How can I make him look at me like he use too?

Question

How do I get my husband to look at me liek he use to? WHen he was proud , thought I was pretty, and never raised his voice /argue at me? Does he still love me?

Answer 1

Love isn't the issue. It's pretty easy to think that, but be asure, he will always love you, love doesn't do nothing more then make us feel. Your dilema is in how, what feelings and to what intensity. Your anwser to yourself apparently is to try to be more attractive, a possibility but then if thats all he needs/wants from you what happens when someone just as pretty gives him more? That aside putting yourself in this situation is just abusive, talk to him, if you can't, then you might have to accept a mistake. I know you don't want to hear that, but thats the only thing you could do, talk to the man, see if he understands, make a relationship based on something other then shallow attractions. Anything less then that, and in time, you will not have a choice....