Guys and Girls (adults and not teenagers pls.) i need your opinion and if you have any experiences about this, and tips if you want it to become serious, or should i just drop it?.. Thanks :)
2007-10-31 04:10:17 · 17 answers · asked by femmephoen 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NOT POSSIBLE>> It's like a shooting star Hot, Fiery, Fast, Furious, Forceful & Unstoppable. But when its lost its momentum, run it's course & landed with a thud. There is nothing left there but a hole & a big hot mess! In other words it is a short lived thing, though something you shouldn't miss. Ride it like the wind, savor the time, but know it is a short spectacular journey that will leave a deep cut.
2007-10-31 04:13:01 · answer #1 · answered by char__c is a good cooker 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure it's possible. My situation was a little different. I was friends with a guy for a long long time. He had the idea that because we were both single, we should sleep together. I reluctantly agreed, and we ended up dating for about a year. Things could of worked out, but I was emotionally unavailable. So why don't you say something to this person you are physical with? You never know, they could feel the same way. And if they don't, you could back away now before you get hurt.
Good luck!
2007-10-31 11:14:40 · answer #2 · answered by Ambi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have, but its not the easiest path to a serious relationship. Some people get hung up on the fact that the intimacy came too soon. For me it doesn't matter which comes first, but I won't stay in a relationship for any length of time if its just physical. there has to be an emotional and mental connection to make it last.
2007-10-31 11:16:29 · answer #3 · answered by John M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes..kind of. A couple of years ago I met a guy i felt an intense physical attraction to (Im married btw) and we decided to be **** buddies. Just sex, nothing else. Great plan eh?
The sex was intense, exciting, and addictive. But within weeks i wanted more, hated the days that we didnt meet up, couldnt stop thinking about him. Needless to say he didnt feel the same...and i ended up with a broken heart.
Tread carefully!
2007-10-31 11:15:37 · answer #4 · answered by Pretty in punk chick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my husbands friend had that going on and it literally just became serious on its own, but both partners were feeling the same way so it just happend without anyone saying anything, for you though I would hold out from saying anything, and just try to be a little more boyfriend worthy, maybe buy a present for this person, or do some little nice sweet things cook dinner ect.? hope that helps.
2007-10-31 11:15:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had a purely physical relationship before but it didnt turn into something serious, which we both didn't want. I do believe it could happen though.
2007-10-31 11:22:42 · answer #6 · answered by miss_laura_jane 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ask the person about it. In my experience, if they're willing to be a friend with benefits, they're not interested in being anything more. If they really wanted you, they would've gone for a relationship first. But it's always best to talk to them about it. If they're a good friend, they're going to be willing to sit down and talk with you about it, and even if you do wind up rejected, you'll feel better knowing where you stand.
2007-10-31 11:13:35 · answer #7 · answered by gilgamesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're asking about the odds that it will happen, i would say that it is possible but the chances are slim.
I suggest that you just enjoy and cherish what you two have right now. If its really meant to happen then it will. Who knows, you might get lucky. Goodluck!
2007-10-31 11:46:26 · answer #8 · answered by Gemme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it all has to do with the mind. If you're in it for just the 'PHYSICAL' aspects of it then no, i would say that feelings wouldn't be involved, but if you go into it looking for something else then yes feeling can become involved and it'll be harder to let go that way.
2007-10-31 11:14:13 · answer #9 · answered by ~Cheta K.~ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes its very possible. one of the partners will end up with more feeling than the other.
2007-10-31 11:13:49 · answer #10 · answered by fi fi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋