im going out with this girl on saturday. im 17,very VERY inexperienced and VERY SHY. i dont know what to say. how do i flirt? how do i compliment her without being pushy? my friend told me she likes me too but i dont know cuz she called me cute and girls DO NOT LIKE CUTE GUYS.. .. but i dont think she pays attention to that, probably because im very góodlooking. We are going out in like a group , how do i get her alone? How do i kiss? ..Please..I will ruin everything i know.. it always happen ...
2007-10-31 04:09:04 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell her she has nice boobies and kiss her on the cheek.
2007-10-31 04:12:04 · answer #1 · answered by nekkidneptunian 3 · 1⤊ 4⤋
girls can like cute guys, after all, YOU are cute, and she likes you, so come on now---give yourself a break! You will do just fine on your date. Why do you have to worry about getting a kiss? Don't even think about that, just go and have a good time, and make sure that you give HER a lot more attention than you give anyone else in the group. Don't suffocate her, but be near her. Just ask her if you can hold her hand. Just ASK. Ask her what kind of things she likes to do---like, "Do you have any hobbies?" Or tell her about something funny that happened to someone you know. Ask her what kind of movies she likes. Just open your mouth and talk. It will be fine. The best sign that the date will go well, is that you are planning it, and worrying about it. That shows that you really like her. But RELAX! And stop thinking about how to get a kiss!!!! You have plenty of time to kiss---because YOU are going to ask her for another date when the evening is over!!!! Take it slow and it will be worth it!
2007-10-31 04:16:21 · answer #2 · answered by lcamel2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow - this brings back memories of my youth and inexperience!
Okay...slow down, first things first.
Above all, be polite, be a gentleman, be respectful and try not to act like you're with the guys (no belching or other gas-related sounds or jokes, for example).
Next, when talking with her, LISTEN to what she says and ask follow-up questions to show her that you HEAR what she says and that you are INTERESTED in what she has to say...chicks dig this, and the conversation shouldn't be ONLY about you and what you do.
Find things that she is into and try to connect that to what you are in to so that you can establish a bond between the two of you.
When you pick her up, compliment her on how attractive she looks...without being crude, vulgar or impolite.
And worry less about what your own good-looks...after all, no one likes to be around a conceited person.
Finally, as for kissing...that is something that is suppose to be spontaneous, not planned.
If it happens, great...and you'll know when the time is right...just don't force it, don't ask for it and don't be disappointed if it doesn't happen.
She might even make the first move, so be on alert!
Good luck...and again, behave!
2007-10-31 04:53:57 · answer #3 · answered by docscholl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out what she likes stike up conversation about it, listen to her and make sure she knows that you are litening like by nodding and replying. Loose the neg. attitude and start thinking positive, bring her flowers, depending on where you are going it will be easy getting her alone. If at the mall say you wanted to check out some store and take her there. Group dates are really good first dates becasue there is never really akward silence so take advantage and learn everything you can about her. Then in school on Monday drop a note in her locker saying how much fun you had with her and how you can't wait to do it again..Maybe next time with just the two of you.
2007-10-31 04:17:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to chill and just be yourself. Whatever happens happens. Youre only 17 and relationships at that age hardly ever last, so I wouldnt stress over it and just have fun and use this as gaining experience for the future when youre older. Pretend this girl is a good friend and act how you would around them, but still be respectful. If the two of you mutually like each other it will fall into place.
2007-10-31 04:13:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just chill out and let the night flow. You will know when the right time is to kiss her and you will know if she likes you(them damn girls are a pain but they will make what they want know if you just pay attention to what they are saying and their body language). As for flirt just joke with her a bit and the usual lame little ways of flirting, girls like that for some reason. Good luck bro.
2007-10-31 04:15:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bro take it easy your gonna pop a lung worring like that. You need to ask questions about hobbies favorite movies etc not the weather thats a sign of nothing to say. You just need to relax mainly and she'll make the move if she wants a kiss.
2007-10-31 04:14:33 · answer #7 · answered by Spike 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whadayamean girls don't like cute guys? Everybody likes cute guys! Do you not watch TV? I mean even the news has "cute" guys. Cute is a commodity--get out there and SELL!
2007-10-31 04:14:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
For someone who is so inexperienced and nervous, you seem to know alot about what girls like physically and feel pretty good about how you look....
My advice to you would to not be so cocky on the date and talk about her. It doesn't even matter the specifics, just talk about her and you'll be fine.
2007-10-31 04:17:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wooooah woooooooah. Calm the hell down. Acting like that will scare her off. be cool, calm and breezy. When you see her say wow you look amazing! Chat to her normal, disscuss school/college/work. Tell her about something funny you seen on tv ( nothing gross or too boyish unless she is into that)
Then when she laughs or is chatting back say wow you have nice eyes/smile etc.
Give her your jacket when she is cold and just be sweet and listen to her when she speaks.
Havent yu ever watched friends?? Cute is GOOOOD
2007-10-31 04:14:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
First, stop belittling your cute self. There is safety in numbers. I would start off by saying, You look great! Let her reply then say I am happy we are together tonight and I hope you have a nice evening. By now other people should be around and play it by ear. If you are as cute as you claim, she is already into you!
2007-10-31 04:14:03 · answer #11 · answered by p h 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋