Family & Relationships - 31 October 2007

2007-10-31 04:10:13 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im going out with this girl on saturday. im 17,very VERY inexperienced and VERY SHY. i dont know what to say. how do i flirt? how do i compliment her without being pushy? my friend told me she likes me too but i dont know cuz she called me cute and girls DO NOT LIKE CUTE GUYS.. .. but i dont think she pays attention to that, probably because im very góodlooking. We are going out in like a group , how do i get her alone? How do i kiss? ..Please..I will ruin everything i know.. it always happen ...

2007-10-31 04:09:04 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

for your closest friend ?

2007-10-31 04:07:02 · 27 answers · asked by rudeguest 6 in Friends

2007-10-31 04:05:10 · 12 answers · asked by lob p 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-31 04:01:21 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

just thinking

2007-10-31 03:58:46 · 27 answers · asked by Flame thrower 1 in Family

she was in a 10 year relationship with a guy who didnt express love and affection so she told me she doesnt know how too express herself n feels uncomfortable kissin n huggin but confuses me is that everytime we see e/o she say oh no kiss and i give her a kiss
so i told her this " i dont like to play games and i like to be upfront with people, like u i have been hurt before and i m seeing the warning signs, im going to take a step and see how things play out rather then continuing to put my self out there" her responds was "u know this wont turn out well if both people dont put themselve out there" so we had a talk and she tells me that she didnt see anything with us just friends so lets be friends but what confuses me is that she said she like me, she kisses and invites me everywhere n when i was distance she called me so many times
i dont get this situation
please help

2007-10-31 03:58:42 · 11 answers · asked by simple J 4 in Marriage & Divorce

How many of u make ur hubby's lunch? Well I do but last night I just forgot I was to tired and its not the 1st time I have 4gotten and he never blew up at me b4,so my hubby just text me right now and said"mmmm lunch is gonna be great today" I said whats that suppose to mean he said "oh cuz its NOTHING", I said the hamburgers were in the fridge he then said "ya and I eat them reheated right" So basically I told him u know what I aint ur f**king mommy so f*ck off...And then tells me "I see ur in a chipper mood"...WTF is that?... We have 3 kids and I do everything around the house and I'm not complaining about that but wtf LUNCH get real...Whos wrong me or him in ur opinion...does he have a right to be pissed about it?Its a fricken lunch for gods sake!

Sry had to vent every1 I know is workin...lol

2007-10-31 03:58:15 · 31 answers · asked by NONAME 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I broke up with her because I wasnt sure how I felt, dated other girls and realized how much I love my ex. I try to get her back and she says shes not into being used, she deserves someone who knows he wants her when he has her...Why is she being so dumb? She said she loves me but deserves better

2007-10-31 03:58:02 · 17 answers · asked by liz 1 in Singles & Dating

What is the bottom line in a marriage? Is it that you have the same goals in life? Is it that you enjoy each other s company more than the company of anyone else?

For me it is the glory of finding a true partner - someone that you support AND supports you in everything... 2 people that are perfect alone, but better together...2 people that may not share the same goals, but can support each others goals and work together to build a better life...2 people that can look to each other for support and encouragement when traveling down life's sometimes bumpy paths...I could go on, but I'll run outta room... so, what is the bottom line?

2007-10-31 03:57:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok I have been at my present job for 3 months now and it sucks! I am in college and I work at the front desk at a gym. Although it is a fairly easy job, the pay sucks and so do the hours. Also, all I do all day is fold bucket loads of towels and the trainers and my boss think they are better than everybody else because they are "fit". Oh yea and I hate dealing with the public because I get harassed by a bunch of perverted men. Anyways... I applied to this other job for a receptionist and they pay $1.50 more than I get now and the hours are great and fit perfect with my schedule. I go in next week for a 2nd interview.... if they offer it... would you take it if you were me?

Thanks!

2007-10-31 03:56:26 · 25 answers · asked by blue_star12111 1 in Family

we werent married he does see her but hes not on the birth certificate

2007-10-31 03:56:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Don't get me wrong, people should be allowed to subscribe to any belief system they want, but don't you find it to be immature, irrational, and overall stupid? In relationships, you aren't just dealing with your own feelings, but you are dealing with someone else's. These zodiac-lovers are not choosing their own dating destiny. I mean, would you want to date someone who might just break your heart just because of some zodiac they read in their local newspaper? Don't you feel that they use their zodiac stereotypes as an excuse for their own shortcomings? Isn't it too random of a system when dealing with people's hearts?

2007-10-31 03:52:20 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hello. I have been reading these boards for some time and have never had a reason to post a question until now...

My bf and I have been together for 5 months. Everthing was pretty darn good until recently. He has a woman friend that he work with and they are very good friends, which is fine, actually I've met and hung out with her and her husband several times. I couldn't shake this uneasy feeling I would have around them. I asked a few imes if anything had ever gone on and my bf's reply was "No, I care about her, she and her husband are really good friends of mine". I listened but quite honestly didn't buy it because my gut was telling me otherwise. So after a few months I hear again that someone thought that he and this married woman WERE messing around at one point (someone that works with them and had a feeling as well). So ow I have m gut telling me something AND a person telling me they thought the same thing. So I did something kind of shady and sat him down and said "I know eveything that happened with you and her. You need to tell me the truth now or I am out the door." So he started by saying "Okay, well about a year ago..." and I stopped him. I didn't want to hear the datails, I just wanted him to admit it. So I broke down bawling and asked "how could you to this to her husband, how could you do something with a MARRIED woman, what if your wife did that, if you don't respect marriage vows how can you respect OUR commitment??" I could tell he felt horrible and remorseful and he told me how awful he's been feeling and how he knows it was a huge mistake. I never thought he did anything while with me, he has never acted weird or lied as far as I know. This other person said that she was suspicious last year and that she hasn't heard anything since last year.

I know this is long...so it KILLS me that she was being all friendly and we were hanging out with her and her HUSBAND! How could they both act like everything was okay knowing what they did??? Needless-to-say, they are both scared *hitless now because if I found out so could her husband. My question is, is everyone entitled to a mistake (and he's 27, she's 25)? Should I chalk this up to the past and try to move on? I just don't know if I can look at him the same anymore...we've decided to "get through this" but I am nervous to see him face to face, I'm afraid I will feel disgusted instead of hopeful. What would you all do?

2007-10-31 03:51:56 · 41 answers · asked by laura1977 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I am looking for men to use for case studies in a book that I am writing about the imbalances in the judicial system regarding custody, support and parental alienation...among other things. These case studies will be anonymously presented. If you feel that you have suffered, that you would like to help others find solutions so that in the future maybe equality will be more firmly established...please contact me. I am a woman married to a man who suffers repeatedly at the hands of his ex because of the love he holds for his children. I think I can help make a difference. Please respond to Piedmontconcern@yahoo.com. Thank you in advance and know that you are not alone.

2007-10-31 03:51:33 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hi! Please help.
I'm in love with a girl working on a dvd club but i don't know her, i don't know if she has a boyfriend and i'm just one of the many customers. There are 3-4 people working on the dvd rental shop and i always wait the right moment to return the dvd's to her and pay. She is very sweet and beautifull, how can i start?

2007-10-31 03:48:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

After 2 weeks I told my b/f I loved him he said I couldn't possibly, it was to soon. Was it?

2007-10-31 03:46:38 · 28 answers · asked by Eric's Angel 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-31 03:44:48 · 3 answers · asked by DIANA B 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

what's your height, age, and are you a guy or a girl?

2007-10-31 03:44:29 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What is the most attractive thing about a woman (personality or looks) and what turns you on/off?

2007-10-31 03:42:40 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me n my ex broke up like two months ago.
but i still love him. I still cry for him. But i think breaking up with him was the right disision. We are close friends now and we still talk but he has moved on sooo easily. N thats what pisses me off. Like he always tellin me about diff girls he messed with n this one girl he talks about her evry single day. he said he wish he had a girlfriend as good as her. It makes me feel like ****. it makes me feel like there was no point of us even going out in the first place. I to mess with other guys but i dont talk about it as much as he does. and because of this every time when he says somthing smart i get mad. n i kinda flip out on him. i guess its because im mad we broke up n i mad that i still love him.
what should i do?? should i tell him what im feeling??

2007-10-31 03:41:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if a girl tells u that ur bf wants to break up w/ u then a week later he ask her out isn't that considerd steeling!!!!!!!!

2007-10-31 03:40:44 · 9 answers · asked by Kiki 2 in Singles & Dating

So basically my girlfriend did something that kinda hurt me, she was talking to this girl on the phone and referred to me as just a friend we have been going out for like a year.....so i told her is upset me, and it was lack of respect towards me, and she is the one that started crying, why she is the one that hurt me.

2007-10-31 03:40:12 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what do i do now? ive asked a girl out for a movie and she agreed.....we are going like tomorw, but what do i do then at the movies?im not a talkative person!!!!!!!!!!!!!tips pls!!!!!!!

2007-10-31 03:38:19 · 10 answers · asked by ricky_gell 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi I am 30 yrs old and have been married for going on 13 yrs been together 15 and have two girls. I have often been referred as the rock of the family. I truly believe that what dosent kill you makes you stronger. I am stronge for my family, but I have a secret and cant afford to get help. So I thought I would write about it maybe make a book as an outlet. I was sexually molested from the age of 7 to 12 yrs old, by 10 different people, and I have a mother that I couldn't count on and knew it from a very young age, so I kept that with me for a very long time. I recently told her of a few and like I thought back then I shouldnt have, she dosent believe me. She went back and told the whole family about it. I care but dont at the same time. We were never liked by anyone in our family growing up so thats kind of why I dont care. It hurts that my own mother dosent believe me and has humiliated me. I was just wondering if anyone has gone threw this, by multi people? Am I alone? Why me?

2007-10-31 03:37:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i just have to say that i am not all about presents but he could have atleast had our 8 yr and our 4 yr old make me a card while i was working or something.

2007-10-31 03:36:57 · 30 answers · asked by Tessie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I have been going out for 11 months and are at the same university. We are planning to move out of halls next year and we are unsure whether to live in a house together or not. My boyfriend is a christian and if we were to live together we would not be sharing a room. We both the same friends and are finding it hard to establish separate houses.

2007-10-31 03:35:10 · 9 answers · asked by Lala 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been married for 5 years and have two young children together at first in my marriage everything was fine then now i have changed i gained 40 pounds and dont look like i did before and my husband has noticed my change and niceley has told me the thing is that because i my weight gain i am moody all the time because I am not happy with myself and i am taking it out on my family nowi tend to nag him ALOT and i just feel that i am pushing him away what do you think?

2007-10-31 03:33:57 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband of 13 yrs had an affair 2 years ago. He was very far away from home working after hurricane Katrina, he was gone for 10 months, we only saw each other 4 times in that period, we were having extreme financial difficulties(which is why he even took the job away from home to start with), and I was falling into depression. Not any of which are excuses to cheat on your spouse, but in time...it has made me see a little of how it could happen. Things were not as great here as I made them out to be. Anyway, it all came out, we went to therapy and things got a lot better. I would even say the emotional and even physical connection we have now is stronger than ever. But it seems the past couple of months it has just been on my mind constantly, and I find myself throwing verbal jabs before I even realize it. Yes, he screwed up but he has also done everything he could possibly do to make things right again. I have never met or even seen this woman that made it a point after he came home

2007-10-31 03:33:30 · 16 answers · asked by hurtand still in love 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my bf and I have been dating for about 3 years, and its been a really rocky ride. we are serious and love each other a lot....but here's the problem: because we've both had our share of quirks (HIS immaturity, constant joking behavior, taking everything for granted, and MY nagging, emotional-ness, always wanting to discuss our probs)...we never get anywhere.
I DONT WANT ANYONE TELLING ME TO BREAK UP WITH HIM RIGHT AWAY...
i'm just looking for some advice because ive narrowed it down, but theres still a lot I want to talk to him about....but the minute I say the word "talk" he gets furious and tries to avoid me and the situation for as long as possible. I try to tell him that it saves us both a lot of time and pain to talk about things and figure out how to fix them right away rather than never knowing and then when the problem arises again, we get into trouble.

how do i fix this? i want him to realize what he does wrong without thinking i'm a nag...please give me practical advice!

2007-10-31 03:28:25 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating