im tires of the same ole stuff i want something new! i want and adventure some excitement and for goodness sake i want to make it where hes so turned on he will just go down on me without me having to ask him to! almost everytime i have to ask him to!
2007-10-31 08:55:39 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Go to the craft store and buy 3 different types of feathers, and something to make a blindfold and have some silky material left over.
Gently lay him down (or have him lay you down) with the blindfold on and gently bind the hands and have them up over their heads while they lay there.
Now get the feathers, a glass of ice water and some of the warming oil that gets hot when you blow on it. Get some erotic music playing in the background and the key it to avoid the "obvious" areas until the person can't take the teasing anymore - other than that don't mix wet areas to the feathers, just use your imagination and take your time!
I'd love if my partner could last 40 minutes or more but it seems after only 15 she's pulling off the blindfold and bindings and attacking me. But during those 15 minutes I can really get some goosebumps and gasps of pleasure out of her. And when she can't take it anymore she really gets crazy I just love it.
I recommend you try it, I enjoy being the giver or receiver hopefully you both will too.
2007-10-31 09:51:08 · answer #1 · answered by Zaferus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex toys are great. Sounds stupid, but they really are. They really add a whole new dimension and they are so much fun! If you want to read a really good book on them, try Sex Toys 101 or the Many Joys of Sex Toys. Both of them were great. Not everyone is comfortable with using them, but when we did, everything was more exciting. Porn is always a nice addition too, there is some good stuff out there. Its not all badly filmed. Does he like outfits? My man loves the lacy thigh high stockings with the garters, that always turns him on (and gets him to do what I want without asking)!
2007-10-31 16:07:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always laugh when I hear the women at work complain about the same. The women at work always complain, but really do nothing to excite their men....
Most guys are visually stimulated, that's why they'll stare at a women in a mini skirt......even though she may not really fit in it.....little things will go a long way. Try getting a sexy bra, g-strings also excite men....
Also be spontaneous....go out to a movie, and stick your hands in his pants...then go down on him........I guarantee you won't finish watching the movie. You will get him so excited, he will be yours.......all I can say is if you don't like a situation, change it, be the leader not the follower.....
good luck
2007-10-31 16:09:18 · answer #3 · answered by manoudii 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to wear some really skimpy shorts that are easy to take off. Then go with him to the park and sit on the table while hes on the bench sitting and if it doesnt work then hes probably a fudge packer. The after that if he goes through it, then let him hit it in the butt and that should make an interesting night.
2007-10-31 16:00:23 · answer #4 · answered by DJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to ask cause he probably doesn't like doing it... for some added spice... get an adult film and try watching it with him... trust me he won't think you're wierd. There are movies out there designed specifically with women in mind... meaning they have a plot and a story line. Purchase some new lingerie... something absolutely tasteless and out of the ordinary for you. Or you could try just raveging him. Anything new you try will probably get him going... you can't just lay on your back... you have to find what works for you. Good luck!
2007-10-31 16:02:18 · answer #5 · answered by sorrow2serenity2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how far you want to take it. The first thing you have to do is get inside of his head and find out all of his fantasies and things that turn him on. I hate to say it but it is like the intelligence community in that you have to do your recon. Once you find out his "weaknesses" exploit them for all they are worth. Push his buttons until he explodes and you get what you want. You have to talk to him though and let him know how you feel or else you will never know what he truly desires (be careful though because what he desires may actually turn you off so just be forewarned). Good luck.
2007-10-31 16:04:44 · answer #6 · answered by No one 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ask, just do a lot of teasing until he wants to do it. You might be too ready for the finale which precludes him going where he wants. Try shaving, if you have not already. Take a shower to gather and wash him and have him wash you. Be more patient. Don't get to the final too fast.
2007-10-31 15:59:30 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Christmas is soon, be waiting on him on the bed with just a bow down there!
One of the favorite things my wife does is come straight to the bedroom (if I am already in bed) from the shower and just climbs on my face. NO WORDS NEEDED!
I love to perform oral on her!
2007-10-31 15:59:11 · answer #8 · answered by me4tennessee 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tease him, Or do what I did dress in something nice go rent a stripteses movie and watch and do the same thing to him.
2007-10-31 16:22:10 · answer #9 · answered by Lost 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go on a date. A real date. Dress up act cute. Drink a little. Have fun. Before you get home start kissing him like you mean it. One thing should lead to another. my husband begs to go down on me so I can't help there.
2007-10-31 16:04:43 · answer #10 · answered by Nikki R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋