Say it's a friend (and just a friend) you are very open with and you are talking about sex, sexual stuff etc, and you notice he's excited. Do you check it out? Do you say something? Are you offended? Any comments would be appreciated. I had a similar situation happen so I am looking for advice.
2007-10-31 06:30:49 · 23 answers · asked by Josh B 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
ill probably laugh it off and not care and ask him if he wants to take care of that...and point him into the direction of the bathroom and give him a bottle of lotion lol
2007-10-31 06:33:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you certainly don't "check it out"... I think the most appropriate thing would be to ignore it and then think twice about letting him in on such graphic or personal knowledge in the future. Unfortunately, men often have a hard time controlling erections and he probably didn't mean anything by it, but it might still be a good idea to avoid the situation in the future.
2007-10-31 13:39:38 · answer #2 · answered by missapparition 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first the guy should show somne restrent and not get excited if he is a true friend he would be simpthetic about it and not a prev withc most guys are prevs and the ones who are sweetys get made fun of and called gay( IM NOT GAY!)
but the girl should ask the guy if he is comfterbul talking about this stuff with you and see his answer
2007-10-31 13:36:25 · answer #3 · answered by Joshy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on why we are talking about sex, what was said, whether I like him, and my mood in general..
Am I offended ? no it's a compliment
do you check it out? you already have-- he's excited..
If we're discussing his sex life with his girlfriend, probably nothing...
If I'm in the mood also, we both might be excited soon...
2007-10-31 13:38:33 · answer #4 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the reason why women cannot be close friends with guys outside their relationship. The women who think they can and the ones that havent noticed your sprung, the ones that realize they cant are the ones with sharper vision.
2007-10-31 13:33:54 · answer #5 · answered by Koozie the chemist 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really dont/wouldnt say much nothing really at all hun.
It would be a little weird but the girl might like him also.
But I really most deff wouldnt be offended.
2007-10-31 13:34:28 · answer #6 · answered by TTC #1 hoping for 2009 baby! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't be offended. Talking about sex would probably turn most guys on. I would have sex with him.
2007-10-31 13:34:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think i would be offended becuase I would think that my guy Friend would want to be more than friends. So I would feel uncomfortable , If I liked him i would be like....."well I 'm going to go watch tv....at home or something....call you later.
2007-10-31 13:50:08 · answer #8 · answered by Guess who 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it depends on how close you are as friends.
I would say something like, hmmm looks like you are
turned on by this sex conversation or something like that.
She should maybe notice that he might like her or something.
Or she could hook him up with a date, IDK...
It would be awkward, but you are friends right?
2007-10-31 13:35:56 · answer #9 · answered by Briana B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would smile to myself and look down..if he noticed me looking I would say " Looks like someone is really excited!" And then make my move to fhuck him because he already is turned on and so am I!
IDAHO!
2007-10-31 13:41:17 · answer #10 · answered by Simply Lisa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋