and my mother in law is very aggressive. It's hard because she is so jealous of me and I don't like that. She is nosy with me and asks too many questions. I feel like she tries to push me over. She also tells me she knows best.
I'm so nice and respectful of her. I don't know but I hate her. I hate her so much. She is not a nice person and my husband says she is uncontrollable. I dont know what to do. I don't know how to play her game and I don't know how to be mean. It's just not in me. I hate this.
I wish I could hire someone to slap the bizitch because I can't do it. I would never do that.
2007-10-31 16:07:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
.You're keeping all this anger inside and one day you are going to blow and it will not be pretty.
When she asks you too many questions, try asking her why she wants to know. When she says she is curious or something like that, be brave and tell her you are a private person. Just keep saying, "I'd rather not answer that". When she says "why not", answer "I have my reasons".
You say your mother in law is mean. Most mean people are usually unhappy. Pity her, don't hate her
2007-10-31 16:22:10 · answer #1 · answered by Maureen S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try writing a letter to her, explaining how you feel. Remember to stay civil.(no name calling). Include an ultimatum such as, "I would like you to be a part of my life and that of my family but you will have to make some changes in the way you interact with me and my husband(children)."
2007-10-31 23:25:00 · answer #2 · answered by joseph albright 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll do it for 3 bux. And tell your husband to stand up to his mommy and defend his wife for petes sake.
wait is this everybody loves raymond?
2007-10-31 23:11:02 · answer #3 · answered by jeenious 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a typical mother inlaw..dont worry all married woman have to deal w/ one..my grandmother is alright..i mean shes not as badbut its not like is good either..she is so so..just ignore her as best as you can..try not to meet her as much..if you ignore her for along time..she might heal up a lil
2007-10-31 23:11:15 · answer #4 · answered by Livelife 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BIZITCH! But no you are not shy, you are just too sweet.
2007-10-31 23:10:01 · answer #5 · answered by ThisGuyRules 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep her that way...she will then soon realize she is not doing right to you....stay good....
2007-10-31 23:18:19 · answer #6 · answered by marikh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So am I.
2007-10-31 23:09:38 · answer #7 · answered by Exitwound 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋