Recently iv encountered a constant problem where guys initially seem really keen and txt/ring all the time then for no apparent reason seem to lose and interest and leave me kinda hanging and wondering what i did wrong (even though i know iv done nothing!) Id be grateful if anyone has any insight to offer on why men play such mind games.
2007-10-31 08:44:25 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's the shallow boys you are dealing with. What's happening is there are all these sparks when he first started talking to you. Kinda like to jagged rocks rubbing against each other throwing sparks everywhere. Well, after a few rubs.. (insert joke here), the sparks aren't as spectacular, and lo and behold, there's another girl with different jaggies on her rock. (insert bizarre innuendo here). Anyway, there are more sparks coming off this girl so you get left spinning in space looking for someone to spark up against.
Bottom line, guard your heart with all diligence. Don't give your heart too easy, if a man is worth it, he won't be looking for new sparkers everywhere, but he'll rub up against you 'til he gets to the gooey center. (metaphorically speaking of course)
2007-10-31 08:54:40 · answer #1 · answered by Rick H 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are a couple possibilities........
1) Realize there Not gonna get what there after, (sex)
2) Got what they wanted, (you're thinking about them).
3) Met someone else
4) Immature and rude, don't realize people have feelings
5) Try meeting in person, something like 10%-15% of what's communicated is the words, that's all texting has
6 Group dare, (I DARE you to text her!!)
7 It's impossible to develop an in depth relationship base on texting........waste of time
The list can go on, if you want to be with someone, be with them, use texting to set up meeting, nothing else.
Luck
2007-10-31 15:51:46 · answer #2 · answered by spam_free_he_he 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They do the same thing to me. The only thing I can think of is that they're on the internet, and there are billions of women on the internet, and having that many choices causes them to run from one to another to another, kind of like a game of musical chairs. Pretty soon, there is only one girl left and they're stuck with her. Unfortunately, I've never been that girl! From now on, don't take all their calls, don't answer all their texts, don't make them feel so secure with you. Leave them hanging. Make them pursue you so that you are totally invested in them and then poof, they're gone. Men can be very selfish!
2007-10-31 15:49:08 · answer #3 · answered by Kitten Hood 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys like the chase.. If you respond too quickly and give too much they lose interest...
I used to be like that.. Then I just stopped caring about who I talk to and if it's going to go anywhere..
I let them do all the work..
If they aren't interested after a while, they aren't worth your time..
As for mind games, guys are waaaay too simple to play mind games...
The guys I know that do that, are the ones who got played first..
Good Luck!
2007-10-31 15:54:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the Kitten Hood. Guys love the thrill of the chase.
2007-10-31 15:51:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
They are men and therefore cannot walk and chew gum at the same time!!! They cannot multi-task and are clueless when it comes to our feelings!!!
2007-10-31 15:51:16 · answer #6 · answered by L 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋