Family & Relationships - 31 October 2007

I asked my sil if she had anything to ask me. She told me no. I know that she does. Why? Because at one point she wanted to talk to me. I didn't. When I first met her I spoke to her and she looked at me and rolled her eyes and said hmmp(Like good riddance). After this I felt as if she didn't like me. So I stayed my distance from her. Now she wants to talk to me. She does not understand why I never say too much to her. She has to know why. I know she has issues against me but won't come out with them. How can I get her to be more open and honest with me on how she feels about me?

2007-10-31 05:05:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My question is more about care for the family, duties around the house, and respect and or submissiveness towards a husband.

2007-10-31 05:00:40 · 17 answers · asked by jb2003hf 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Wondering if the men are similar as described in the book....cause i know that whatever is written for women is almost correct .....................

2007-10-31 05:00:23 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-10-31 04:58:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Arguably, especially in todays society. I think cheating has no consequences. People can afford to have affairs now, more then in the past. AND I HATE SAYING THAT! HONESTLY! We live in a expendable/instant-gratification kind of society. Even if there's children or whatever involved. It doesn't really matter anymore. People just feel so entitled. Its all a toss in the air now. . .

So do think cheating still has it consequences? Or is it officially open season?

And if so, what does that say about relationships now?

2007-10-31 04:58:14 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Have you ever been in a 3some and if you have do you like to be in charge or do you like the woman to be ,just curious

2007-10-31 04:57:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

some guys like being stalked, and some don't, i'm stalking this guy i like, he doesn't know yet that i'm stalking him, atleast i think he doesn't know, anyways, how can i find out if he likes me stalking him or doesn't like me stalking him?

2007-10-31 04:57:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My marriage failed because my husband accused me of having an affair with my colleague.B4 this,our marriage have been on the rock.We both did mistakes and being busy with our own work,we tend to neglect each other.We slowly moved on with our life.I only get to see my kid 3 times a week.It hurts me when I can't get to be with my kid everyday.So i decide to give a 2nd chance to our marriage.But my ex husband is too ego.He keeps saying I was the one to mess up the marriage.Just Imagine,he abuses me,I paid for his hp bills and the mthly car instalment,he ever had an affair behind me.But when I ask him to give some tots for our kid's future and give our marriage a 2nd chance,he refused.what can I do when I am so prepared to compromise things with him but he is too ego?

2007-10-31 04:56:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-31 04:54:15 · 38 answers · asked by ashookochar 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

if you meet a guy or woamn that spent 5 years without any sex would that be a positive or negative aspect in a potential partner?

would you wonder why nothing happened for so long?

2007-10-31 04:48:37 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year. It's always been hard for us to not be jealous. Neither of us can really be friends with a person of the opposite sex without the other one worrying, and it's terrible! Is there anything I can say to myself or him that will help us get over this and realize that we know we won't cheat on each other or hurt each other?

2007-10-31 04:47:14 · 8 answers · asked by JitterBug589 3 in Singles & Dating

Whenever I talk to this person, he becomes very aloof and doesn't talk to me. And whenever he does talk, he acts as if he does not want me to be his friend. Slowly, I stopped talking to him. But now, we hardly talk. We do nothing. I want to talk to him and be his friend. What do I do? I'm a guy. And he's not my crush.

P L E A S E help!!

2007-10-31 04:46:08 · 32 answers · asked by i 3 in Friends

4 years ago, my girlfriend cheated on me with another guy. I found out 2 weeks after we broke up...one of her friends told me. I kept single for 4 years after that. Now, I'm in a relationship with an absolutely amazing girl. She's the most beautiful, wonderful, smart...I could go on, but I won't... ...anyway, I know 100% that she wouldn't ever cheat on me. We really do care for each other. But I just can't keep myself from being selfish and safe guarded around her. I'm afraid of being hurt...though I know she would never hurt me.

Anyway, my question is this...my relationship 4 years ago left me with a scar. Now in my current relationship, how do I rid myself of that scar?

2007-10-31 04:44:18 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So much has been said between my boyfriend and I. We have been together for seven years and there was ALWAYS a trust issue. He treats me like I am this horrible person who goes out and cheats all the time. We've been fighting for almost a year now and I can't take it anymore! We have three kids together and I don't want them to suffer but " I'm sorry "can no longer mask the scars that I have. (mental and emotional of course) People who knew me before him tell me that I am a different person now.. that I almost seem like a shell of who I was. I don't know what to do. Is it worth leaving and trying to find someone out there who will trust me around my guy friends or do I stick it out for the kids and just hope that he will change.

2007-10-31 04:42:22 · 26 answers · asked by lissa034715 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Trying to understand women better, and in particular, my girlfriend. It is pretty difficult to be on the receiving end of PMS especially when nothing has been said/done to provoke an angry or spiteful response. I would really appreciate mature responses from women that suffer from PMS. I want to be a more informed man so that I can respond to my GF appropriately. Thank you for your answers.

2007-10-31 04:41:42 · 6 answers · asked by Andy8875 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-31 04:40:43 · 23 answers · asked by Khairul A R 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-31 04:39:50 · 2 answers · asked by youill 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I live in Texas right now but am contemplating moving back to my home town in California. We have a one year old son. How would the laws work in order for me to move comfortably to California without it being considered "kidnapping" if my ex decides to DISAGREE on me moving and taking our son???

2007-10-31 04:37:29 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I just dont get it. They want to ''move on with thier life'' and yet they keep expecting you to be there. What gives? Anyone else dealt with this? What did you do?

2007-10-31 04:32:32 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my parents are tough ,my brothers are assholes i cant stand them,i have no sister & my freinds are not like me we don't have commen things & stuff !!idk wt should i do iam 17 !!in college which i hate it !!!i go there & laughe with my friends & have some fun but when i go back home i just hate my life !!!!my parents don't do nothing to me but so over protective they can't understand iam grown up now they have to let me live my life ,they don't understand pravicy at all!!!wt can i do to make them understand or change there mind?help plz

2007-10-31 04:30:03 · 14 answers · asked by lost90 2 in Family

My husband and I are "taking a break"; since my son and I left, he's been letting himself fall for someone else. I saw our phone bill - 1200 text messages and 70 phone calls between them in 16 days. My neighbors also told me she's been going over there consistently. My husband says nothing "sexual" has happened, but has admitted to feeling more than friendly towards her and kissing her. I wanted to try to fix our marriage; he seems to have given up. Do I fight for my family, or has this gone too far to be saved? I don't think I can forgive him for getting involved with someone else while he's still married to me, and before I found all this out, he said he was willing to try marriage counseling; now because she's in the picture, I dont think he wants to try to fix the damage he's caused. What should I do?

2007-10-31 04:29:50 · 24 answers · asked by Nikki 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've only been married for a month and I'm starting to feel like my husband is already not appreciating me. I run a business from my home and I have to bring in 60% of the money. I don't do things like buy clothes or get my nails done because I want to save money. I'm starting to resent this only because I don't see him making the same sacrifices. He wanted something the other day and I said it was expensive and his response was "It's ok, you'll make up the extra money"... I'm tired of "making up" I want to save so we can get ahead. I even gave up my costume this year so he could have the one he wanted. On top of working 10 hours a day, I do ALL the housework. He doesn't acknowledge when it's done but he complains when it's not. And little things like he will take the pillow from under my head or leave his dishes for me to clean up, leaves his clothes everywhere... I'm exhausted, I work ALL the time and it's only two of us! What can I do to make him appreciate what I do and help out???

2007-10-31 04:25:44 · 17 answers · asked by . 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Does anyone here live in Rocky Mount, NC, or anywhere close by like Nashville, Wilson, etc?

2007-10-31 04:24:46 · 4 answers · asked by I think I'm Dumb ~Amy~ 7 in Friends

He's been working full time for almost a year now. Mainly we didn't collect rent from him so he could save money. We just found out he hasn't saved much at all. Now he has taken off at least 3 days off from work over the past two weeks due to going to rock concerts. He's buying concert tickets, new amp for his guitar, concert sweashirts, tees, train tickets, etc, We informed him as of Jan 1 he will have to pay us some rent. Also, he's been planning social events on the work week nights and I can't sleep properly if he isn't home and have two other kids that must get up very early for school. Is this fair to the rest of the family? Please give me your thoughts on this. Thanks.

2007-10-31 04:17:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-10-31 04:13:03 · 6 answers · asked by stealth 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-31 04:12:38 · 26 answers · asked by ichigo_dj 1 in Singles & Dating

me and my mum had a huge argument yest and i ended up saying something really hateful just to hurt her. she called me a b*tch and went to slap me but i moved out of the way. I later said i shouldnt have said it but i didnt actually appologise cos if she hadnt wounded me up so much i never would have said it. Now shes told me today she doesnt want to come to the big family christmas day dinner and wants to be by herself. ive told her fine and its no skin of my nose but it infuriates me that shes doing it to make a point and now ive got to make excuses as to why she wont be there!!!!!!!!

2007-10-31 04:12:25 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

because i talk about her all the time and i use to crry all the time,but now that my family says mean things to me.i don't talk about her anymore and i can't even cry anymore.i just stay up late at night feeling depressed and i feel so alone without my mom.why can't i cry anymore over my mom is it because i'm all cried out or is it because of the things my family says to me.

2007-10-31 04:12:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Brief history: Moved in together after a 2 month trip where we had travelled together, and 1st met. 2 years later, had a child, unplanned. Went home for a family reunion and was highly pressured into getting married, so we did. Married 7.5 yrs and have 2 children. He is from a less well off family and therefore our views on $ are different. He is also not into going out much. I've been begging for dates for 7 yrs. Simple, nothing fancy. He often uses $ as the reason we do not go out. But a picnic or hike costs nothing. (We do make 100k a year) Over the yrs, I have outletted to several men - all flirty friendships, but close to "the line." At this point, I feel that I need more. I feel guilty for my flirtations and know that they may continue in the future. I do not want to hurt anyone, especially our children. But, I do not want to continue to feel this way "on the fence" for another 5 yrs. We are on our 3rd round of therapy and he is asking me do make my choice NOW.

2007-10-31 04:11:05 · 18 answers · asked by Love 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Guys and Girls (adults and not teenagers pls.) i need your opinion and if you have any experiences about this, and tips if you want it to become serious, or should i just drop it?.. Thanks :)

2007-10-31 04:10:17 · 17 answers · asked by femmephoen 1 in Singles & Dating