Hi!
more than a year ago I met this girl. We started to go out almost immediately. She was everything a guy can ask for. Smart, sexy and absolutely lovely. We were going steady for the whole summer but as she was from a foreign country she had to leave in the end to finish her education. We both knew that this is going to happen and newer made a big deal out of it. So when the time came with no regrets she left. The thing is that we were great together or at list that is what I thought. And then it got really hard because only when she left I understood how deep I fell in love with her. I was going mad. So in the end I left the country myself. I was traveling all over the world and it took me about 2 months to feel better. We kept in touch for the next year. It was on and off. Sometimes she did not return my calls and I even erased her number from my phone a few times. But she always managed to give an excuse and everything was good again. After she graduated we came to a conclusion that she will come back and stay with me. This actually made me the happiest man alive. Then she came. For the first couple of weeks it was like a fairytale but then something happened. She became cold. She was ditching me whenever I came up to her. When I asked what is wrong she said that leaving together was to much for her as she had some bad experience in the past. Now I know that the truth is that she has been going out with a guy for 6 years. It was on and off. He cheated on her she cheated on him. But they still end up together all the time. When she first came here she was trying to get over him and then she met me. But the moment she came back it all started again. And now she was trying to do the same thing but she just couldn't let it go. She found him again. Now they share this cute over the phone relationship. And I am totally screwed. Ofcourse I couldn't take it and she is moving out ASAP in that I was firm but I just don't want her to go. I know that this is the right thing to do but I just don't want to let her go. She wants to stay friends but I cant. This is all too hard. She told me that she just loves him too much and maybe with time she will be able to move on. But where does that leave me? I love her too. What to do?
2007-10-31 11:14:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Grow a pair and find a woman that loves you. Their are plenty of great women out there. She will always be his, if you think otherwise, you are in denial and will continue to torture yourself.
2007-10-31 11:24:45 · answer #1 · answered by Yo it's Me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to get out of this relationship as soon as possible. This is going to drive you crazy! I realize how difficult it is to give someone up, but its obvious that she does not love you. do you really want to be in that kind of relationship? Let her go and move on. You have to do it for your own sanity. You will find the right one in time.
2007-10-31 18:23:41 · answer #2 · answered by Brown eyed girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she's using you as her door mat. If she's the one contacting you when she's on the outs with her beau, then maybe it's time you change your number. And remember, time heals all wounds.
2007-10-31 18:26:19 · answer #3 · answered by jesskaz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well when it comes down to this...obviously she isnt meant for you! I'm sure there is someone out there though..and you will definetly find her...love takes time...love comes softly! good luck :]
2007-10-31 18:23:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the girl loves another guy then you got to stay out of it and find another one....
2007-10-31 18:17:54 · answer #5 · answered by November Rain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
frm what i'm hearing this girl is not the one for u. you deserve better and need to get over her there are plenty of girls who won't treat u like that!!!!
2007-10-31 18:21:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋