Should women express love with mainly sex?

Question

This seems to be the next logic question following my other questions today.
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AonJb38DgIcrZ0lz7g.1biXsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20071031102009AAjwuX6
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http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AqcSq570XCg8NS8z4qW801Xsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20071031113712AAIvSoZ

I'm asking these question because MORE "sex" or "money" are the number 2 arguments people have. It seems to me that you can get rid of half the fight without spend a dime would be worth it, but some how the with-holders-of-sex want something more.

So how are people to be fair when two people in a relationship wants different things?

Answer 1

My wife expresses her love with meat loaf. mmmmm good.....

Answer 2

Well, to me it seems like you are looking at things from a horribly distorted and selfish point of view... Sex is something that should happen when TWO people feel as though it should happen, it shouldn't just be something that you do because it's expected of you. People express themselves in different ways, some like sex more than others, and when you're in a relationship with a person who has incompatible sexual desires you must take a little lesson in "compromise". It is not right for women to "withold" sex, but it is also not right for me to "expect" it whenever they desire it...it's unrealistic. This is what masturbation is for.

Try being sensitive and compassionate and acutally seeing things from your partners point of view, and I PROMISE that you will get ALOT more sex this way. Women can't simply "have sex" when thier hearts and thier minds aren't in it...try some psychology and make your woman feel AMAZING, do sweet and romantic things for her, and in return your wishes will be granted. Compromise, compromise, compromise...

Answer 3

If sex and money are the "two" reasons why people are together, then they deserve each other. I'm poor and "make love" to my husband, there is a difference in love making and just having sex. I rather be poor with my husband and rich in the Lord, then rich in the world and not know my Lord.

Answer 4

You give and take. Women (and men) should express love in the ways that feel right to them and their partners. Hopefully, if they are compatible enough, they can work out the minor differences.

But if the differences are too great, it might not be possible to compromise or work it out.

Answer 5

i'm really not understanding this question, in almost every marriage one partner or the other is wanting more of something...i always want more sex, my husband wants more money, we compromise, i masturbate if he is not giving me what i want (not necessarily need!) and he works overtime to get more money...don't get me wrong we do argue sometimes, but that's what marriage is all about! compromise, give and take...if you don't know what that means, you should not be in any relationship...

Answer 6

Compromise. That is what you do when two people in a relationship want different things. Compromise.

Answer 7

try to get a even mix, if things but sex and money do not equal love.

Answer 8

i dint argue about sex or money. i am not a materialistic woman but i am very sexual.

Answer 9

if you don't have something to fight about it gets boring. there does need to be a balance.

Answer 10

I think it is very selfish for either spouse to deny each other sexually. You are suppose to please each other. I've been happily married for 16 years.