Right we all know that if you catch your partner cheating on you, you need to leave, move on, kick him to the curb etc. BUT thats easier said than done right?
Whats your alternate option? Ill share mines when I choose a best answer.
2007-10-31 00:16:01 · 15 answers · asked by Claude 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
payback is a B****!!!! and u gotta do it with someone they r close to like a bestfriend or relative. that or someone they cant stand. either way its a pleasent feeling to let them know how it feels
2007-10-31 00:23:07 · answer #1 · answered by Groo son of a vt 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's a difficult one Claude, like you said its easier said than done. In most cases i leave a cheating partner without any second thought because once somebody cheats they will never stop. It can stop for a while but as they say once a cheat always a cheat.
2007-10-31 08:09:08 · answer #2 · answered by Jeez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start a rumour about how bad your partner is in bed. Use an anonymous email address similar to one of your friends to get it rolling.
Get hold of newspapers or advertising cards and fill in the applications for your partner's place of work. Give your partner a higher title than the one held at work.
It's revenge but at a distance and your partner will take the heat while you smile inwardly. If they are in a foul mood when they come home, it will give you more reasons to dump them and get then out of the house.
2007-10-31 07:26:41 · answer #3 · answered by Rob K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how the guys cheating on you. Sex and Love are not the same thing. If he still loves you completely, then stay with him. It's just like him hanging out with female friends. It doesn't mean anything, unless he loves her. If he loves her, and no longer wants you, then you need to leave him. It's hard, but it has to be done. Do some meditation, and consider "can I live with him, and myself, if I stay with him. He can keep abusing my trust"
2007-10-31 07:20:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anastasia K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are if you kick him to the curb you could hurt your foot. Just put the deadlock on once hes left the house.
2007-10-31 07:25:36 · answer #5 · answered by blerchus4incapet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you can have an open relationship and date other people, but then that isn't a good relationship, or you can forgive and forget, or turn a blind eye and pretend it didn't happen and then take second place to other woman the rest of your life.
2007-10-31 07:24:29 · answer #6 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it depends on how good your partner treats you other wise,how serious the relationship is-(to both of u),if its a first offense,how did it happen-was it coincidental or premeditated,did they use protection,and who did they cheat with-if its family members,bestfriends,next door nieghbors i think wouid be a kick to the curb 4 sure.
2007-10-31 07:22:39 · answer #7 · answered by thehottestbradpitt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your partner cheats but still loves you, than like Dear Abby says, "Get Counseling" If they love you they will work to get the relationship working again.
2007-10-31 07:25:07 · answer #8 · answered by Joyce M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him for a while, like a temporary punishment. Be mean to him a little, slap him a bit. For about a week, two weeks to show youre serious? Then go back to him, if you must, by then he should have found a way to show you he is sorry.
2007-10-31 07:21:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on you -
if you're the forgiving type - you live with it.
if you're the vengence type - you do it back to him/her
if you are the always-truthful-faithful type - you leave
then there's the rare type who is open (like me) - do what you want, when you want and with whomever you want - but be careful,safe and always know that I love you and care about you and want you to be happy. I know it's not because you don't enjoy me - you need to diversify, change, try new things and I can live with that - whatever makes you happy baby !
2007-10-31 07:23:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋