2007-10-31 04:10:13 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it could happen,
the attraction could be between souls,spirits,beliefs, personalities,or minds....before it is between bodies.
don't u sometimes think of a certain person as unattractive one...& once u talk n u get to know that person & respect him....somehow he suddenly appeals to u physically?!
i say it happens!
2007-10-31 04:24:29 · answer #1 · answered by angel 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am not a man but I say "Sure." Haven't you heard of love at first sight? Many happily married couple says they knew on their first date that they were meant to be. My personal experience is that if you think you are in love after having sex, it's probably because sex is very personal and intimate and intense. Unfortunately, guys think more with their penises and not their hearts and have even been known to say "I love you" when having sex when they don't mean it. Of course, they say that a lot to get you in the sack as well. If you personally had someone with sex for the first time and you feel like you're in love and wondering if he is feeling the same way, it depends on if it was a one-night stand. If it was, it was definitely not love and I can guarantee that's how he feels. If you've been seeing each other a while, then it can be a way of him showing his love as well as hormones. I know guys can fall in love without sex and that's the BEST WAY to fall in love with a guy. You know he isn't using you. GOOD LUCK!
2007-10-31 11:19:55 · answer #2 · answered by jessica 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Of course!
Love is usually an emotional and mental connection that only turns into physical overtime. I know a guy who loves me, and we've never met in person, and I love him as well. We connect so well with how we converse, and with things we have in common, and other stuff.
Love and Sex don't necessarily have to go hand-in-hand. Abstinence is all about that, how people agree not to have intercourse until marriage. Well you have to love someone before you marry them (unless you're drunk with $50 in Vegas! LOL).
If a man only says he loves a woman after he gets sex, obviously he's not really in love, but just wanting a piece.
2007-10-31 11:15:38 · answer #3 · answered by darkchildjulz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, in fact there is a reason that god has commanded that sex before marriage is wrong. The scriputers are full of references that sex is to be between a husband and wife only.
When sex happens before marriage, it actually destroys real love. When a woman gives it up before marriage, she turns herself into an unpaid hore. And no man on earth can have respect for a woman like that, let alone true love.
Love comes from getting to know a person for who they are, it comes from a deep respect for a person. A desire for another persons welfare.
Sex before marriage rips that apart. Not to mention
the fact that it contributes to the distruction of the moral fabric of society. No society that is not moral, can survive very long.
before it will drift into disability to maintain itself, and will be ripe for being governed by other powers, and ripe for distruction. The family is the basic unit of society. A society's care for its familes, is a measure of how healthy it is.
when it gets to sick, it can no longer survive.
True love comes from not having sex before marriage.
and that is the only way it can come.
2007-10-31 11:21:28 · answer #4 · answered by squishy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't love someone because the sex is good. Love has nothing to do with sex, except as a form of expression later in your relationship. So absolutely yes - and they should.
2007-10-31 11:13:20 · answer #5 · answered by xK 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Yes, some woman I have instant chemistry, although the emotional part of love isn't there yet, the chemisty of love is. When I see a girl I have immediate chemisty with, I don't even think about sex with her (at the moment).
2007-10-31 11:14:58 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Definitely. Many people fall in love, get engaged, and don't have sex until they're married. Love isn't all about sex.
2007-10-31 11:14:31 · answer #7 · answered by Skelli 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this isn't a real question... yes of course a man could fall in love with a woman with out having sexing he (probably more so than if he slept with her once) and I'm sure it happens all the time.
2007-10-31 11:13:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
UM YES! What about people that wait until they're married to have sex? They're in love before and after the sex.
2007-10-31 11:12:50 · answer #9 · answered by ☆ღWifey Wifeyღ☆ 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Most definitely. I dated a guy for a very long time before we had sex. It's possible. If he loves you, he will wait.
2007-10-31 11:15:51 · answer #10 · answered by Chartise 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sex does not = love
2007-10-31 11:12:54 · answer #11 · answered by Kristal S 3 · 7⤊ 0⤋