I am just so repulsed by all of those things, and it's terrible because it seems as if every guy in the world is all for it. I can never even like a guy because his partying habits truly infuriate me...So I was just wondering if there are any guys out there that don't drink, smoke, or do drugs, because if not, I may end up a crazy cat lady....
2007-10-31 17:38:55 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes there are guys that don't do that stuff
maybe your just looking in the wrong places, if you want a clean man try a church or a gym or anywhere where people are concerned at all about their health and future
by the way
I don't see crazy cat lady in your future
2007-10-31 17:45:59 · answer #1 · answered by campZac 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband doesn't do any drugs, or smoke. Now when we are watching baseball or football or if his back is bothering him he will have 1 or 2 beers. It has no affect on his personality and he would never leave the house having cracked open a beer. I don't really consider that a drinker because it isn't all the time.
These men are out there but with that behavior comes a mature state or should I say a man/woman must grow up and be mature and responsible and recognize what those things can and will do to not only themselves but their families.
Your other mature half just hasn't found you yet. Don't give up just live your life to make the best you possible and he will come. Keep making that list of what you don't and do want in a mate and he will come.
Good luck!
2007-10-31 17:47:06 · answer #2 · answered by New England Babe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I drink socially once in a while and no more than two drinks (Wine, Martinis, etc.). I do not smoke and I have never done drugs. What is funny is that it might sound like I'm boring but I'm too much fun and probably the craziest of all my friends (who do happen to drink, smoke, errr drugs too). I just choose not to have those things in my personal life. I'm not preachy about it, I do not tell anyone else how to live their's cause I know I would not like anyone telling me what to or not do.
2007-10-31 17:47:19 · answer #3 · answered by the_blue_dem0n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am the same way as you. I married someone who does drink though (thankfully, not much) and who doesn't smoke cigarettes, but I did catch one time smoking something illegal with my brother (it was like World War 3 up in my house that day). I DO believe there are men out there who don't do any of that stuff. You just aren't noticing them.
I've only met one guy like that in my life (who was insanely attractive, too), but I was already married after I met this guy - plus, he lives 2 hours away from me (I met him because I had to do a "special assignment" for my job). Oh well, just wasn't meant to be.
2007-10-31 17:44:01 · answer #4 · answered by Ashley P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course their are- and I have plenty of friends just like me who don't do any of that stuff.
Here's the real question- why are you attracted to them? Why do you keep meeting the same ones? What are you, or should you, be doing different to meet 'the right guy?'.
If you keep finding the same guys, you are looking in the wrong place.
Believe it or not, I was a bar owner (who barely drinks, never smoked, and once took a prescription painkiller without a prescription) who met my wife in a bar. She didn't party, just her friends took her out that night. And for the record, I never dated / went home with any girl I met at my bar or any bar before that.
Look into yourself and find out why you keep meeting the same ones. If you were to give yourself advise, what would you say to yourself?
2007-10-31 17:46:06 · answer #5 · answered by California Boy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy you are talking about is right here. I am in the military and I don't drink, smoke, or do drugs. Doing drugs in the military is a BIG NO NO!
2007-10-31 17:45:12 · answer #6 · answered by Peter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is plenty but often times the difficulties finding these type of guys or girls are because they dont' generally hang out in public situations that involve drinking, smoking, or drug use.
Hang out in libraries, hook up into a internet chat, keep looking and you may come across one of us someday ;)
2007-10-31 17:42:48 · answer #7 · answered by untamed_soul 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
in case you knw ur nicely worth dnt EVER permit everybody take that 4rm you by using tryna make you experience undesirable abt ur decision....if he feels which you hve 2 do issues w/ him which you dnt experience such as you desire b/c you're saving urself, go away him lifeless n his tracks & keave him the place he stands...you will alter 2 existence w/o him..he appears like a bum besides...i'm 24 & havent performed a million/2 the flaws hes performed @ 19...Ewwwwwwwwww 2 Cody :p
2016-10-03 01:56:17 · answer #8 · answered by bruinius 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2007-10-31 17:42:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
yeh my brother HATESSS drinking, smoking and drugs. His never touched it and never will - the only time his everrrr had alchol was in lemon lime and bitters. His 20 :)
2007-10-31 18:04:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋