What is Relationship space to a women. Please read!?

Question

Me and my girlfriend have been together for 2 months now. In the beginning when we met we both agreed that we found our soul mates, true love and the one we would marry. For the past 10 days she has become distant all of a su. Intially she told me just to give her a little space.(Not cheating) She just claimed to just want some alone time with herself to preserve her identity as a independant women. Last night we spoke and she is now telling me she does not know what is wrong with her and it is bothering her that I am hurting cause of her recent behavior. She stated that she feels resentful in a way becaue i may have smnothered her. She continusoulsy states that she is not breaking up with me or plans to and loves me.. She has started a new birthcontrol (ortho trcycline). I feel it may be that, because 10 days of her taking it this all began. Basically i am looking for some help as to understanding why she has pulled away when everything was great. Any advice would be great. Thank

Answer 1

She's feeling insecure wondering if you love her enough to give her freedom. It's part of relationships. The need to feel free at times. I know it's very hard but you need to give her space and appear very secure with it. If you don't she may interpret that as a sign that you're very clinging and she'll run and may not return. Even if she breaks up with you act as if it's not big deal and after she has some time to miss you she'll come back. I know it's tough but it's the only way!

Answer 2

I hate to say this, but it seems to me like she's just not that into you. You probably have some really good qualities, things she isn't ready to let go of, but she is not completely into you. I would say that she is probably trying to talk herself into you, but it's not working (because that never works). I would say that your only shot at this is just to disappear. Appear aloof. Let her go, and then see if she comes back. Who knows? In the mean time, you might just realize you're just not that into her either.... :)