is there any one who knows for what we are here in the world?

Question

hi i m 24 years married female totally disturbed. my life has become full of sorrow. i was in lov or u can say that was my mistake what i told to my husband n now he doesn' talk to me n tell all this to my parents-in-law, only he was tha last hope of my life now there is nothing for me, no one os responsing from his side tell me what to do i don't want to live in this world

Answer 1

Even if you think that your husband was the last hope of you life, perhaps you are wrong. Maybe you need to go somewhere else and get a fresh start, meet someone new, and maybe it will be the perfect man that you can grow old with.

Answer 2

At 24 years old and life is already filled with so much sorrow. This pain your feeling now is for a reason, believe me everything is. Although we don't understand why at the time, and at some point later on in life you will start to realize it was all to make you stronger. Don't cave in! Fight for whatever makes you happy letting go of those things that bring you grief. Be strong and find something to believe in, with belief comes hope and with hope you can make it through anything. Good luck

Answer 3

I have said things I wish I could take back. What you can do is wait and while you wait send a card to his work or to mutual friend. Tell him you are want to talk. Since he is being shielded by in-laws you will need to reach him when he is some where else.
Try to do something constructive - don't allow yourself to dwell on this over and over - pray for hope and strength and reconciliation.

I don't know where you live or if you are connected with a church - it may help to speak to a pastor. They can be very encouraging and helpful.

Answer 4

Stop feeling sorry for yourself. Your not disturbed, alittle lonely maybe and possibly lost alittle of oneself. Get out of yourself by working if you don't already, or take up a sport.
Join a club where you meet others.
A person who has too much time on there hands will find themselves out of touch and possibly lack confidence.

Give yourself alittle credit, communication between hubby and wife is terribly important. Find something that both of you could do together, and you will find life is not that bad.
Dancing class - Tennis - they are all social.
Good luck.

Answer 5

we all have our very own unique purpose in life, that's why we're different from one another...try to calm down ok, problems and bad days go away in time. if there is no one you can turn to in your home, there's the internet, your friends, counseling on the phone...talking about your problems with others will help you feel better. hang in there. all of us go through trials and difficult times. i am thinking that when you get past all this, you will become a stronger, better person.

Answer 6

We are here right now, to seek out people of character through their Q's & As, and suddenly be in a virtual community of thinkers and souls who actually care what you think, and where your answers might really help someone..you are important to us...so ...buck up, girl...sharpen those horns on your helmet, and start kicking @sses and taking names...think of those thousands of others like you who never even heard of Y'answers... life is a gift..it'll take a little time...but you are young and strong....
a friend

Answer 7

You need God in your life. Get a New Living translation of the Holy Bible, which is written in plain modern English. In it's pages you will find the answers to how we got here, why we are here and where we are going and how to get there.

Answer 8

I hear ya. My fiance just left me a month ago and within a week met someone on line and moved in with her. I was with him three years and now it is as if I don't exsist. He also will not pay me back all the money he used me for. Email me or instant message whenever you want.....you have my sympathy

Answer 9

I often wonder the same thing. Then I think about my Mom crying at my funeral. We are all important in the big picture even though we don't see the big picture. Faith is knowing that it's for good for you to live! Ultimatly satisfying! You don't end here!

Answer 10

Just talk to him as to what is wrong? try to sort out issues, difficulties, or differences if any. Debate. Then if nothing works you may visit a marriage counsellor who might guide you.