I live close to Boston, Ma and when my friends and I go to the bars we have a few drinks, meet guys, dance if that is the sence, and so on. I am outgoing, great personality, and single..I am not a clingy person and I cant seem to find the right guy or a nice guy that i am interested in...I am 23, 5'3, 145lbs,graduated from college,love to play sports, etc...What am i doing wrong,what do guys look for when they are out, and can someone help me?
2007-10-31 09:41:19 · 5 answers · asked by ozzybosox 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, youre going to bars to meet guys. bars are kind of more of a fling-type atmosphere-- and long term stuff doesnt blossom from that stuff.
theres lots of options-- look around your workplace, join an coed intramural sport at your local gym, etc. hit up places you like-- the guys there probably hold similar interests
2007-10-31 09:46:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alot of guys are afraid to approach a women so you need to get up the courage and start approaching them and making them feel comfortable around you. Just let them see that you are an outgoing person and fun to be around. They are looking for girls that are not snooty and wont dance with certain people so my suggestion is dance with everyone even if they are not your type and the others will see that you are not stuck on yourself and they will then start approaching you. It doesnt hurt to approach them either and who knows maybe you will meet mr right
2007-10-31 09:47:35 · answer #2 · answered by jenniferk5683 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bars are the worst place to meet guys; guys who want a real, committed relationship don't go to bars. Start looking elsewhere, and you'll find better choices.
2007-10-31 09:45:05 · answer #3 · answered by xK 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when a guy tries to pick up a girl at a bar, hes just looking for sex, try looking somewhere else
2007-10-31 09:44:38 · answer #4 · answered by boredatwork 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop looking, and youll fall into his arms instead. Live life to enjoy it instead of always looking for something more, and the things that you want will come.
2007-10-31 09:49:59 · answer #5 · answered by katie t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋