Ok, this girl at my job always talks to me, sits on my lap durin break sometimes. Whenever she goes out to lunch or goes upstairs to get coffee she asks me if i needed or would like anything. She doesnt talk to the other coworkers like the way she talks to me. She says that she is a serious person and takes things seriously. We text msg one another everyday, we have gone out to lunch a few times. the other day she sent me a text msg sayin that I like u alot. does this mean she likes me just as friends or possibly more than that. Im starting to liker her alot as well. What should i tell her? Should i ask her out? What do i need to do next.? thanks H
2007-10-31 09:47:22 · 30 answers · asked by tbg1982 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This girl is totally into you. If u like her 2 then go 4 it. Ask her on a date or something.
2007-10-31 10:03:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out. What can she say - no? At least you will know.
The sitting on the lap thing makes me think it is possibly more.
Be careful though at work. If things sour then it can make for a bad working environment. Also from a womans point of view ask yourself why she does not talk to other people. That might be a future red flag but those are my thoughts.
Good luck!
2007-10-31 16:51:58 · answer #2 · answered by Ann 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
She sits on your lap at the office? Not very professional.
Do yourself a favor, don't sh!t where you eat. Dating a co-worker is bad form and unprofessional, and I would not doubt that you'd be the main attraction in the office gossip pool, especially when things don't work out. It would make for a hellish way to spend 8 hours of your daily life. Save your reputation, expand your social circle and date people who don't work with you.
2007-10-31 16:53:51 · answer #3 · answered by sleepingliv 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dork. She just told you, in no uncertain terms that she likes you a lot. Nobody bothers saying that if it's just a on a friendship level. You can safely plant one on her next time you see her. HOWEVER (cue the bad news music), dating a co-worker is a sure way to make things awkward, or get one or both of your fired. Find out what the policy is for office relationships at your office.
2007-10-31 16:51:54 · answer #4 · answered by largegrasseatingmonster 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she really is interested in you. If your both not married or seeing other people. You should go out a few times to see how it goes. Good luck to the both of you.
2007-10-31 17:05:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like all of the signs are pointing to yes. Of course she likes you more than just friends, and if you're feeling the same way, I say proceed and see what happens. I hope this helped...but, really she's given you all the signs!
Stay Positive.
Stay Strong.
2007-10-31 16:52:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you says that she is seriously so if i were you i couldn't ask her out but try to be closer as well to know that or guess that. send her sms i like you , you are a good friend. show that you can not understand her meaning and like her as a friend so in that time she tells you more!!
2007-10-31 16:53:51 · answer #7 · answered by nikee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask her out, she has obviously dropped you enough hints. Give it a go, you have nothing to lose but a lot to gain. Good Luck xx
2007-10-31 16:50:43 · answer #8 · answered by susie h 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Jesus, do you have to have something hit you on the head for you to realize it's there?
This chick totally digs you, make a move before it's too late.
2007-10-31 16:50:52 · answer #9 · answered by jay k 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls don't say "I like you" unless they mean it in a more-than-friends sense. Ask her out on a date, after work, to show you're serious.
2007-10-31 16:50:17 · answer #10 · answered by xK 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋