I broke up with her because I wasnt sure how I felt, dated other girls and realized how much I love my ex. I try to get her back and she says shes not into being used, she deserves someone who knows he wants her when he has her...Why is she being so dumb? She said she loves me but deserves better
2007-10-31 03:58:02 · 17 answers · asked by liz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she isnt being dumb at all. you dumped her, then decided that you wanted her back after you had already moved on. why are you calling her dumb?
2007-10-31 04:02:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
I think she is being stubborn. Yes it hurts when someone dumps you to go and see whats out there because one needs to be certain of what they want or are looking for, its only fair. It is said "if you let love go and when it comes back its yours"....your so in that perdicament....she should be happy that your coming back to her because that means that she is the only one out there for you. Maybe the reason why she doesn't want to take you back is because she found someone else that she want to pursue and is into more tan you. Sorry for the brutality, but maybe you should really sit her down and talk to her and get a straight forward answer from her. Tell her that as long as she's honest and not trying to sugarcoat things then you would learn to deal with it...get a REAL answer other than "i deserve better" because you didnt do anything wrong. Its better to know where you stand early on in the relationship rather than going for months/years and then breaking up because you dont know what you want.
2007-10-31 11:19:09 · answer #2 · answered by PLEASURE pUPPY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not dumb idiot you are! You should have known that if you let her go so you could go out and date other women to figure what you want she might realize she doesn't want to be with you!
You can't play around with people's hearts while you try to figure out what yours wants.
Oh and calling her a B*tch for that c'mon! Why don't you take a look in that mirror and really see the a$$ looking back at you!
2007-10-31 11:04:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Let me get this straight. You call her a b*tch and dump and you don't understand why she thinks she deserves someone better? Be man enough to learn from the experience and move on. Your ship has sailed without you where this woman is concerned.
2007-10-31 11:16:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU??? Just kidding. Try to move on as best as you can. If she's "being so dumb", maybe you just don't deserve her. Think of more important things in your life and soon enough, someone you deserve will come along. GOOD LUCK!
2007-10-31 11:02:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say that I agree with her. Its refreshing to see a girl who has the balls not to give in to you even though she thinks she loves you. She knows what she deserves... good for her. Another thing... if you want to keep girls or get them... don't call them bitches. No girl deserves that, let alone you ex.
2007-10-31 11:13:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because she deserves better.
What did you think... she's supposed to wait around for you to date other people and then realize that you had it good and threw it away? And here you are calling her a b*tch for that?
You really have a way with women.
2007-10-31 11:05:27 · answer #7 · answered by Laura 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well she's right.
You've called her 'dumb' and you've called her a 'b*tch'. If this is your sweet talk to get her back, I can't imagine how clueless you'd be in a relationship.
You need help and counseling. You should learn how to treat a woman better and learn how to talk to and deal with a real woman who won't take your bullying.
2007-10-31 11:06:32 · answer #8 · answered by trekkiebear 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What's goog for guys is also good for girls.You've had your fun let her enjoy hers.If a dog bites her,the dog is b*tch but if she let's that same dog bite her again then she's a b*tch and of course,she's right,she deserves better.
2007-10-31 11:10:46 · answer #9 · answered by Sunshine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Y don't u try being nice to her she wants u to beg her to have her back and if that doesn't work get a gurrl and try to make ur ex jealous and then wait for her to call u to get u bac jealousy always works trust me i know
2007-10-31 11:03:05 · answer #10 · answered by diamond j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋