marriage . you ac use your spouse of cheating .things just don"t go right what do you do ?

Question

I forgot one pice of the puzzle a stronge denile is always there.

Answer 1

In the first place don't accuse her of cheating, especially if you don't mean it, or aren't sure. An accusation of that magnitude says "I don't trust you", so even if there's nothing to it, you have irrevocably damaged that relationship. And if she's innocent, she's so offended and hurt that her thoughts are consumed with the logisitics of when and where to dump you. Maybe you should attempt some damage control, soon. Good luck.

Answer 2

I think you blew it. If your relationship was a little off before, you may have just finished it. My Ex husband did the same to me. Final straw. He accused me of an affair with a dear friend of both of ours in front of our kids. The kids were mad at him and so was I. I left him and never looked back. We were already on rocky ground and it just made me realize what he thought of me. I don't know how you fix it but maybe groveling and counseling might help. You better do your work or you could lose her with out a second thought

Answer 3

unless you have positive evidence of the cheating you should not accuse. On the other hand if it is then that person needs to apologize and get right with their spouse.

Answer 4

If she is innocent, you have insulted her. If she's guilty, it should be over anyway. You didn't say why you thought she was cheating. If you really believe she was/is, you would be better off w/o her.

Answer 5

join the club. if you want to work it out, get some counseling and try to make things right. if not, then move on.

Answer 6

you do not accuse anyone of anything unless you have proof to back up your claim