Family & Relationships - 31 October 2007

who will always be his daughter but can not forgive him for so much? What steps should be taken to fix a broken daughter/father relationship?
She has lost respect and love for him, now.

2007-10-31 10:13:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am a very mature person, i am18 but i am told by everyone that i act 22 , all my freinds are crazy, but they say i should try to chill out i bit more , so does my mum but the trouble is i dont like letting my hair down, but do you think letting my hair down is a good idea

2007-10-31 10:12:28 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ok, there's this guy that's been my really good friend for a while, here's the problem:
he asked me out, i said no because i was already in a relationship
then he told me it was all good cuz him and i couldnt/shouldnt have a romantic relationship anyway because we have a teacher-student relationship already
then he said some things implying he wanted to go out and told me to listen to Face to Face and Something Between Us - Daft Punk which...also imply he likes me...
what am i supposed to do and think?

2007-10-31 10:12:14 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I moved in with an old highschool friend in august. We signed separate year leases. The apartment is TINY without any common area outside of a tiny kitchen, and i have an 8x8 room. Such little space would make it hard to live with even the perfect roomie, which this girl is NOT. Without getting into details, its bad enough that I want out. I found a new place, and i want to move out a little before jan.
How do i tell this girl that im leaving? Ive already tried getting her to look into getting a bigger place with me, but she doesnt want to be bothered right now. Its her first time living away from home, and she doesnt have any friends in this city except for me. For years she's been going on about how I'm the "perfect roomie" and how she's so happy, but I'm miserable. We're on separate leases, so if i leave she wont have any problems rentwise. I know she'll still feel abandoned. How do I break it to her gently, and perhaps preserve the friendship?

2007-10-31 10:11:19 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

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(my body. i know it looks disgusting)

http://s182.photobucket.com/albums/x50/Blahboredom123/?action=view¤t=DSCF1590.jpg (my eye is weird.)

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(even worse.)

2007-10-31 10:10:56 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

are there any people on here who remarried someone that they previously divorced.....if so was it better or worse the 2nd time around...

i would appreciate peoples stories

2007-10-31 10:09:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

theres this girl he's been liking for a long time now and they just went to a halloween party

his knee cap is messed up so he couldn't dance...
so the girl he likes just sat over with him and they talked
he sat there for the whole party with a icebag on his leg and the girl kept coming over to him and by the end they were holding hands and she was leaning her head on his shoulder wearing his sweater and gloves

then today at school he told me about how when he walked next to her she didn't make a reach for his hand like last night

and her friend asked her if she would go out with him and she said I dont know

he was the happiest i've seen him in a long time

what should i tell him?
she's single should he ask her out?

2007-10-31 10:09:23 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why do adults judge kids so much at there age when they like a boy??

2007-10-31 10:07:31 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

or some reason im kind of shy around guys some times. i have a lot of guy friends, but sometimes there are awkward moments.. lol. i cant think of anythin to talk about except things like how are you, etc... and i wanna talk about other things i just dont kno what. its funny cuz i have some guy friends that i can say random things nd be retarded around... lol, and i can say whatever i want and comes to my mind, its just easier to find something to talk about. but with other guys (includin this guy i had a crush on, but its not just crushes) i cant be like that, i dont know why. i am shy at first but once i get to know the person i let lose. thats just the way i am. but how can i help avoid or being less awkward with other guys????

2007-10-31 10:07:01 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Is it bad to kick her out...

After all it is your wedding, and I want my husband thinking about me, and not lusting after her!!

2007-10-31 10:05:27 · 46 answers · asked by Green Tea Happy 3 in Weddings

If I was a banana would you eat me?

2007-10-31 10:05:19 · 11 answers · asked by resurrected 3 in Singles & Dating

and you don't know what to say or do...

2007-10-31 10:04:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I want to go from most unwanted kid in class to most wanted kid in class!
Why
I will explain a list that shows why i am not wanted

1. I ask a nice question and one boy always replys "Because it saw your face"
2. No one wants to be my friend
3. I keep being called names like "Gay retard, retarded,"
4. They think i have brain damage.
5. I even have a crush on a girl but she already has a boyfriend.
6.I am just sick of this crap.

Please help me.I would add anyone that can help me to my contacts for sure.PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE

And i am 12 O_O

2007-10-31 10:03:05 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

How do I get my husband to look at me liek he use to? WHen he was proud , thought I was pretty, and never raised his voice /argue at me? Does he still love me?

2007-10-31 10:00:47 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I hve been with the person for over 71/2 yrs . and married to this person for over 3 1/2 yrs. this person is specail to me and I have bent over backwards to do what I could to make this person Happy and Today after all I hhave put up with { this person walking out 8 Times } and we are trying to work everything out but now Todsy this person wants me to tie- up another 4 yrs. son theycan go to school, this sounds good but here is the problem they want me to stay in this small Town were it is hard enough to make the bills meet at the end of thee month and now wants me to stay another 4 yrs. so she can go to school again.

2007-10-31 10:00:28 · 19 answers · asked by little Bear 1 in Marriage & Divorce

well i have an EXTREMELY bad jealousy problem, and i am very insecure. I ruined my past relationship because of it. I would get angry and jealous over the stupidest things. I would get so jealous and angry if my girlfriend even looked at a guy a certain way. I would always be suspicious and always coming up with scenarios of what she is doing...like getting gang banged or whatever. the most ridiculous things would pop in my head. i would break up with her every other day and she would always cry and beg like you wouldnt believe for me to stay with her. No matter how sincere she was or convincing. it never was enough. the thoughts would always come of her doing something with another guy or just something agianst me. For example, If she didnt text me back right away when i knew she was home (if i wasnt doubting she was really home) I would think she was talking to some guy flirting with him or with another guy. she never cheated on me or anything. anybody else have or had this problem?

2007-10-31 10:00:05 · 7 answers · asked by Jon 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been feeling really down recently and one of my friends has told me that she self harms. I've never thought about self harming but for a while I just feel so depressed and like I want to die. My other friends don't care - they don't notice much of what's going on in my life. I'm really stuck and I seriously need some help. Any help would be good so thanks in advance.

2007-10-31 09:58:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

okay i am shy how do i over come that and be talkitive

2007-10-31 09:56:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

or would you prefer someone who was on the same intellectual level.

2007-10-31 09:54:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I used to have a friend with benefits when I was single. We met when I was 20 and then lost contact, but ran into each other 3 years later. Everything started up again and didn’t stop until I moved out of state a little over 4 years ago. I really liked him and wanted to be in a serious relationship, but he flat out told me he wasn’t ready for that. I accepted that and moved on with my life. I got laid off my job and that’s when I moved. He would call me from time to time, but we never talked about anything serious. I met my husband 7 months later and we have been married a little over 3 years. I thought he was the most wonderful man ever – until he cheated on me this past January. I called the ex-fling because I was hurt and wanted to tell him about it. He was very supportive but that’s when he admitted his feelings for me. Whether or not they were true, I don’t know, but I knew I wasn’t interested anymore. Now he calls every 3 ot 4 months.

2007-10-31 09:52:55 · 22 answers · asked by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4 in Marriage & Divorce

If a man is married with kids, and acts like he is happy but all of a sudden he is acting a little diffrent. His cell phone rings late at night and he dont answer, but later on he will get up and go make a call. Come to find out it is a woman who he met in a bar and they are good friends now. If they were good friends would u not think he would have told his wife about her, or he didnt tell her because he is fooling around with her? And he says that she is someone he can talk to about his personal problems, tell me what do you think?

2007-10-31 09:52:53 · 33 answers · asked by kisha8223 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I was in a relationship with this guy I really care about. But right now we are taking a break. He said that some past experiences made him cold and he doesn't think he can ever truly love someone again. The girl he used to be with cheated on him, totalled his truck, and miscarried his baby on purpose. He says that he doesn't want to ever trust anyone again. He says our relationship wouldnt be that good b/c of his insecurities and b/c he doesnt believe in love anymore. How do I deal with this? Any ideas on what I should say to him? I really don't want to let him go just b/c some stupid girl made him like this. I just don't know what to do...

2007-10-31 09:48:10 · 1 answers · asked by shopaholic 1 in Singles & Dating

Ladies which guy is less attractive? A guy who rents a sexy car and says he owns it or a guy who drives a minivan because he likes to feel safe?

2007-10-31 09:47:40 · 6 answers · asked by judgemartiniz 5 in Singles & Dating

Ok, this girl at my job always talks to me, sits on my lap durin break sometimes. Whenever she goes out to lunch or goes upstairs to get coffee she asks me if i needed or would like anything. She doesnt talk to the other coworkers like the way she talks to me. She says that she is a serious person and takes things seriously. We text msg one another everyday, we have gone out to lunch a few times. the other day she sent me a text msg sayin that I like u alot. does this mean she likes me just as friends or possibly more than that. Im starting to liker her alot as well. What should i tell her? Should i ask her out? What do i need to do next.? thanks H

2007-10-31 09:47:22 · 30 answers · asked by tbg1982 1 in Singles & Dating

i thought she wants to used that money for emergency.....but she kinda slip and i find out that she just want to send that money to my cousing for his bday......which is a big deal for me....first of all i'm not sure if she will ever pay that money or not? my mom told me that my aunt never pay her back everytime she owed money from her...also i'm a single parent no one help me financially.

what should i do?

2007-10-31 09:45:37 · 15 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family

I have this really good friend, Josh, who moved to another state this May. I've kind of lost contact with him, and I'd really like to find out his address/phone number so I can write/call him. I've tried some online search websites, but they aren't really working. It's really important to me that I find him. Please help!

2007-10-31 09:42:34 · 25 answers · asked by dancegirl.victoria 1 in Friends

So I really like this girl who just broke up with her boyfriend, as in a few days ago. I knew her from high school but I moved 5 hours away to go to college. She asked me to be her date ate homecoming so i'm driving home on Friday to be her date at homecoming. Seeing as how she just broke up with her boyfriend (maybe she doesnt want anyone else to know that she's already going on a date with another guy) and that I don't even go to the highschool, should I get her a mum or not?

2007-10-31 09:41:37 · 8 answers · asked by Senarine 2 in Singles & Dating

I live close to Boston, Ma and when my friends and I go to the bars we have a few drinks, meet guys, dance if that is the sence, and so on. I am outgoing, great personality, and single..I am not a clingy person and I cant seem to find the right guy or a nice guy that i am interested in...I am 23, 5'3, 145lbs,graduated from college,love to play sports, etc...What am i doing wrong,what do guys look for when they are out, and can someone help me?

2007-10-31 09:41:19 · 5 answers · asked by ozzybosox 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-31 09:41:01 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

my girlfriend goes to UCSD and im still a senior in high school but shes 8 hours away from where i live should i cheat on the downlow or should i just keep tryin my hardest to be with her??we've also been together for a year now but my sex life isgetting restless what should i do

2007-10-31 09:40:08 · 32 answers · asked by MR.oneinch 1 in Singles & Dating