I do not know where my daughter nor my ex wife are livining, haven't known for years. I owe it to my daughter to pay but, what rights do I have? I have called the court house, child support services, and the children and family services and yet nobody wants to help me locate them. Do I still have to pay full support when I cant talk nor see my daughter? PLEASE HELP
2007-10-31 16:05:19 · 15 answers · asked by larry g 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I also live in Fl now And they live in Va. When I was ordered support it was in 93 and I was a stock broker and was ordered to pay $250 bi-weekly now I am not making as much as I was so fell behind, now I am making full payments but it has been killing me 80% of income, requested Fl for reduction but no word......The also said they would pass word to my ex in RE to my address for my daughters contact, if she wants....I do not think this is fair.
2007-10-31 16:30:04 · update #1
Oh and I have Visitation Rights!
2007-10-31 16:34:40 · update #2
Child Support and Visitation are considered separate.
You will have to do all the foot work or hire an attorney. File contempt of visitation and enforcement of visitation.
A lot of it will depend on your existing court order and what it states.
2007-11-03 15:12:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple questions, common issue that we see every day. Regarding visitation, if you have a court order that allows you visitation and you are being denied said visitation or if the parties are obligated to keep each other aware of their addresses, then you simply need to petition the court and show the judge that you are being denied your visitation. It will cost you some money since you will need an attorney, but it is your only recourse.
As far as your financial situation, all orders are subject to modification, administrative orders usually require a specified amount of time to pass before it is modified, i.e., three years. Court orders can be modified through the judicial process without the same restraints. Research the child support guidelines in your state, you can easily figure out what your new obligation amount would be (provided you have an idea of the mother's income). If I were in your shoes, I'd petition the court and address both matters at the same time.
2007-11-01 02:02:12 · answer #2 · answered by Reece Judicata 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depending where you live the cops will find you if you don't pay. You need a lawyer if you want to see her. That is the best advice. Child support should help with food, school supplies, clothes, and special activities, if they aren't going to this and possibly some living expenses then that's immoral. Your ex should be half responsible for the child as well. Like the first answer, call a lawyer.
2007-10-31 16:18:06 · answer #3 · answered by mdl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
One minute you claim to not know where your daughter is, and then you say you do? Why are you not being 100%honest? Ok, lets put that aside, I,ve worked for family service,s before and I can tell you with certainty that no matter where you are or where they are, you will be required to pay child support, even if you never see her, speak to her, or have no contact at all! You seem more concerned with your financial obligation, then wanting to spend time with your child? But I will tell ya that if your income has changed you can have the support lowered, it wont be much, but they will decrease it, but you must take proper action, this means you will need to contact your local child support enforcement agency and send them the proper documents and pay stubbs, but in regards to paying support to a child with whom you dont see, the state doesnt care about your personal contact with your child, they only care about getting every penny they can from you, to ensure that this child doesnt become a welfare statistic.
2007-10-31 16:47:48 · answer #4 · answered by penelope 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you still have to pay full support but I would look into a lawyer to find her you have rights to see her if you are supporting her. It may not be as often as you want but usually every other weekend and some summer time as well. You daughter does deserve the support money but she deserves the support of a father also. Dont let her get away, The mother may be telling her you dont want to see her. check into this asap
2007-10-31 16:22:39 · answer #5 · answered by bradosmom 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Best thing is to find a good lawyer. The decree should state your rights to seeing your daughter and knowing where she lives. If you find them, your ex could be held in contempt of court, esp. if you haven't seen them for years. At least start a savings account for your daughter and write her afew letters for safe keeping. She's most likely been told you don't love her and you're not looking for her. Hopefully, you do have the SS#.
2007-10-31 16:17:19 · answer #6 · answered by WordsWorth_01 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Support is and was your responsibility from the time you brought her into this world!
"Now with that said";
What did the court say when the divorce when through? If you did get "Visitation Rights" they have to assist you and you my need to get a lawyer.
2007-10-31 16:32:35 · answer #7 · answered by sidecar0 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Had friend that was in the same situation as you are. He went to court and the judge ordered that the mom provide receipts for what the child support was spent on. That would be a good idea because your daughter shouldn't be punished because she doesnt get to see you.
2007-10-31 16:10:57 · answer #8 · answered by bella s 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Depending on your divorce agreement your wife could be in contempt of court and really be in trouble.
A Lawyer is your best avenue of defense here.
2007-10-31 16:13:32 · answer #9 · answered by Nana Butterfly 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say it but if there is a court order to pay the support then you need to continue however; if you want to take them to court you can to get it changed. It is tough but just know that when your daughter is old enough, she will come looking for you.
2007-10-31 16:10:43 · answer #10 · answered by jbb 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋