After 2 weeks I told my b/f I loved him he said I couldn't possibly, it was to soon. Was it?
2007-10-31 03:46:38 · 28 answers · asked by Eric's Angel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yea i think that was too quick, im with him on that.
2007-10-31 03:49:50 · answer #1 · answered by Dr. Luv 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do you honestly believe there is an answer to your question? I think you know the answer to that. ONly you know your true feelings and emotions. It is different for everyone. It was too soon for him but you are your own person.....who knows you better than yourself. Even though you may truly feel you are in love, sometimes it is better to put off telling the other party, unless you know they are ready to hear it...or need to hear it.
Instead of saying you "in love". Tell them you feel your feelings for him are growing real strong, very fast. YOu can't control how you feel. Let him know that you feel you are falling in love. That makes it slightly less intense. But depending on him, it may still be a little too much. Just be careful.
2007-10-31 03:54:12 · answer #2 · answered by Real Talk 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is usually too soon after 2 weeks because there are so many things you do not know about him. There are habits that can be very annoying or a past that is unacceptable. There are many things that you can find out later that just have not come up yet or have not come up enough to know if he is hiding anything from you. I know somebody who found out after the marriage that the guy had robbed homes and businesses, done drugs, and was deep in debt.
2007-10-31 04:07:03 · answer #3 · answered by Frank 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's definately possible to fall in love fast. But, it's also possible that the feelings aren't really love, but just a strong feeling of security, happiness etc. I told my fiance I loved him after 2 weeks of dating, but I've also known him for 19 years.
2007-10-31 03:50:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
not 2 be mean but yes it was a lil 2 soon. sweeti 2 months is 2 soon give it a min. you are not in love with him you are just really happy being with him this kind of stuff is very tricky n can get a bit confusing at times but hey just wait on him he might not feel it right away but if u guys are ment 2 be he will
2007-10-31 03:51:36 · answer #5 · answered by ♥His Baby Girl♥ 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
After 2 weeks my BF told me he loved me! I wasn't sure, but I do love him. It might be a little soon, but you can love someone after maybe just 1 day.
2007-10-31 03:50:43 · answer #6 · answered by Z 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For him it might have been to soon.
But my now husband and I knew from very early on. And we said it to each other fairly early on. Although we had been friends for 2 years before we started dating and we both liked each other from the get go.
I think it is different for every couple.
2007-10-31 04:19:48 · answer #7 · answered by Amanda Y 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People tend to use the word love out of contect. I love apples. I love food. I love swimmming....ect
The principle of love is whence it comes from and that truthful epxerience is not sex, but a matter of responsibilty to accept one fully wihtout change or doubt. To explore in ones feelings ultimately till death.
Love is a commitment that never dies, but passes on.
When you meet someone for the first time and have sex and day you love them...your fooling yourself.
You had a good time and that was fun not love or it was sex not love and the list goes on.
When you care for someone and want to take care of them, you are like adopting a stray Cat off the street or a stray Dog off the street and they stay with you till time ends.
people who have done this are ones that aquire the sesne of love and what it means to be loved and just to show love that is inside them and it is shared.
You would be better off saying to him that I want to share my love with you or lets make love, but not to intentionally say I love you in that sense because it insinuates that you're making a commitment to someone or something that you'fe only known for a short period of time.
What your feeling is love, but you must contro where and when you unleash those feelings to someone you care dearly about.
Animals are loved in a different sense. You will not lay dowon sexually with a Dog or a Cat, but you will share your love with that animal that brings jopy and happiness in your life and that is completely different when a human being is involved.
You can't treat them as animals though, we are mammals.
God seperates the animals and puts Man domion over them. This is why it is easier to love an animal than it is to love a human being because of the simple fact animals are expendable and humans are not.
2007-10-31 03:57:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes, you just know. It was probably right about two weeks when we first said those words. Granted...he misheard what I said ('I want you' became 'I love you' in a crowded loud club) but the end result was the same - we knew then and we know now and getting married in less than 10 months.
2007-10-31 03:50:53 · answer #9 · answered by Sunidaze 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My daughter married a guy on the 10th day after she met him. Not engaged, but married. They have 2 children now, and he treats her great. However, not everyone feels that way, others seem to think love develops over time. I, am like my daughter, in that I know instantly.
2007-10-31 03:51:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are many levels of love and none of them follow a calendar. What you view as love may just be the infatuation. Your boyfriend probably has the "deeper" level of love in mind, that is the one that grows as the two of you get to know one another. Just give him his "time" before you declare your love again.
2007-10-31 03:54:23 · answer #11 · answered by peggy m 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋