my girlfriend goes to UCSD and im still a senior in high school but shes 8 hours away from where i live should i cheat on the downlow or should i just keep tryin my hardest to be with her??we've also been together for a year now but my sex life isgetting restless what should i do
2007-10-31 09:40:08 · 32 answers · asked by MR.oneinch 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well that is just juvenile. Either stay faithful or break up with her. Chances are though that you have already made up your mind to cheat or you would not be asking the question. But if you truely care about her, don't string her along when she could be seeing other people too.
2007-10-31 09:55:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh to cheat or not to cheat. well simple . best thing no! you should tell her that you love and miss her while she is gone and that you think it is best that you see other people. That way if you miss her and want her back when you graduate and maybe move closer to her or she to you there will not be all the anger and no chance of getting her back and if she finds out you cheated TRUST me you wont get her back if she is smart! so , this way you can do your thing and keep her in your life as a friend. and IF you want to get back with her you can. Good luck
2007-10-31 09:45:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
NONONONONONONO!!!!! Break up with her first...talk about dating others...cheating ruins lives; even in HS! Wouldn't you feel better just breaking up and maybe remaining friends or at least civil to each other than to get caught cheating and lose your friend for life? And the guilt-what if it makes you feel guilty? Can you live with yourself? I bet you'd feel like crap because you at least had the decency to have second thoughts about it and ask! Make it easy for both of you and break up if getting some action is that over-whelming.
2007-10-31 09:52:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! If she's not worth you being faithful, then end the relationsip. Sex aside, is this a girl you want to be with or are you looking for someone else? Figure that out and make the decision BEFORE you are with another girl!
2007-10-31 09:50:29 · answer #4 · answered by Jen G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a senior in high school, you shouldn't saddle yourself with the pressure and unneeded stress of a relationship, much less a long distance relationship.
I would tell her that you are going to start seeing other people, I can assure you she's feeling the same urges and things.
2007-10-31 09:45:46 · answer #5 · answered by Phil M 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need todecide if she is the right one for you or if it is just something that is going away with time. If you are not interested in her then you need to tell her and tell her your concerns so that she will understand but dont cheat on her. That is not fair to her or anyone else involved in the situation
2007-10-31 09:49:44 · answer #6 · answered by jenniferk5683 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating can be exciting and fun.......
But it's also come with responsiblies and headache.
If you know that your long distance relationship is not working out than why drag it on. Unless you still love and care for your girlfriend, then you should give it another try.
2007-10-31 09:47:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're even thinking about cheating on your girlfriend then you don't care for her as much as you think. You should never cheat, especially if it's pre-meditated. Maybe it's time to break up?
2007-10-31 09:43:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
dont cheat, if you do you cant undo it. go visit her. ive been in a situation like this and i guess you could talk and see if she feels that way too. mayeb you could still be together but be in an open relationship. just dont cheat on her!
2007-10-31 09:48:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up, and then cheating isn't an issue. You can play with whomever you desire, no bad karma.
Treat people as you'd want to be treated...if you wouldn't want a lover cheating on you, don't do it to them. Period.
2007-10-31 09:43:22 · answer #10 · answered by . 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋