it kinda turns me on is that wierd? i just like it when he takes advantage of me is this normal?
2007-10-31 09:08:59 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i am not fibbing iw as really sleeping hard cuz i was drinking and in the morning he asked me about it so either i didnt remember or i just slept through it...
2007-10-31 09:16:03 · update #1
Dear Sexy Lady,
It is not weird. Some times it is nice to have your mate make love to you when you are not expecting it. When I was married, sometimes my husband would get turned on during the night, and would enjoy taking me while I was in deep sleep. There where may times when I was excited and needed him, I would use oral to get him ready and than straddle him, and just as I am ready to *** he would get into it and it was fun and very exciting. Enjoy yourself and don't let anyone tell you this is wierd. It is part of human nature to take something and enjoy it especially if it is forbidden.
2007-10-31 09:19:48 · answer #1 · answered by Simbha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had that happen with some of my girlfriends and even my wife after we had been married for years. You are healthy, you have an erotic dream and it turns out that there is a real person in bed with you, you have sex. My wife and have both asked each other in the morning, "Did we have sex last night or did I dream that?" . Enjoy it. It is normal. Sounds like you enjoy it anyway. Don't worry.
have fun!
2007-10-31 16:38:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Were you asleep or just out of it? By saying that I have had my wife make love to me while I was sleeping but I kind of woke up and then in the morning it seems like a dream. SO I was kind of awake but not really.
Either way with a spouse it is cool!
2007-10-31 16:16:28 · answer #3 · answered by me4tennessee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are probably one of a growing number of women who have a "safe rape" fantasy. You may not even know it. Once you really look at yourself you will probably find that you are submissive and enjoy being dominated. I don't know if you have ever explored this part of your personality, and if you do make sure you set your boundaries. You are not weird though. Many women have these same feelings. You are simply getting more in touch with yourself and learning what you do and don't like.
2007-10-31 16:14:30 · answer #4 · answered by No one 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you were that drunk, you were in real danger of suffocating or drowning in your own vomit. You have a serious problem; I strongly suggest you look in the Yellow Pages for an AA meeting near you...
2007-10-31 17:22:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's normal to be turn on when he takes advantage of you while you're sleeping what's not normal you don't even feel that someone's having sex with you while you're asleep. what are you? a bear.
2007-10-31 16:21:15 · answer #6 · answered by isla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah thats weird, you sure you wouldnt have woken up? I dont mind "waking up" my lady like that. I wouldnt think it would be much fun unless she did. Wouldnt it be a bit more exciting if you got woken up, and your body's first thought was "omg yes"?
2007-10-31 16:14:52 · answer #7 · answered by billgoats79 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it sounds like a deviant behavior. It is not considered 'normal' but if you are okay with it and you like it then nothing is worng with that. It only becomes a problem if he continues that behavior and you don't want that then it becomes rape.
2007-10-31 16:20:18 · answer #8 · answered by lovelyangel3340 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If your married, living together...and you trust him...so be it..
I would feel short changed though...and I find it hard to believe you can have sex and not feel it or wake up
2007-10-31 16:13:32 · answer #9 · answered by Shalla V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are are drunk enough to have sex and not know or remember after, you have a serious problem with alcohol.
2007-10-31 16:31:08 · answer #10 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋