she said luvs me, i didnt respond, then she said she got a bf, and kept telling me how they in luv, also, she's always trying to approach my friends, i thought she still likes me, so i told her i like her, she said "no, but i have a bf", after this,she stopped talking about her bf, and she still talks to me, even i'm not really talk to her, what shes thinking? i want to change this class, but i'm still waiting to see if she likes me.
2007-10-31 09:01:27 · 26 answers · asked by joe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ultimatum time - Does she want to continue to contribute to a happy relationship; if not, dump her (plenty more fish ....sea) It sound harsh advice but, if taken, you will, either way, look back on it as sound advice. (I hope!)
You will find out if she really likes you by backing off. Either way you can't lose. Work it out!
2007-10-31 09:15:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um... Generally, I don't like to... or want to delve into the infinitely more complicated inner-workings of the female psyche. It's just not worth the trouble... and you may find some disturbing things... Women are just incredibly hard to understand... if at all. It's like how if men get insulted, they duke it out and then make up with beer. Women... will connive for long periods of time... waiting for the perfect opportunity to... "kill."
But in the case of the lady-friend you're interested in. I think she's just stupid. Stay the hell away from her. She's obviously not emotionally (or cognitively, for that matter) stable. She'd probably hurt you (emotionally and mentally) more than anything else. NOT WORTH IT. Say goodbye and move on, my friend. Cheers.
2007-10-31 16:09:01 · answer #2 · answered by Curious J, Esq. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women need attention, and not getting it tends to cdause them to do "strange" things. Her effort was obviously to get your attention, which apparently succeeded. If you like her, talk to her. She needs to know that she is #1 in your life. It is a matter of security to her. If she feels insecure with you, she'll find someone else who will make her feel secure. She isn't asking for a million dollars a day, or all the diamonds in the world, or for you to get her all of the gold in the center of the planet, she just wants you to share you, with her. Give her your time, attention, and do nice things for her. Treat her like she is precious to you. If not, don't bother, and she'll find someone else. The better question might be, what the **** are you thinking, if you are at all, which you're probably not. What works for guys, won't work with girls. They think totally different from boys. Love means something totally different to them as well.
2007-10-31 16:11:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she says she has a BF, then you are on the outside looking in. Even if she is lying to make you jealous, do you REALLY want to deal with a manipulative chick like her? Dump her like yesterday's garbage and move on.
Don't go wasting your life trying to figure out women. It can't be done.
This will not be the last time you ask this question "WTH was she thinking?"
2007-10-31 16:05:51 · answer #4 · answered by Christmas Light Guy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's probably just mad, and trying to make u jealous, because she might have felt humiliated when u didnt respond ( that can drive a girl nuts). what u can do is, take her aside from all her friends, and urs and be frim, tell her how this makes u feel, and to be 100% honest with how she feels about u, and to stop giving u the runaround. b4 u decide to get out of this class.
2007-10-31 16:08:05 · answer #5 · answered by cuban cutie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she does lik eyou but is confused as she has a boyfriend and doesnt want to hurt him or rock the boat. But I wouldnt let her stop you chnage the class as she will still be in the same building, even if you do change.
2007-10-31 16:06:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, change your class, don't stay for anyone.
I think when she said she like you but you didn't respond, she got heartbroken. So then, she tried to make you jealous by making up she has a bf. When you told her you like her, (she dropped her bf) she felt like she needed to play games with you?
I think.
2007-10-31 16:05:12 · answer #7 · answered by ~BC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is just how girls are. She never had a boyfriend. Now she wants to be your girlfriend. I'm sure she is relying upon you not calling her out on the whole boyfriend thing. I'm sure she would be devastated if you did. If she's cool, hang out with her. It sounds like she is very much into you already.
2007-10-31 16:05:29 · answer #8 · answered by Christopher H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey you two, settle your own problems and stop playing like kids. Be real and straight, if not you both are wasting your time of lousy things, which in fact and in truth, by this time you both must have been enjoying the sweetness feelings of loved and being in loved. Mga PAKIPOT.
2007-10-31 16:08:49 · answer #9 · answered by johnny N 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She want;s you to pay more attention to her...she probably is trying to see if you like her by seeing if you get jealous of the fact she has other guys around her....if you like her tell her up front and ask her what she wants to d.If she doesn't make up her mind then move on
2007-10-31 16:06:35 · answer #10 · answered by Just Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋