omg...
you're just going to have to grow up a little bit.
and you're probably going to have to stop being a gay retard.
2007-10-31 10:07:19
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answered by stopbeingretarded 4
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I can see that you are intelligent and have a sense of humor. Those are nice qualities to have. I would try to increase all your strong points, including those two. I think you need to get that one boy to stop making an a** out you and that would help. I know you don't want to narc on him but telling the teacher privately is the first place to start on shutting him up. Tell her how bad he makes you feel and that you want him to stop insulting you in class in front of everyone. Just make sure no one hears you tell on him. If she doesn't or can't make that brat leave you alone then tell someone else, like the principal. If there is someone else that insults you a lot, then don't leave them out, tell on them too. Next...I know it's hard to tell your heart what to do, but you would really be better off liking a girl that has no boyfriend. Make sure you have stylish clothes, kids your age really respect a guy who looks cool. Standing up for yourself is important. When someone insults you, insult them back. You have a witty sense of humor and should be able to get other kids to turn from laughing at you to laughing at the devil that made fun of you first. Kids always want an underdog to pick on to make themselves feel better, make your mind up not to be this person. Don't let them get the best of you! You are still really young and high school is different than seventh grade, there is still time to work on your image and turn your life around. Good at a sport? Become better than good, work on being one of the best. This will help you tremendously in high school. I wish you much fame and popularity in the future.
2007-10-31 17:21:39
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answered by checkthisout! 5
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I read this and thought about it a bit. I know in school, when i was there, it was very hard to change how people think of you. I got picked on like this since i was 8, and i know it's hard to get through all the insults. I think the best thing to do is to laugh in their faces. find someone in yur class that likes you and will try and be your friend. People like that seem to think they are amazing, but usually they are the biggest retards in the world. The more you let them get to you, the more they will think they can look hard in front of their mates. I hope this helps you. Always stay positive, it's the best thing we have sometimes.
2007-10-31 17:26:13
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answered by Anonymous
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Yeah, kids can be so cruel. I should know, growing up was tough for me, too. I got called names and hardly had friends. So I feel your pain. I'm 26 now so I can brush it off.
Let me ask you, are you very out going? Most kids who get picked on are both shy and smart - those two seem to go hand in hand. That was me: smart and quiet. Kept to myself and did my work - so I got picked on. It made me an easy target.
Oh and if you let them know that it bothers you, they will CONTINUE to pick on you and call you names. Instead of getting angry at their remarks, try laughing along with them. Then again, if you do, they might think you agree with them. But odds are, they won't. The whole reason for picking on someone is to make them feel bad and/or to get them angry and riled up and explode. If you do the opposite, it'll throw them for a loop and surprise them.
Who knows. Try to be more outgoing and be a class clown - tell a joke that would make them laugh.
Hang in there, I know it's tough - but as the saying goes "What doesn't kill us, only makes us stronger." It's difficult to look past these things now, but you will look back on it and probably even laugh like I do. Best of luck to you on that.
2007-10-31 17:13:19
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answered by iammai 4
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It's tough to be 12, and probably the smallest
in the class.
Kids are thoughtless by definition.
It might help you to know that they pick on you
because they are afraid that otherwise someone
might notice what geeks they are.
The best I can tell you is there is going to be
a lot of "this crap" in life to deal with and you're
getting good training that will serve you well.
Study hard, and later on you'll be the one in the
position to deal it out.
(Have the decency not to when that time comes.
You'll like yourself better for it.)
2007-10-31 18:33:17
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answered by Irv S 7
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I'm sure you've heard this before, but here it goes... Being liked by people who would call you names and would respond with things like, "because it saw your face" isn't worth anything. These aren't friendships that are going to last, or are going to bring you happiness. My advice is to seek out people that you have things in common with and get to know them. Having friends that are like you and that understand you is WAY more important than being the most popular. School is hard, but when it's over you'll be left with your self-respect if you don't work to please the jerks.
2007-10-31 17:08:45
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answered by Pregnant 1
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Tough situation. Well, try to be helpful, if you can change something about yourself do it drastically. Like wear something totally different. Tell these annoying people to cut the crap, and try to impress others that might have an influence on them. Be better in class, be the one to have the higher grades in something if possible. Other wise all I know is threatening, and taking it a higher level, like talking to teachers about the kids harrassing you.
Good luck! My brother's been in your shoes. Its crazy and a pain.
2007-10-31 17:11:28
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answered by K.S.N. 2
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find just 1 person that likes you and has the same interests and forget the rest. as long as you are not a freak or something you will find someone. even freaks have friends. don't be gender specific either find a boy or girl and just forget about the rest of the people.
2007-10-31 17:15:58
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answered by mud pie 3
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Don't worry bout what other people think of you. as you grow up you will become more popular and you will show them that you are better then them. Your not here for anyone else but your self. Just be strong and remember that you are special to many people and kids are mean in school. and they do it because they feel bad bout them self's and want to feel better.
2007-10-31 17:08:15
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answered by shy 4
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Those people are not worth having you as a friend! You need to find friends who like you for being you and to hell with the rest of them! I know you want to be popular, but it's not worth having to act like someone you're not. Be true to yourself and forget those other people. One day, they'll be coming to you for a job! Good luck, sweetie!!
2007-10-31 17:06:51
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answered by Texas Horse Lover 4
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as u are only 12 Hun,i suggest u talk to a guidance councilor in your school they will be able to help you out,or chat to your mam Hun,i wish you the best and always remember you are a unique person and deserve the best in life,you will be OK good luck darling....
2007-10-31 17:07:47
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answered by Angelx 5
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