she dated him while we were STILL married w/2kids...she was 17 & he was 25...he even told me while we were married he would date her one day...we (me&EX) watched this girl grow up...not only did he date her...he also dated her younger sister...AND if after all these years later, you were re-married to someone else & SHE shows up living at the end of your street out of the clear blue, what would you think???? AND your second husband insists on "walking the dogs" to the end of the street, & she & your second husband attend "certain meetings" at the same dwelling place....????????????
2007-10-31 09:34:29 · 12 answers · asked by gmaw53 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
wow wish i didn't ask so many questions so i could vote on a best answer...all this drama is really do'n a # on me...yes, 2nd hubby DOES KNOW HER...says he doesn't but I KNOW BETTER ! obviously, there is something to it all...what, not real sure.
thanks everyone! COLD shower time !
2007-10-31 10:17:31 · update #1
Oh yeah, one more disgusting tid-bit...did i mention she allegedly just got her license for Paralegal...oh my oh my what to do...hey i know will someone go my bail when/or if I catch them? pa--leeze...don't think i should take anymore of this c--p !
2007-10-31 10:27:37 · update #2
Just to clarify something....I DID NOTHING WRONG...THEY DID...and I am way too above going on Jerry Springer...I do feel this is the place for sc-----drels such as they however !
2007-10-31 10:41:36 · update #3
No never! She was part of your past that you can live without. I would inform your second husband to stay clear of her because you do not want nothing to do with her! Tell him not to get friendly because this would be upsetting to you. He needs to walk the dogs in another direction or tell him he will definitely be in THE DOG HOUSE with you!! As far as the "certain meetings" go he does not have to get friendly with her and strike up a friendship. Your husband should respect your wishes and that's the bottom line.
2007-10-31 09:56:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you not trust your husband? Instead of assumeing walk the dogs with say that you need the exercise watch him to see if he is not doing anything bad and if he loves you he will not do anything anyway. But the best thing you can do is talk to him so do this and be happy don't stress anymore life is way to short to stress so much. Take care. And talk to that slutting whore and tell her that you will beat her *** if she gets close to your husband. Bitches like this don't deserve pitty. Open up the sex life with your husband so that he can see that you are way better then her.
2007-10-31 16:40:11 · answer #2 · answered by Lost 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ohhhhh hell NO! was this a planned thing?! i would be kicking his *** so damn hard, he wouldn't even know what hit him. if those "certain meetings" are what i think they are, i'm sure that that is the only one at the time or day...
kick him to the curb...
and yes i am friends with my husbands ex only cuz they have a kid together and had been apart for over 3 years by the time i came into the pic. he dated her while you were married? that is not an ex girlfriend, that is an ex mistress...
2007-10-31 17:15:54 · answer #3 · answered by loriloriloriloriv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um...Duh??? I'm not even going into the fact that you are in fact married to a felon. Whether he's ever been in jail, or not. And the fact that he's a twisted soul. Watched her grow up? If you don't realize this and flee, I have no doubt that I will soon be seeing you on Dr. Phil, since of late I've noticed his topics have been getting more controversial. That said, YES. He IS doing the do with her. And maybe even the sister. Look, I realize you have children in common but this is BAD...and it spells P-A-I-N in your future, should you stay.
2007-10-31 16:46:35 · answer #4 · answered by maggieeld 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Under normal circumstances a friendship with an X's would be fine, in this case it sounds like she is more of a tramp than a nice girl, also sounds like she has it in for you if she is going after Husband #2.
2007-10-31 17:00:21 · answer #5 · answered by blue2blnde 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa. Crazy situation. I say KEEP YOUR DISTANCE from this chic and definitely MAKE your hubby keep his distance from her. She has proven her lack of moral character already. I am sure she would not mind history repeating itself. I know for a fact that WOMEN ARE DEVIOUS, EVIL and NOT TO BE TRUSTED. Do not befriend this girl. You will only be setting yourself up for heatbreak. Stay away from her. Be friendly but distant and make her realize that you are not her friend. Good luck.
2007-10-31 16:45:57 · answer #6 · answered by whatshername 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well she followed you didn't she.I would not be friends with her.Does your husband now know what went on back then with her.He probably should.If he continues to see her then you know he is a dog also and he should be your next ex too.He should respect your marriage and tell her this situation will not work and he can't continue being her friend.
2007-10-31 16:48:31 · answer #7 · answered by lollypop 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Great script for Jerry Springer. This can't be for real. Move to another state, cut all ties with ex's, this can't end good.
2007-10-31 16:38:53 · answer #8 · answered by javelin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
strange coincidence maybe??? dont torture urself with the awful possibilities. just trust ur husband until he gives u a reason not to. and theres no reason to let this chik get to u either, that just gives her power over u and thats something u dont want. be in control of urself and ur emotions. dont let someone else dictate them for u.
2007-10-31 16:38:43 · answer #9 · answered by ilovemysoldier 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't see trouble where there is none. Tell your husband of how she fits into your past and that for your peace of mind would he please stay away from her.
Then ignore her living there. Trust in the love of your husband and in his love for you.
Good Luck
2007-10-31 16:42:44 · answer #10 · answered by mn lady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋