Family & Relationships - 31 October 2007

This has happened a lot. A will talk to a girl, then another guy will start talking to her and start talking smack about me to make himself look better. It happens a lot! How should I handle myself in these situations to come out on top?

2007-10-31 11:57:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my teacher was flirting with a techer its really obvious.but today my freind told me he touched the girl teacher (ms.wood) butt. she said "that's an insult" he said your on the list*wink*" i alredy dont like the guy. is he a perv? what should i do i already try to avoid him. also hes also yelling at us to be quiet during class, but when ms. Wood is there hes always nice and never screams. do you think he will ever touch anyone else or her anywere else on her body? if yes what do i do. the techer that he works with is already divorce cuz her hubby was in jail for looking at girl body parts, how would she feel if he went to jail this time.

2007-10-31 11:57:51 · 2 answers · asked by Jenna A☻♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

so i want to know what is a clever line to use when asking her out for lunch or hang out .sarcastic or funny but not serious so i dont scare her off
ladies help, fellas?

2007-10-31 11:56:44 · 5 answers · asked by patronman 1 in Singles & Dating

Any tips on how to move out i would appreciate i have a truck, i have a job that pays 11.59 an hour, i've already been told by the counselors that i have enough credits to graduate....i want to move out because my 28 year old irresponsible sister irritates me to the point where everytime i am home i am frustrated and stressed out! because she is a slob...and treats my parents like slaves.

2007-10-31 11:55:46 · 9 answers · asked by Catastraphe 1 in Family

It's disgusting. He makes this noise deep down in his throat that you make when you snort down mucus.

He doesn't sniffle and he never blows his nose. He does this year round. He doesn't sound congested at all even though he claims that he is.

He won't take medication either to fix his "congestion". He says he doesn't want to be doped up on something even though my family tells him that not all meds will "dope" him up.

It's sick and I've asked him to stop, he still does it. Any ideas?

God my family is nuts.

2007-10-31 11:52:45 · 4 answers · asked by iwuvrockandroll 2 in Family

2007-10-31 11:45:27 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Its our 2 year anniversary. I was wondering what would be a good gift for my wife, I wanted something practical and romantic, but wanted to keep it at $200. What do you all think.
Thank You
Jesse

2007-10-31 11:44:59 · 0 answers · asked by Jesus R 1 in Weddings

I really like this boy in my 7th grade class.Hes my friend and we laugh together all the time,hes very silly. I think he likes me because I noticed signs a lot.Today he was borrowing my planner(electronic)he used it for a while then he saw my telephone list. He typed in his name then showed me while smiling.What he was doing i didnt really understand so i just smiled.Next thing i know hes typing in his number. Then after hes finish my friend asks to borrow it and hes looking akward at me like he wants me to say something to stop her. He then he was forced to quickly delete his number. I really like him a lot but i was dissapointed that he deleted his number "not that id be brave enough to call" anyway was he flirting? If he was what should i do to show i feel the same cause I dont want to ruin our friendship since i have to see him almost every day? Remember I'm a shy middle school girl.

2007-10-31 11:43:09 · 3 answers · asked by MiddleSchoolGirl 1 in Family

2007-10-31 11:42:42 · 9 answers · asked by dismamiizfresh 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

me and my lad recently split after being together for 5 years! we decided last year to try for a baby! now we have split up and i still want his baby and still love him very much! what can i do? please help me?

2007-10-31 11:38:36 · 25 answers · asked by roosty 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok well there's this girl i like, let's call her H.R. (her initials) ok...and i told one of her friends we'll call K.B. (her initials) (we're all in the same classes) and when KB told HR, HR said "ew...he's weird." but ever since then....i've noticed HR constantly staring at me during classes. When i see her stare at me, she turns away immediately. and this one time on the bus, (she sits in the middle, and i sit in the front to get off faster) (not really getting into detail about it) ok she walks by me, looks down at me while i look up and she starts giggling...i think HR is flirting with me even if she won't admit it...what do you guys think about it???

2007-10-31 11:36:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am... "engaged", but not officially. I wont consider myself as officially engaged until I have my ring. Some people consider this being materialistic, I consider it being traditional. What is a girl to do.?

2007-10-31 11:34:37 · 40 answers · asked by pretty82 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend is trying to seek custody of her son. The lawyer said it would be good to get a court appointed guardian. What excatly do they do? The child is 3 yrs old.

2007-10-31 11:34:28 · 5 answers · asked by Riley's Mommy 6 in Family

My fiance and i are looking for ideas were having a winter wedding and are looking for nice but not to inexpensive ideas, got a few like candle + wreaths, or vases and flowers also thought of having mini cocktail fountains filled with blu water + silver glitter "our wedding colours"

2007-10-31 11:33:00 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

First of all i'm 17 live w/ my parents and work 25 hours a week while going to school my 28 year old sister is a single mother living with us (my parents) who works 3 days a week depends on welfare, is dirty (doesnt change clothes, barely showers, disgusting breath) stays at home all day watching tv and making a mess and letting her son run wild & do what he pleases and expects my mother to clean, and cook for her! i am goin CRAZY! she irritates me just the simple fact that she doesnt care about my mom who works as a housekeeper 40 hours a week! how is she so ungratfull? i want to tell her to LEAVE! but everytime i tell her she is selfish and ungratfull she starts hitting hurself and saying she wishes she was dead and crying and i find myself in the same position i was in before which is she is being a slob at home. also she has her OWN TRAILER! so its not like we would kick her out to the streets. & she brought all her furniture to our house yesterday! like she moved in! i need help!!

2007-10-31 11:30:50 · 4 answers · asked by Catastraphe 1 in Family

Ok my friend is a great person...pretty,talented, smart, and super-nice. She plays soccer and is very slim, but recently she has no appetite and can barely eat much without being nautious. She has no intentions of becoming anorexic, because that scares her as well. What should she do?

2007-10-31 11:29:42 · 12 answers · asked by Carey 3 in Friends

i miss him so much. does this mean i love him or does it just mean i am attached and need to get a life?

2007-10-31 11:27:30 · 7 answers · asked by jay Lo 1 in Singles & Dating

Just about 2 weeks ago my girlfriend left me. Since then I've been feeling lost and empty. I miss her so much and i want her back. And there was a time when i did actually feel like the luckiest guy in world to have her. We've been dating since the middle of summer and just being with her were the best times of my life. There was one problem though, we never really talked. We lacked communication, and i know that communication is the key to a good relationship. One thing lead to another and it seemed like she eventually became uncomfortable and bored with me. She insists that we stay friends and just move on. I really don't know what to do anymore and since then I've been crying every other day. I really love her. I want to approach her and talk to her about this. Please help!

2007-10-31 11:24:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If your spouse purposely avoids telling you before marriage that he/she has Asthama would you consider it a matter so serious that you would consider seperation?

2007-10-31 11:24:36 · 22 answers · asked by Justanian 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am going yo school for nursing right now and i have about 2 years left. Me and my boyfriend have been together for over a year and a half and latley we have been talking a lot about marriage. We know that we both want to take that step but the question is just when. Should i wait until i finish school to get married.

2007-10-31 11:24:26 · 11 answers · asked by forever yours 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I really like this boy in my 7th grade class.Hes my friend and we laugh together all the time,hes very silly. I think he likes me because I noticed signs a lot.Today he was borrowing my planner(electronic)he used it for a while then he saw my telephone list. He typed in his name then showed me while smiling.What he was doing i didnt really understand so i just smiled.Next thing i know hes typing in his number. Then after hes finish my friend asks to borrow it and hes looking akward at me like he wants me to say something to stop her. He then he was forced to quickly delete his number. I really like him a lot but i was dissapointed that he deleted his number "not that id be brave enough to call" anyway was he flirting? If he was what should i do to show i feel the same cause I dont want to ruin our friendship since i have to see him almost every day? Remember I'm a shy middle school girl.

2007-10-31 11:19:59 · 9 answers · asked by MiddleSchoolGirl 1 in Singles & Dating

So yeah, we're in a conversation, about work and ideas and stuff...

And I'll listen to what she has to say, when I say something she'll just talk over me or inturupt and carry on speaking. It makes me furious!

I usually just walk off and stop listening to her, even though there's three of us talking. What other things can I do without being rude?

2007-10-31 11:18:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Almost every time my boyfriend says he loves me he kinda mumbles it. Like he says it in a low voice with the words running together. You know what I mean and he usually doesn't look at me. Like this morning I was leaving to go to work and I said I love you Mike, he mumbles it back. I looked at him and asked why he says it that way. He says he doesn't mean to that he just don't think. I said well it hurts me and makes me think you don't mean it when you say it and he is like well I am sorry. I tell him that all the time but he still almost always mumbles it. Why? Do you think he doesn't mean it? Serious answers only please this is already bothering me enough.

2007-10-31 11:15:58 · 24 answers · asked by It's MIRANDA!!!! 4 in Singles & Dating

Hi!

more than a year ago I met this girl. We started to go out almost immediately. She was everything a guy can ask for. Smart, sexy and absolutely lovely. We were going steady for the whole summer but as she was from a foreign country she had to leave in the end to finish her education. We both knew that this is going to happen and newer made a big deal out of it. So when the time came with no regrets she left. The thing is that we were great together or at list that is what I thought. And then it got really hard because only when she left I understood how deep I fell in love with her. I was going mad. So in the end I left the country myself. I was traveling all over the world and it took me about 2 months to feel better. We kept in touch for the next year. It was on and off. Sometimes she did not return my calls and I even erased her number from my phone a few times. But she always managed to give an excuse and everything was good again. After she graduated we came to a conclusion that she will come back and stay with me. This actually made me the happiest man alive. Then she came. For the first couple of weeks it was like a fairytale but then something happened. She became cold. She was ditching me whenever I came up to her. When I asked what is wrong she said that leaving together was to much for her as she had some bad experience in the past. Now I know that the truth is that she has been going out with a guy for 6 years. It was on and off. He cheated on her she cheated on him. But they still end up together all the time. When she first came here she was trying to get over him and then she met me. But the moment she came back it all started again. And now she was trying to do the same thing but she just couldn't let it go. She found him again. Now they share this cute over the phone relationship. And I am totally screwed. Ofcourse I couldn't take it and she is moving out ASAP in that I was firm but I just don't want her to go. I know that this is the right thing to do but I just don't want to let her go. She wants to stay friends but I cant. This is all too hard. She told me that she just loves him too much and maybe with time she will be able to move on. But where does that leave me? I love her too. What to do?

2007-10-31 11:14:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why do I keep pushing my bf away like I don't deserve him, he be happy without me. He says I start fight for no reason because I want him to leave and I want to be unhappy.

2007-10-31 11:14:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend has a female friend, and for some reason I feel threatened by her. I'm not usually insecure and would not call myself the "jealous" type. It's just this one girl in particular whose relationship with him bothers me. I was ignoring it, until I checked out her myspace page and my boyfriend wrote her a comment about how beautiful she is under one of her pictures. Should I ask him about it, and if so how? I don't want to appear insecure.

I should also mention that I don't think he's physically cheating on me....the girl lives in Florida and we live in Pennsylvania. But it does bother me that they seem to have some sort of "emotional connection". They talk all the time!

2007-10-31 11:11:25 · 14 answers · asked by janine o 4 in Marriage & Divorce

like why would guys want to play with their girl's belly? seriously!

2007-10-31 11:10:18 · 5 answers · asked by rosa 1 in Singles & Dating

I just started seing this gilr she 27 and just came of a 5 year relationship, and I have been single for 3 years already ad came off an 8 year relationship, now this girl tells me that she dont want to just have sex with me but everytime I see her she just wants to do it what should I do???
I dont just want that out of a relationship I want more, should i dump her??? or ???

2007-10-31 11:09:32 · 6 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

I was talking to a guy in a foreign country when his exwife started trouble for him and his two boys. There's been alot of DRAMA (alot is an under estimate too) that has followed since then but I haven't heard from him or talked to him in over 3 weeks....The last time we talked I told him I was first and foremost a friend & was here for him, but haven't heard from him since.
Should I considered this a break up? Or is he just taking the needed space to get him and his boys pulled back together? Any single parent advice?

2007-10-31 11:07:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I myself believe it is endanger because with the studying I have done a person with bipolar can snap and use the knife to kill you. And I have tried too report it to CPS and they won't do a thing. I live in Texas. Plus this person ignores her other child by not getting her nothing and buys her son anyhting he wants including knives.

2007-10-31 11:04:33 · 12 answers · asked by poohbear5262110 1 in Marriage & Divorce