My boyfriend and I have been going out for 11 months and are at the same university. We are planning to move out of halls next year and we are unsure whether to live in a house together or not. My boyfriend is a christian and if we were to live together we would not be sharing a room. We both the same friends and are finding it hard to establish separate houses.
2007-10-31 03:35:10 · 9 answers · asked by Lala 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you never know someone until you live with them! So, I say go for it.
2007-10-31 03:37:42 · answer #1 · answered by grisgris100 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Although I can't really say whether or not you two should live together, I can say that you two should sit down and discuss what the arrangements are to be for paying the bills and keeping the place clean. You may want to come to some sort of agreement on purchasing food, too. Make sure you are both on the same page....living together can be fun, but be realistic about it. The house/apartment will need to be kept clean unless you're both slobs, laundry has to be done, bills have to be paid on time, parties have to be approved by both people, etc.
Good luck!
2007-10-31 11:08:17 · answer #2 · answered by Loves the Ponies 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it is nice to be in College/University and not be leaving with the significant other in my life b/c it is such a wild transition time in life. However, i think it is good that you are not sharing a room. I think maybe you should get a three or more bedroom house and have a whole house of friends rather than just the two of you....less focus on it just being you two.
2007-10-31 10:39:45 · answer #3 · answered by Corinna H 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he has higher standards, why tempt it?
Besides, studies show that couples who live together before marriage are 50% more likely to separate or divorce.
Theres a reason why a certain order to things works better than other arrangements.
2007-10-31 10:39:33 · answer #4 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I'd advise against it. Breaking up is hard, breaking up while roommates is harder. Not that it will happen but it's something to consider as a possibility.
2007-10-31 10:41:15 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HOW.... does a Christian.... boy... SLEEP AROUND?
(1Corinthians 6:18) Flee fornication. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits fornication sins against his own body.
HOW... do ... two adults.... WITH NORMAL HORMONES.... share A Room.... without.... SEX?
Sounds.... LIKE.... TROUBLE?
Thanks for Asking ! RR
2007-10-31 10:40:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
you should both lived together but do not get marry. this will give both of you some experience by living together to see if you can tolerate his lifestyle or vice versa..
2007-10-31 10:40:01 · answer #7 · answered by LEXUSRY 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
eventually you 2 will end up in the same bed. so don't
2007-10-31 10:39:37 · answer #8 · answered by Padme 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
sure i don't see why not. You will really know a person after you live with them. Good luck.
2007-10-31 10:37:59 · answer #9 · answered by I Love my Baby Girl 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋