I am going yo school for nursing right now and i have about 2 years left. Me and my boyfriend have been together for over a year and a half and latley we have been talking a lot about marriage. We know that we both want to take that step but the question is just when. Should i wait until i finish school to get married.
2007-10-31 11:24:26 · 11 answers · asked by forever yours 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes you should wait til you are finish with school. things change once you are married and even though it may seem like they won't they will. you take care of you first you are almost finish he can wait til you are establish as a nurse. please i am talking from experience. You only been together for a year and a half not enough time to know for sure. look at it this way you can have the time to take care of your marriage without school in the way. lot of people don't realize that marriage is a full time job and you can't quit it because you are tired and don't want the position any longer. you made vows and you have to take those seriously.Finish school and then get married trust me you going to have a lot of things going on enough why have stress from school to add to it.
2007-10-31 12:39:22 · answer #1 · answered by mslady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should finish. It is just so much easier in so many ways. If you want to be together the rest of your lives, then you will. It doesn't matter when you get married.
I got engaged when I was a Sophomore in college, my (now) husband had graduated the previous year. We waited 3 1/2 years and I am SO glad we did.
There just really isn't any reason to make things more complicated and more difficult than they already are. School is hard, so is marriage. KISS (Keep It Simple Sweetie).
2007-10-31 18:34:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well i agree with some people here, it doesn't matter if you are in school, if you guys feel ready to take that step then go for it !!! though having kids before finishing school i would really think about it...
Allot of things can happen in 2 years, so if you are ready don't wait!!
2007-10-31 18:44:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Finish school first and then see where you're at.
You should both have good jobs before you get
married.
At your ages, you will both do a lot of growing in
the next few years, (maybe not in the same direction).
Wait. It's just common sense.
2007-10-31 18:53:15 · answer #4 · answered by Irv S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this is something you and your boyfriend have to decide, I dont see a problem with it as long as he is not asking you to give up your schooling a relationship is all about communication and as long as you are both on the same page with what you see your future to be then only the two of you know if you are ready
good luck
2007-10-31 20:03:21 · answer #5 · answered by nfldwct123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's the delimma. School is hard. Marriage is very hard. If you both believe you can work on the marriage as much as you are committing to school, then yes. A successful marriage takes a LOT of work, it challenges you emotionally and mentally. Don't underestimate the amount of work it takes to make it work.
2007-10-31 19:00:32 · answer #6 · answered by John R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes wait until you finish school. It is alot better becuase then you can get a good job pay for rent and bills and you will be better of.. Plus you can see how your man really is in these years if he is the man of your life or just another phase it is better to date a guy for a couple of years and see his true face
2007-10-31 18:37:17 · answer #7 · answered by Lost 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am in the same dilemma. i am also a nursing student. my boyfriend/fiancee would like to get married right away, but i feel that school should come first. i feel that we should be established before talking such a big step. when it comes down to it, you need to figure out whether or not marraige will be a distraction to your education.
2007-10-31 18:47:52 · answer #8 · answered by pretty82 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
finish school if you get married life has a way of making it difficult to go when your married and if you drop out odds are you will never go back
2007-11-04 18:21:53 · answer #9 · answered by shadowalker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HI,THERE IS NO NEED TO WAIT TO FINISH YOUR STUDY,IF U THINK THAT U R READY FOR MARRIAGE RESPONSIBILTIES AND MARRIAGE CAN CAUSE MORE PROGRESS FOR BOTH OF U,THEN,DON'T HESITATE.WISH U LUCK.
2007-10-31 18:31:03 · answer #10 · answered by halipac 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋