Family & Relationships - 31 October 2007

women please help me out on this. i would like to know

2007-10-31 18:20:54 · 17 answers · asked by toosmooth_19 2 in Singles & Dating

hi i m 24 years married female totally disturbed. my life has become full of sorrow. i was in lov or u can say that was my mistake what i told to my husband n now he doesn' talk to me n tell all this to my parents-in-law, only he was tha last hope of my life now there is nothing for me, no one os responsing from his side tell me what to do i don't want to live in this world

2007-10-31 18:19:51 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I just came home from visiting with my family for the day. My husband said he was going out to a friends house to visit for a while. I called about an hour before I left my mom's house to see if he was home yet and he told me that yes he was home, him and his friends came to our house instead. Now, it's not that I have a problem with his friends coming to our house, but we live in a 1 bedroom apartment and we have no living room furniture yet bcuz we just moved in. So, the tv is in our bedroom. So, he had his friends over hanging out in our bedroom, drinking, smoking, etc. Plus he knows I hate when he smokes drugs and I came in and the house wreaks of drugs (a smell I can't stand). I'm upset because I feel like it's an invasion of privacy for guys to be hanging out in my bedroom my bras and what not are laying around because I had no idea anyone was going to be here. I want to know, do you think I'm over reacting or is it reasonable for me to be upset?

2007-10-31 18:19:43 · 16 answers · asked by Babycakes 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Do we do this for companionship or it is actually love or other reasons?

2007-10-31 18:18:14 · 21 answers · asked by Bobby 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I are both 19, been married for 7 months. He started acting weird a couple months ago. He was coming home around 3 every morning which pissed me off, because that is unacceptable for a married man. Anyway, he left me a week ago, and he came back last night. Today is Halloween and we were suppose to go out together but he ditched me for his friends... which include other girls. Since he came back he doesn't act like he loves me anymore, he seems distant. Now I'm drinking, very upset, and I feel like killing myself. What do I do?

2007-10-31 18:17:51 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Curious to see the responses to this.

2007-10-31 18:15:17 · 16 answers · asked by zeekandthefam 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-10-31 18:14:29 · 2 answers · asked by heyy 1 in Singles & Dating

I have two kids 9 and 8, they sleep in their room, each in his bed, but the old one refuses to sleep alone in his own bed and insists to sleep with his younger brother in the same bed, he says that he is afeard to sleep alone.

2007-10-31 18:12:55 · 11 answers · asked by EMAD A 1 in Family

i discover my mother was cheating on my father about 3 months ago she had been doing so for about 2 years so she says

Im a 20 year old national guard member and i am getting deployed to the border for 18 months i haven't spoke to her since i found this out, can i get some advice from a parent who has kids but has also been in my shoes please


i don't know whether to stick with my standards that ironically my mother taught me or to give in

some help please

2007-10-31 18:11:48 · 12 answers · asked by michael s 1 in Family

I've been married two years now I have 3 kids,(a 3 yr old and twin 17 month olds) and my dreams stopped there...now I have no clue what to do. I want to raise my kids with many things to teach them and I want them to have the biggest dreams because I know they can accomplish them, they are all so smart. I myself want to go to school, but for what I have no clue. All I ever dreamed of was being a mom and a wife, and now that I have that I realize that there is life beyond motherhood and you have to constantly pass down wisdom and how am I supposed to do that if all I do is cook thier meals and clean up after them and love with everything I have? I dont know what exactly I'm asking I'm just stuck....sigh...I know I'm a good person and I know I could accomplish anything I put my mind too with God's help, but what do I want to do?? I thought I'd have something figured out by now.

2007-10-31 18:10:34 · 7 answers · asked by Ria B 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

No matter how miserable we are, we make our own decisions, even if we have to pay for them later in life.
Sucks doesn't it??????????????

2007-10-31 18:09:13 · 15 answers · asked by ♥♥♥ lover from ozz 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Long story, brace yourself. About 2 weeks ago, my husband had a dream that our friend, that was having a tough time, was in trouble and he was trying to help her. He said out loud " M it's okay, it's okay." Well I told my mom the next day and all she said was that it was sweet of him to worry about her because she of what she's going through and left it at that. Well tonight my husband went over to this friends house to say Happy Halooween and her entire family started laughing at him and saying "so you're dreaming about M huh?" and other things much worse. By the way, M wasn't there. My husband waited until everyone left our house and we had it out. He wanted to know y I was saying stuff like that and I told him that wasn't what was said. I called my sister because her, mom and M all work together. Turns out what my mom was telling people was that my husband said" take it off M, come one take it off". Big difference. This isn't the first time by the way. What should I do?

2007-10-31 18:06:44 · 2 answers · asked by Kc B 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My friend may be getting married soon. After two years of dating this girl, I've still never met her, or any of her friends. Not even once. And they both live like, only half an hour away.

But if they do get married, I probably WILL be a groomsman, since I've known him for near a decade. But really, I'm not looking forward to it. I don't want the pressure of having to bring date. I also really have no interest in socializing with any of the bridesmaids (who will be total strangers to me, and probably married or dating, like most normal people my age.) To me, it would be nothing but forced conversation with a bunch of strangers.

And people say you are supposed to meet people at a wedding. How is this possible? What can you possibly talk about to start conversation with people you know absolutely nothing about? And why would you?

2007-10-31 18:02:02 · 12 answers · asked by IrishFan2011 3 in Weddings

2007-10-31 18:01:30 · 7 answers · asked by chrisdoss125 2 in Marriage & Divorce

It seems like most people always have something negative to say about starbucks but i dont know it really looks like an interesting job to me i would love to be part of it .Has any one worked their that absolutely loves it i also keep hearing they pay a little bit but from some people i also hear that they pay alot i dont know im very confused.

2007-10-31 18:01:05 · 5 answers · asked by Elizabeth Z 1 in Singles & Dating

Infidelity has existed for as long a man. It is a known fact that man is not perfect. So, if a man/woman cheated on his/her spouse, can you really conclude that as grounds for a divorce? Of course if he/she continues to cheat, but what if he/she only cheated once? Even after a 3, 4, 5, 15 year marriage? It’s not only about discipline, but I think it’s more about the nature of man. (Women included!) You mean to tell me, that you are going to just throw away years of happiness? What about all your memories, and experiences together? What about your love for each other? Plus, then you’d have to rebuild what you had all over again, investing valuable time and trying to replace what isn’t replaceable. Why can’t we accept that fact that we aren’t perfect? Plus, although marriage is sacred, it’s not like you get married JUST for sex! No pun intended, if your marriage only revolves around sex, then perhaps you should strongly question the ethics and moral of your union. I know some liberals would suggest that we all get married for different reasons. But how can you just come along and redefine marriage? A union according to societies and the traditions our nation was built on, would surely defy a marriage based solely on sex. What do you think?

2007-10-31 17:58:58 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

and I 'm the lady thats married and was going to sleep just to get sex, because my husbend did not give alot of sex.

2007-10-31 17:57:51 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so i like this girl ok she a blonde and knows everybody but i'm not the most popular person and she will say highto me in the halls but i now she doesn't even know my name so ya do i even have a chance let alone a chance ay asing her out

2007-10-31 17:56:31 · 13 answers · asked by money man 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-31 17:55:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

when i say i dont believe it he gets hurt...hes said it multiple times

2007-10-31 17:54:37 · 6 answers · asked by boo 1 in Singles & Dating

I have taken the steps in the bible by going to my friend and speaking with her telling her How her make up a lie is making me feel towards her... and she does not walk to speak about it . so I went to the elders and they come out and we are being counseled and she is still holding to her lie... I don't trust her now.
I find I have very little to say to her.... because she is not who she pretend that she was... I pray for her and for me that she will find it in her heart to come clean... The friend ship we shared is now beyond strained... I feel as if some one has died and I am in deep moaning.. I will be moving out as soon as the lease is up in 2008. lying can be a dangerous thing.
I am very upset with myself for not being able to shake this unhappy feeling. It's not my style

2007-10-31 17:52:05 · 7 answers · asked by bay 2 in Friends

2007-10-31 17:46:14 · 12 answers · asked by sachin z 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-31 17:45:51 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have told him that i do want him back and work things out and he says the same.I told him though that soon he needs to make a decision or i will file for divorce. I am just wondering how much longer should i wait.

2007-10-31 17:42:41 · 9 answers · asked by kittens 3 in Marriage & Divorce

After some prodding on my part, my wife finally admitted she misses certain aspects of a black guy she was dating for 8 years....mostly physical stuff. That is fine..what is in the past is in the past.
We love each other, we are soul mates. I have no doubt she would ever leave me for him, or any other.
OK...
Her ex boyfriend, moved to Philadelphia right after we got married.
She was offered a job within her company a few weeks ago(basically take the job or be out of a job)...so she accepted it.
She has to go for training for 2 weeks...in...yep - Philadelphia.
I work nights, and since I am in charge of our phone bill - i've seen calls from that area to our house, on the nights I work.
Should i be worried?
How can i not think about "them" for two weeks???
Should i express my concerns to her, or just assume we will be ok after - no matter what.
IF she plans on seeing him..should I deny her that - if i am confident its just a "fling" while she is away??
Thanks

2007-10-31 17:39:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am just so repulsed by all of those things, and it's terrible because it seems as if every guy in the world is all for it. I can never even like a guy because his partying habits truly infuriate me...So I was just wondering if there are any guys out there that don't drink, smoke, or do drugs, because if not, I may end up a crazy cat lady....

2007-10-31 17:38:55 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my friend was just talking about suicide. he promised me he wouldnt. i mean, theres no way of me stopping him, but a promise is a promise. i was too busy putting up with this homophobe who was iming me to realize my friend had signed off msn five minutes ago, which was ten minutes after we last spoke.[now its about 20minutes since he left] without telling me he was going. i saw he was on myspace, but as i was leaving him a comment to call me, he signed off. i texted him and he didnt answer. he lives in a different state so i cant go there. and i dont know his house number. please help, or at least calm me down and to stop thinking irrationally. im about to breakdown...

2007-10-31 17:38:16 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

The relationship' belonging and sharing all your thoughts to your loved one, to live for each other and the pain from separation

2007-10-31 17:35:10 · 3 answers · asked by denis9705 5 in Singles & Dating

my friend is really shy because he's afraid of saying something dumb and can't come up with anything unique to talk about. when he does talk he actually says dumb things and asks random questions and when in a group conversation he changes the subject because he doesn't understand the other topic others were talking about. so does being shy also mean being stupid?

2007-10-31 17:34:19 · 10 answers · asked by J-man 1 in Friends

my parents nag me and my siblings about education/school blah blah blah. i understand that they want me to get good education so i can have a better future, but i think all this nagging with expectations could possibly make an opposite effect (f-ing up in school)! my siblings and i are freakin' adults, but our parents treat us like children sometimes which is so sad. im 18 and cant wait to move out, so i can be independent and succeed in school without such pressures.

does anybody feel the same way?!

2007-10-31 17:31:19 · 12 answers · asked by hunny111805 1 in Family