't do it but God is it tempting. Someone set me straight.

2007-10-31 09:12:41 · 54 answers · asked by SPMZ 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I feel so helpless.

2007-10-31 09:10:53 · 21 answers · asked by CelesteMoone 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am living with a roommate who is constantly talking about herself in negative ways, such as "I wonder if men think I look good". At first I was saying things like, "Of course they do". But then she started talking negative about her family and how no one loves her or ever will love her, and she does this every day. She walks around telling everyone about how horrible she is treated and cries and cries to me every night, then eats to make herself feel better. I've tried to suggest ideas such as going to counseling, reminding her how wonderful she is, but it seems like the more I encourage her, the more she complains and whines about no one caring about her and her life sucks. It has gotten to the point that I don't feel like with her, because she will talk about everything that is negative. It's like she is doing this for attention, because all she does is tell everyone. But at the same time, it's like she wants to stay in the same spot. How should I deal with this situtation?

2007-10-31 09:10:14 · 6 answers · asked by mochaflavoredmami 1 in Friends

2007-10-31 09:09:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

it kinda turns me on is that wierd? i just like it when he takes advantage of me is this normal?

2007-10-31 09:08:59 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Is it cheating, if i am married but I went to lunch with a lady that I am very interested in?

2007-10-31 09:08:54 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

well his name wus felix and one day he got in a car accident and died>so im asking should i move on?

2007-10-31 09:08:19 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my girlfriend have been together for 2 months now. In the beginning when we met we both agreed that we found our soul mates, true love and the one we would marry. For the past 10 days she has become distant all of a su. Intially she told me just to give her a little space.(Not cheating) She just claimed to just want some alone time with herself to preserve her identity as a independant women. Last night we spoke and she is now telling me she does not know what is wrong with her and it is bothering her that I am hurting cause of her recent behavior. She stated that she feels resentful in a way becaue i may have smnothered her. She continusoulsy states that she is not breaking up with me or plans to and loves me.. She has started a new birthcontrol (ortho trcycline). I feel it may be that, because 10 days of her taking it this all began. Basically i am looking for some help as to understanding why she has pulled away when everything was great. Any advice would be great. Thank

2007-10-31 09:07:20 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I recently came to germany from korea. When i was home on leave i found out that my mother was terminally ill but i was already on orders to come to Germany. Now i am trying everything that i can think of to get back to the states to be with her but nothing is working. I do not know what to do and i feel like no body is trying to help. If anyone knows exactly what to do that could get me back to the states to be with her then please contact me so that i may do this. thankyou.

2007-10-31 09:03:16 · 4 answers · asked by john s 1 in Family

she said luvs me, i didnt respond, then she said she got a bf, and kept telling me how they in luv, also, she's always trying to approach my friends, i thought she still likes me, so i told her i like her, she said "no, but i have a bf", after this,she stopped talking about her bf, and she still talks to me, even i'm not really talk to her, what shes thinking? i want to change this class, but i'm still waiting to see if she likes me.

2007-10-31 09:01:27 · 26 answers · asked by joe 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-31 08:59:01 · 24 answers · asked by rosz 1 in Singles & Dating

if you think i was imposing when i invited you to go to the cinema, please tell me. I don't want to be awkward and i just wanted to be nice. I'm writing this cos i think you might have got the wrong impression.

I got a message from this guy i know and i'm so confused! I didnt think anything more of the fact that he invited me!
Sorry to be vague

2007-10-31 08:57:15 · 7 answers · asked by duck duck duck goose 2 in Friends

Yesterday I asked if it was wrong of me to request my money back after being kicked out of a wedding party. (BTW, thanks for all the answers) Is it okay for me to refuse to hand over all the centerpieces and bouquets that were made...(they are still at my house becuase thats where we made them) Well the bride called me today to ask if she could come get the centerpieces & whatnot. I told her I was out of town until Fri. afternoon, but I would bring them first thing Sat. morning.(thats when they will be decorating the reception hall) Well Im not out of town I just don't want to give this stuff to her because of what she did. (she kicked me out of the wedding 2 days after the shower, & told me I was uninvited. Lame exuse about a groomsman dropping out. I asked her if she was going to reimberse me for my expenses (around $1100) & she laughed & said "NO" Well I know that no else did the decorations so it will look pretty blah, without all the stuff. Is it rude of me to keep the stuff?

2007-10-31 08:57:01 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings